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Jennifer Lopez caught chastising “miserable” Ben Affleck

<p>The prestigious Grammy Awards are never without their share of drama, and the 2023 show has proven to be no exception.</p> <p>American singer, actress, and dancer Jennifer Lopez was there to present the award for Best Pop Vocal Album, and brought her husband Ben Affleck along as her date. But it was their time in the audience that caught the attention of eagle-eyed viewers, and propelled an exchange between the pair to viral heights.</p> <p>Affleck, who is no stranger to being the subject of “miserable” internet memes, became the focus of such attention all over again with his attendance at the ceremony. While he was there to support his wife and celebrate the other artists at Crypto.com Arena, Ben spent his night appearing as though he’d rather be anywhere else.</p> <p>As one Buzzfeed editor put it, “however bad of a day you’re having, I promise you’re not as miserable as Ben Affleck at the Grammys right now.”</p> <p>“Someone please check on Ben Affleck,” Chicks in the Office podcast tweeted.</p> <p>Later in the night, that same podcast suggested a save for the struggling actor, “Ben Affleck, blink if you're okay.”</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">Ben Affleck, blink if you're okay <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/Grammys?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#Grammys</a> <a href="https://t.co/qO6xBPAbXl">pic.twitter.com/qO6xBPAbXl</a></p> <p>— Chicks in the Office (@ChicksInTheOff) <a href="https://twitter.com/ChicksInTheOff/status/1622415690052272128?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">February 6, 2023</a></p></blockquote> <p>As social media got to work making the most out of Ben’s bad situation, another clip from the evening was set to overshadow them all.</p> <p>The video, shared across Twitter and TikTok, sees Ben lean in to whisper something in Jennifer’s ear. While it’s unclear what was said, Jennifer can be seen jumping in her seat, tense, before she responds and ushers her husband back to his own chair. She quickly turns her attention to Trevor Noah, the show’s host, who was nearby with cameras.</p> <p>“Her face when she saw the camera,” a viewer wrote of Jennifer’s response, “LOL.”</p> <p>While some called for a little help from lip readers in figuring out what had transpired, most were in agreement: Jennifer was not impressed.</p> <p>Ben’s situation wasn’t set to improve, with viewer commentary following his journey on what seemed to be a long, long night for the actor.</p> <p>“Ben Affleck is every introvert everywhere,” tweeted one fan, “you can see his batteries draining in real time. Man is already at 23%.”</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">Ben Affleck is every introvert everywhere. You can see his batteries draining in real time. Man is already at 23% 🪫 <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/GRAMMYs?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#GRAMMYs</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/SaveBen?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#SaveBen</a> <a href="https://t.co/Yv5zmzbPhr">pic.twitter.com/Yv5zmzbPhr</a></p> <p>— Dr. Kinda Decent Human (@amsi81) <a href="https://twitter.com/amsi81/status/1622426018265944069?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">February 6, 2023</a></p></blockquote> <p>“Ben Affleck is so consistent in his misery,” one noted, sharing a clip of J-Lo dancing by a dour Ben, “I almost have to admire it.”</p> <p>“Ben Affleck wants to go home, Jen,” another agreed, adding that “everyone in this video looks like they are vibing to a different song.”</p> <p>“Whoever keeps cutting to Ben Affleck as he gets more and more exasperated,” one viewer tweeted on behalf of the masses, “thank you.”</p> <p>The couple, who have been together on-and-off since 2001 and married since 2022, skipped the event’s red carpet. But if Ben’s attitude is anything to go by, that isn’t all he would like to have missed out on.</p> <p><em>Images: Getty</em></p> <p> </p>

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Meryl Streep reveals why she was “miserable” making her iconic movie

