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Finding friends after 50

<p>New Australian research has revealed that for women over 50, social connections are more elusive than ever as the demands of their lives change, no longer bound by young children or demanding careers.</p> <p>According to the research, many women over 50 admit that friendships are harder to make then when they were younger (55%), with as many as one in five (18%) acknowledging they don’t have a single close friend they feel they can lean on for help. Almost half (48%) admitted that despite having friends, there are still times when they feel they have no one they can talk to.</p> <p>The research was conducted by <a href="https://www.connectedwomen.net" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Connected Women</a>, an organisation that aims to provide a community for women over 50 who are most at risk of loneliness, to connect and build lifelong friendships via a range of online and in-person events. The nationally representative sample of 1,039 women aimed to understand the friendships of women over 50, and how they build and maintain social connections at a unique time in their lives – when school activities, children, or careers may no longer bring them together.</p> <p>Interestingly, it is married women over 50 who say they don’t have any friends to lean on (31%) compared to those who are single or divorced (23% respectively). When asked how they handle loneliness, one in two surveyed (50%) admit to muddling through on their own rather than reaching out to a friend partner or colleague.</p> <p>“The epidemic of loneliness is nothing new, but it is worsening, particularly for women who traditionally tend to be the caregivers to so many others,” says Phoebe Adams, co-founder of Connected Women. “As women, we invest so much of our lives into our romantic relationships, our children, our careers, our aging parents, that when we finally have time to invest in ourselves, we often feel those friendships have dwindled or disappeared."</p> <p>“Finding that close knit group of friends who can offer the support and connection to get you through different seasons of your life can often feel really overwhelming when you’ve spent the best part of 30 years taking care of others or building up a career,” she said.</p> <p>According to Phoebe, as we age, it’s not uncommon to forget how to build friendships, “Unlike other times in our lives, where friendship is built on shared experiences – like school, university, work, or chats at the school gate, forming adult friendships can become more elusive the older we get. We also commonly hear of women grieving the loss of past friendships, which can in turn make them nervous to put themselves out there to new explore new friendships.”</p> <p>All this said, Phoebe says the science is clear, “Friendship is essential for long-term health and wellbeing, which is why I was inspired to create Connected Women. As an organisation, we facilitate both intimate and larger style social events – both online and offline – to allow women to dip their toe at a speed and in an environment that suits them best. Connected Women is all about creating a safe space to foster connections be that over coffee or cabaret.”</p> <p>For only $15 per month, women are invited to engage in the online community and via meet ups in their local area. These could be simple coffee catch ups, or more involved activities such as a hike or visit to a vineyard.</p> <p>Members can join activities organised by Connected Women or schedule their own. While the organisation currently operatesin Perth, Sydney, Wollongong, and Melbourne, it will be active in Canberra, Adelaide, and Brisbane by the middle of 2023 with plans to be fully national by the end of the year.</p> <p>Here, Phoebe shares her top tips for making female friends as an adult:</p> <p><strong>1. Seek out enriching communities </strong></p> <p>“The secret to making new friends is to put yourself in a situation where you’ll repeatedly have contact with others,” explains Phoebe. “Something like Connected Women, a safe space for women to connect both online and in the real world, provides a relaxed and comfortable environment where everyone is there for the same sole purpose – meaningful connections and long-term friendships.”</p> <p><strong>2. Build a routine </strong></p> <p>“The more you throw yourself out there, the more comfortable you will get approaching new groups of people and starting conversations,” explains Phoebe. “Whether joining a walking group or book club, consistency in showing up and getting familiar with others in the group is a sure-fire way to establish strong relationships. It’s important to remember that friendships take time, so being consistent and sticking to a routine will help to push things along.”</p> <p><strong>3. Embrace your passions </strong></p> <p>“Whether you’re an avid reader but have never joined a book club or are a passionate hiker but always go it alone, finding something new within an area of interest to throw yourself into will immediately connect you with others who enjoy similar things as yourself,” Phoebe explains.</p> <p><strong>4. Be vulnerable </strong></p> <p>Finally, Phoebe says, it’s OK to be vulnerable. “Setting your intention to make new friendships and sharing this with the people you love will help to foster a supportive community of individuals who will undoubtedly encourage you on your journey.”</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p>

