Move over 'helicopter parents' – there's now a new breed called 'lawnmower parents'
<p>The term ‘helicopter parenting’ is the widely used phrase to describe a hovering parent that dutifully watches for any potential danger.</p>
<p>Now, ‘lawnmower parenting’ is being used to band parents who smooth the path in front of their children, removing any obstacles to happiness and success.</p>
<p>On face value, these parenting styles seem noble, but clinical psychologist Renee Mill told <em>news.com.au</em> what these methods can have on children.</p>
<p>“Parents are stressed and tired enough, but by attempting to micro-manage every aspect of their child’s life they put too much onus on themselves. Frequently, this eventually translates into greater irritability and over time, developing a short fuse.”</p>
<p>Renee explained, “Ironic, isn’t it? We are doing our damnedest to be the best parents and give our children the smoothest life, but it can result in happiness levels at home decreasing because of frayed nerves and nervous tension."</p>
<p>Renee encourages parents to ensure they are having a balanced life and getting enough rest, sleep and food, which will then increase a parent’s capacity to care for their child.</p>
<p>She highlights how it is important for parents to give their children space to grow in independence and resilience.</p>
<p>“A child that needs less managing, that gets up independently in the morning, completes their homework and deals responsibly with teachers and friends, is a child more likely to develop into a successful, self-sufficient adult.”</p>
<p>What do you think of this new style of parenting? Tell us in the comments below. </p>
<p><em><strong>Renee Mill is a senior clinical psychologist and best-selling author. Her latest book, </strong></em><strong>Parenting Without Anger</strong><em><strong>, $32.99 (Impact Press) is available from all good bookstores and online at <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="https://www.booktopia.com.au/search.ep?keywords=Parenting+Without+Anger&productType=917504" target="_blank">Booktopia</a></span>.</strong></em></p>