<p>Oscar-winning actress Meryl Streep has revealed the difficult time she had onset of one of her most well-known films.</p> <p>Streep perfectly incapsulated <em>The Devil Wears Prada</em> character, Miranda Priestly, who was the editor-in-chief of a high fashion magazine and the blueprint for a boss from hell</p> <p>It has been 15 years since the world first got to see Streep in a new, brilliantly-played light, and now she and her co-stars have revealed what it was like working on the film.</p> <p>Streep is now 71, and boldly revealed that she employed method acting while filming.</p> <p>She often chose to retain elements of her icy, mean-spirited character, even off-set.</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7841857/meryl-streep-devil-wears-prada.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/621a7033204a429eb5d698af827deb40" /></p> <p>It became an often occurrence that she would brush off her co-stars Emily Blunt and Anne Hathaway.</p> <p>“Meryl is so gregarious and fun as hell, in some ways it wasn’t the most fun for her having to remove herself,” Blunt told the publication.</p> <p>“It wasn’t like she was unapproachable; You could go up to her and say, ‘Oh my God, the funniest thing just happened,’ and she’d listen, but I don’t know if it was the most fun for her to be on set being that way.”</p> <p>Streep said filming the movie “was horrible!</p> <p>“I was [miserable] in my trailer. I could hear them all rocking and laughing. I was so depressed! I said, ‘Well, it’s the price you pay for being boss!’”</p> <p>She went on to say: “That’s the last time I ever attempted a Method thing!”</p> <p>Streep’s performance earned her a host of high-profile awards including a Golden Globe and a nomination for an Oscar.</p> <p>The star has since been nominated for the industry’s highest honour seven more times.</p> <p>Hathaway agreed with Blunt that Steep put up an unnatural wall during film, but admitted it helped.</p> <p>“I did feel intimidated, but I always felt cared for,” she explained.</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7841855/meryl-streep-devil-wears-prada-2.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/615433f6b7d84a6d8266b82b811ca3f4" /></p> <p>“I knew that whatever she was doing to create that fear, I appreciated [because] I also knew she was watching out for me.”</p> <p>Streep’s character has drawn comparisons to <em>Vogue </em>editor Anna Wintour who has had to knock down several rumours that she is an unkind boss.</p> <p>“I wasn’t interested in doing a biopic on Anna; I was interested in her position in her company. I wanted to take on the burdens she had to carry, along with having to look nice every day,” Streep said.</p> <p>The A-lister also spoke on the movie’s worldwide appeal, despite being marketed toward women as counter-programming for<em> Superman Returns.</em></p> <p>“Because they’d given us such straitened circumstances to make the film with a smaller budget, this opened up and said that a ‘chick flick’ can be a huge hit with a broad audience,” she said.</p> <p>“This is the first movie [where] men have come up to me and said, ‘I know how you felt; I have a company, and nobody understands me. It’s really hard.’</p> <p>It’s the hardest thing in the world for a man to feel his way through to the protagonist of the film if it’s a woman.”</p> <p> </p>

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Australia has failed miserably on energy efficiency – and government figures hide the truth