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50 years of the 50 cent coin: The Royal Australian mint releases special collectors edition to mark anniversary

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Royal Australian Mint has issued a commemorative 50 cent coin to mark the 50-cent piece’s five decades of circulation.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The coin, which is a “dodecagon” shape with 12 sides was first minted back in 1969 and has since become a favourite for coin collectors.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Royal Australian Mint CEO Ross MacDiarmid told </span><a href="https://finance.nine.com.au/business-news/finance-news-coin-50c-collectors-royal-australian-mint/68593c7d-5a2e-4737-9d81-cb2111330a79"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Nine Finance</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> about the coin.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">"It’s the coin that has launched many into a world of coin collecting,” he said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“This year Australia commemorates the 50th anniversary of Australia’s most distinctive decimal coin. The most iconic for its unusual shape."</span></p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/BxOHUWGlJas/" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BxOHUWGlJas/" target="_blank">-- 50th Anniversary of the Dodecagon 50c Coin -- Introduced in 1969, the Dodecagonal 50c coin has borne 5 different effigies and more than 30 reverse designs; the latest design released in April commemorates the International Year of Indigenous Languages. In its first year more than 14 million 50 cent coins were produced bearing the Commonwealth Coat of Arms and in the years since over 1 billion coins have been released into circulation. Which design is your favourite? #50c #fiftycent #stuartdevlin #1969 #indigenouslanguages #allthecoins #numismatics #coin #collecting</a></p> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;">A post shared by <a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/royalaustmint/" target="_blank"> Royal Australian Mint</a> (@royalaustmint) on May 8, 2019 at 4:48pm PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A round 50-cent coin was made from silver and introduced back in 1966, but two years later was taken out of circulation due to the rising prices of silver.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In September 1969, the 12-sided coin we know now was reintroduced and was made from copper-nickel alloy.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The anniversary coins, which has featured five different effigies of the Queen and a number of commemorative designs, are legal tender and are available from the Royal Australian Mint’s website.</span></p>

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The 14 Indigenous words for money on our new 50 cent coin