<p>Amid the urgent need to slow climate change by cutting greenhouse gas emissions, energy efficiency makes sense. But as Australia’s chief scientist Alan Finkel <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2020/jun/21/chief-scientist-joins-calls-for-australia-to-dramatically-boost-energy-efficiency">last week warned</a>, we’re not “anywhere close to having that nailed”.</p> <p>Energy efficiency means using less energy to achieve the same outcomes. It’s the <a href="http://www.climateinstitute.org.au/verve/_resources/TCI_BoostingAustraliasEnergyProductivity_July2013.pdf">cheapest way</a> to cut greenhouse gas emissions and achieve our climate goals. Improving energy efficiency is also vital to achieving so-called “energy productivity” – getting more economic output, using the same or less energy.</p> <p>But Australia’s <a href="https://www.energy.gov.au/government-priorities/energy-productivity-and-energy-efficiency/national-energy-productivity-plan">national energy productivity plan</a>, agreed by the nation’s energy ministers in 2015, has gone nowhere.</p> <p>It set a goal of a 40% improvement in energy productivity by 2030. But my analysis, based on the most recent official data, shows that in the three years to 2017-18, energy productivity increased by a mere 1.1%.</p> <p>Clearly, there is much work to do. So let’s take a look at the problem and the potential solutions.</p> <p><strong>Energy efficiency: a low-hanging fruit</strong></p> <p>Better energy efficiency lowers electricity bills, makes businesses more competitive and helps manage energy demand. Of course, it also means less greenhouse gas emissions, because fewer fossil fuels are burnt for energy.</p> <p>Business, unions and green groups recognise the benefits. Last month they joined forces to <a href="https://www.bca.com.au/building_a_stronger_and_cleaner_post_pandemic_australia">call for</a> a sustainable COVID-19 economic recovery, with energy efficiency at the core, saying:</p> <p><em>In Australia, a major drive to improve the energy efficiency of buildings and industry could deliver over 120,000 job-years of employment […] Useful upgrades could be made across Australia’s private and public housing; commercial, community and government buildings; and industrial facilities.</em></p> <p>The group said improvements could include:</p> <ul> <li>more efficient and controllable appliances and equipment, especially for heating and cooling</li> <li>improved shading and thermal envelopes (improving the way a building’s walls, ceiling and floors prevent heat transfer)</li> <li>smart meters to measure energy use</li> <li>distributed energy generation and storage, such as wind and solar backed by batteries</li> <li>fuel switching (replacing inefficient fuels with cleaner and economical alternatives)</li> <li>equipment, training and advice for better energy management.</li> </ul> <p>The International Energy Agency (IEA) has suggested <a href="https://www.iea.org/news/iea-offers-world-governments-a-sustainable-recovery-plan-to-boost-economic-growth-create-millions-of-jobs-and-put-emissions-into-structural-decline">other measures</a> for industry and manufacturing, such as:</p> <ul> <li>installing more efficient electric motors</li> <li>switching from gas to electric heat pumps</li> <li>more waste and material recycling.</li> </ul> <p>And in transport, the IEA suggests incentives to get older, less efficient cars off the roads and encourage the uptake of electric vehicles.</p> <p><strong>Governments’ sleight of hand</strong></p> <p>In 2018 <a href="https://www.iea.org/reports/energy-policies-of-iea-countries-australia-2018-review">the IEA observed</a>:</p> <p><em>the power sector will be at the heart of Australia’s energy system transformation […] International best practice suggests that both energy efficiency and renewable energy are key drivers of the energy transition.</em></p> <p>Since then, renewable energy’s share of the electricity mix has increased. But energy productivity has stalled.</p> <p>To understand how, we must define a few key terms.</p> <p><em>Primary</em> energy refers to energy extracted from the environment, such as coal, crude oil, and electrical energy collected by a wind turbine or solar panel.</p> <p><em>Final</em> energy is the energy supplied to a consumer, such as electricity delivered to homes or fuel pumped at a petrol station.</p> <p>A lot of energy is lost in the process of turning extracted primary fuels into ready-to-use fuels for consumers. For example at coal-fired power stations, on average, <a href="https://www.energy.gov/sites/prod/files/2013/04/f0/HS_Coal_Studyguide_draft1.pdf">one-third of the energy </a>supplied by burning coal is converted to electricity. The remainder is lost as waste heat.</p> <p>Until 2015, Australia and most other countries used final energy as a measure of how rapidly energy efficiency was improving. But the national productivity plan instead set goals around primary energy productivity – aiming to increase it by 40% between 2015 and 2030.</p> <p>This has made it possible for governments to hide how badly Australia is travelling on improving energy efficiency. I analysed <a href="https://parlinfo.aph.gov.au/parlInfo/search/display/display.w3p;query=Id:%22library/prspub/17I30%22">national accounts</a> figures and <a href="https://www.energy.gov.au/government-priorities/energy-data/australian-energy-statistics">energy statistics</a>, to produce the below table. It reveals the governments’ sleight of hand.</p> <p>Over the three years from 2014-15 to 2017-18, final energy productivity increased by only 1.1%, whereas primary energy productivity increased by 3.5%.</p> <p>The reduced primary energy consumption is mostly due to a large increase in wind and solar generation. The efficiency of energy used by final consumers has scarcely changed.</p> <p><strong>A sustainable future</strong></p> <p>The lack of progress on energy productivity is not surprising, given governments have shown very little interest in the issue.</p> <p>As Finkel noted in his address, Australia’s energy productivity plan is absent from the list of national climate and energy policies. The plan’s 2019 annual report has not been released. And those released since 2015 have not monitored progress in energy productivity.</p> <p>What’s more, the plan makes no mention of previous similar agreements, in <a href="https://www.aph.gov.au/Parliamentary_Business/Bills_Legislation/bd/bd0910/10bd152">2004</a> and <a href="https://www.energyrating.gov.au/document/report-national-strategy-energy-efficiency">2009</a>, to accelerate energy efficiency with regulation and financial incentives. Since 2013, almost all Commonwealth programs supporting those agreements have been de-funded or <a href="https://www.aph.gov.au/Parliamentary_Business/Bills_Legislation/Bills_Search_Results/Result?bId=r5232">abolished</a>, and many state programs have also been cut back.</p> <p>The IEA’s <a href="https://www.iea.org/news/iea-offers-world-governments-a-sustainable-recovery-plan-to-boost-economic-growth-create-millions-of-jobs-and-put-emissions-into-structural-decline">sustainable recovery plan</a>, released last week, outlined what a sustainable global economic recovery might look like. In particular, it said better energy efficiency and switching to more efficient electric technologies will deliver triple benefits: increased employment, a more productive economy and lower greenhouse gas emissions.</p> <p>In this carbon-constrained world, relatively easy and cheap opportunities such as energy efficiency must be seized. And as Australia spends to get its post-pandemic economy back on track, now is the time to act.</p> <p><em>Written by Hugh Saddler. Republished with permission of <a href="https://theconversation.com/australia-has-failed-miserably-on-energy-efficiency-and-government-figures-hide-the-truth-123176">The Conversation.</a> </em></p>

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“You miserable bums:” Carrie Bickmore steps in after Waleed Aly’s awkward refusal

<p><em>The Project</em> host Waleed Aly had what appeared to be an awkward gaff on Monday night’s episode, when he flat out refused to read an autocue live on-air. </p> <p>The Gold Logie winner is a well known super fan of Australian cricket, and the Ashes loss seemed to take a toll on him, along with his co-hosts Peter Helliar and Steve Price. </p> <p>Following an interview with Survivor contestant Shaun Hampson, Waleed’s face turned to stone as he began to read the autocue. </p> <p>“To the next story now and I refuse to read this,” the 41-year-old said, before turning to Peter and Steve to read it but they also said no. </p> <p>Carrie was then forced to take the reigns and read the headlines about the devastating <em>Ashes</em> loss for Australia. </p> <p>“Come on, you miserable bums. Australia just lost the unlosable test. How, oh how, did we just drop the Ashes,” she said. </p> <p>Many experts are claiming this game was the best Aussies have gotten to see in decades. Waleed went on to point out four powerful moments that cost Australia the “unlosable” match. </p> <p>These included Marcus Harris dropping the ball, Nathan Lyon botching a run-out chance, an incorrect video referral and an umpire calling an LBW not out. </p> <p><em>The Project</em> host congratulated England vice-captain Ben Stokes, who hit 135 not out and his winning runs - labelling it as one of the greatest innings of all time.</p>

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Jamie Oliver admits: “I've been pretty miserable”

<p>He’s built an empire worth hundreds of millions of dollars, boasts legions of fans and has a beautiful young family, but Jamie Oliver says his job is often “pretty miserable”.</p> <p>The celebrity chef, 42, confessed in an interview with Radio Times that, while his job has brought him fame and fortune, it <a href="/lifestyle/retirement-life/2017/11/is-jamie-oliver-set-to-quit/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">hasn’t brought him much happiness</span></strong></a>.</p> <p>“When you’re truly happy, I don’t think that you’re pushing yourself,” he explained. “But I’ve been pretty miserable. It isn’t nice. I don’t know if I’d prescribe my career to anyone else. I don’t say I have regrets, but it’s complex.</p> <p>“It’s quite a lonely place. It still does get to me about once a year. I do wobble. I’m pretty tough, but I’m human. The public only see one third of what I actually do for a job. The press will beat the s**t out of me until they feel sorry for me. Then they’ll build me back up again.”</p> <p>Oliver’s breakout TV series <em>The Naked Chef</em> propelled him to stardom in 1999, and in the years since, he’s become only the second UK author (after J.K. Rowling) to sell more than £150 million ($270 million) worth of books.</p> <p>In the candid interview, Oliver also said he wanted to make peace with Gordon Ramsay, calling their <a href="/entertainment/tv/2017/10/gordon-ramsay-blasts-jamie-oliver-over-comment-about-his-family/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">eight-year feud</span></strong></a> “childish”.</p> <p>“I don’t think he liked me taking the high ground. I think that’s basically it. So, I’m going to take the high ground now and say I wish him all the best, and all success. Good luck to him.</p> <p>“We have both got kids, and I don’t know what sort of example we’re setting if we’re arguing like we’re in the playground."</p>

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4 ways you accidentally make yourself miserable

<p>If you spend any time in the online world, especially the one created by social media, you’ll be aware that the concept of “perfection” is a heavily promoted one. From perfect bodies to perfect homes and perfect families, platforms like Facebook and Instagram are virtually heaving with what we’re all supposed to be striving towards. And while the Internet and social media can often be dismissed as a ‘young persons’ world, evidence shows that over 50s and over 60s spend increasing amounts of time online and are not immune to the seductive powers of “online reality”.</p> <p>It can seem to be a relatively harmless pastime but given the right level of exposure and vulnerability, this constant bombardment of perfectionism can end up becoming a destructive force. Here are four reasons why believing in "perfect" is contributing to your dissatisfaction in various areas of your life.</p> <p><strong>1. Trying to be perfect is preventing you from committing to a relationship if you're single, or being satisfied with your current one if you're not</strong></p> <p>Relationships aren’t perfect but if the online world is to be believed, they come pretty close. By accepting what you see on the screen as reality you often automatically compare your own relationship and find it comes up wanting. Being aware that every relationship, regardless of how it looks from the outside, has its ups and downs and ins and outs is key.</p> <p><strong>2. Trying to be perfect is making you hate your appearance</strong></p> <p>The majority of women in particular can empathise with the “If I just…” statement. It usually involves changing or altering something about yourself to become “perfect” and apparently result in “happiness”. “If I just lose five kilos/have those sun spots lasered off/whiten my teeth… THEN everything will fall into place.” It’s a false economy, however, because when you achieve those things you’ll realise that nothing has changed and the cycle will start all over again.</p> <p><strong>3. Trying to be perfect is making you suffer through the mundane parts of your job</strong></p> <p>If Facebook and Instagram are to be believed, 98 per cent of people find their careers fulfilling, exhilarating and financially rewarding. They show up each day with a spring in their step and a song in their heart. It certainly makes you, who dreads certain parts of their role or has days when you’d rather be somewhere else, feel as if you’re in the wrong career. The online world highlights the highlights (and deletes the lowlights). By not recognising what you love about your current role, you run the risk of never finding job satisfactions no matter how many paths you follow.</p> <p><strong>4. Trying to be perfect is making you resent everyday dissatisfaction and annoyances</strong></p> <p>A perfect world doesn’t have imperfect experiences or emotions, at least that’s what many in the spotlight would have you believe. Surely a perfect life doesn’t include a parking fine or big blob of tomato sauce on a brand new skirt. It’s very easy to fall prey to playing the victim when you come to expect a life devoid of challenges. This mindset can be very difficult to shift once you’re in it. Recognising that life is inherent with challenges is key.</p> <p>Related links:</p> <p><a href="/health/mind/2016/06/why-happiness-equals-better-health-and-a-longer-life/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Why happiness equals better health and a longer life</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="/health/mind/2016/06/overcoming-pain-using-the-power-of-the-mind/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Overcoming pain using the power of the mind</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="/health/mind/2016/06/pillars-of-a-joyful-life/"><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>5 pillars of a joyful life</strong></span></em></a></p>

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