<p>When you rifle around in your purse for some change soon, you might be lucky enough to pull out a new 50 cent coin, launched today by the<span> </span><a href="https://www.ramint.gov.au/">Royal Australian Mint</a><span> </span>to celebrate the<span> </span><a href="https://en.iyil2019.org/">International Year of Indigenous Languages</a>.</p> <p>The coin, developed in consultation with Indigenous language custodian groups and designed by the Mint’s Aleksandra Stokic, features 14 different words for “money” from Australian Indigenous languages. But where do these words come from?</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/BwA1eaVoz5-/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BwA1eaVoz5-/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Royal Australian Mint (@royalaustmint)</a> on Apr 8, 2019 at 4:30pm PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p> </p> <p><strong>Old words for new things</strong></p> <p>Money, or an object which abstractly represented the value of goods and services, did not exist in Australia before European colonisation. Trade occurred, but it was between items deemed to be of similar worth, for example, pearl shell, quartz, food or songs. With the entry of money into the Indigenous economy, new words were needed to refer to coins and later, notes.</p> <p>Most Indigenous words for money come from words for “stone”, “rock” or “pebble”, no doubt in reference to the size and shape of coins. On the new 50 cent coin, you’ll find words for “stone” from across Australia:</p> <ul> <li>from the Northern Territoy,<span> </span><em>wumara</em><span> </span>(from the<span> </span><a href="http://ausil.org/Dictionary/Gurindji/">Gurindji</a><span> </span>language),<span> </span><em>wangarri</em>(<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Warumungu_language">Warumungu</a>),<span> </span><em>gudaru</em><span> </span>(<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alawa_language">Alawa</a>) and<span> </span><em>awarnda</em><span> </span>(<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enindhilyagwa_language">Anindilyakwa</a>)</li> <li>from Western Australia,<span> </span><em>boya</em><span> </span>(<a href="https://www.theguardian.com/culture/2016/sep/02/ngean-noonar-noongar-is-australias-first-indigenous-wikipedia-we-want-to-use-our-language">Nyungar</a>) and<span> </span><em>tjimari</em><span> </span>(<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yankunytjatjara_dialect">Yankunytjatjara</a>)</li> <li>and from Queensland,<span> </span><em>bakir</em><span> </span>(<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meriam_people">Meriam</a>),<span> </span><em>mulu</em><span> </span>(<a href="https://www.yugambeh.com/language-resources">Yugambeh</a>) and<span> </span><em>nambal</em><span> </span>(<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Guugu_Yimithirr_language">Guugu Yimithirr</a>).</li> </ul> <p><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kaytetye_language">Kaytetye</a>, spoken in Central Australia, and<span> </span><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kaurna">Kaurna</a>, the language of Adelaide, go against the trend by extending the words<span> </span><em>ngkweltye</em><span> </span>and<span> </span><em>pirrki</em><span> </span>(which both mean “piece”), to also mean “money”.</p> <p><a href="http://muurrbay.org.au/languages/gathang/">Gathang</a>, from the Central New South Wales coast, uses<span> </span><em>dhinggarr</em><span> </span>“grey”, perhaps due to the colour of most coins, and<span> </span><em>walang</em><span> </span>“head”, presumably in reference to the monarch’s head on the coin.<span> </span><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wiradjuri">Wiradjuri</a>, from the same area, also uses<span> </span><em>walang</em>, but in this case it means “stone”.</p> <p><strong>Other words for 'money' from Indigenous languages</strong></p> <p>The diversity of Indigenous words for money on the new coin is an attempt to reflect the linguistic tapestry of Australia, a nation of over 300 languages and many more dialects. However, the words on the coin are just a small sample of Indigenous terms for money.</p> <p>Some languages differentiate between coins and paper money.<span> </span><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murrinh-patha_language">Murrinh-patha</a>, spoken in the Daly River region of the Northern Territory, uses<span> </span><em>palyirr</em><span> </span>“stone” for coins and<span> </span><em>we</em>“paperbark” to mean notes.</p> <p>Other languages have words that vary by denomination.<span> </span><a href="http://ausil.org/Dictionary/Alyawarr/index-english/index.htm">Alyawarr</a>, spoken just north of Alice Springs, uses<span> </span><em>aherr-angketyarr</em><span> </span>“lots of kangaroos” to refer to the A$1 coin, and<span> </span><em>rnter-rnter</em><span> </span>“red” in reference to $20 notes.</p> <p>Alyawarr people also say<span> </span><em>kwert-apeny</em><span> </span>“like smoke” for $100 notes. This is perhaps confusing at first, until you recall the original light blue and grey<span> </span><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Australian_one_hundred-dollar_note">$100 note (1984-1996) depicting Sir Douglas Mawson</a>.</p> <p><strong>Borrowed words for money</strong></p> <p>In some cases, terms for money have been borrowed from other languages. The English word “money” has been given a local flavour by different languages, for example:<span> </span><em>mani/moni</em>(<a href="http://ausil.org/Dictionary/Kriol/lexicon/index.htm">Kriol</a>) and<span> </span><em>maniyi</em><span> </span>or<span> </span><em>tala</em><span> </span>(<a href="http://ausil.org/Dictionary/Warlpiri/lexicon/index.htm">Warlpiri</a>).</p> <p>Another borrowing comes from Australia’s close neighbours. The legacy of 18th century<span> </span><a href="https://www.nma.gov.au/defining-moments/resources/trade-with-the-makasar">Macassan traders</a><span> </span>from present-day Indonesia remains in words for “money” originally derived from<span> </span><em>rupiah</em><span> </span>(Indonesia’s word for currency). These include<span> </span><em>rrupiya</em><span> </span>(<a href="http://ausil.org/Dictionary/Maung/lexicon/index.htm">Mawng</a>,<span> </span><a href="http://ausil.org/Dictionary/Burarra/index-english/main.htm">Burarra</a>,<span> </span><a href="http://ausil.org/Dictionary/Djinang/lexicon/index.htm">Djinang</a>) and<span> </span><em>wurrupiya</em><span> </span>(<a href="http://ausil.org/Dictionary/Tiwi/lexicon/main.htm">Tiwi</a>). (And note that Tiwi also uses<span> </span><em>wurrukwati</em><span> </span>“mussel shell” for “money”).</p> <p>Probably the most innovative borrowing for money, still used throughout south-western Queensland, is<span> </span><em>banggu</em>. The word derives from<span> </span><em>bank</em><span> </span>and<span> </span><em>–gu</em>, the latter being used to express ownership. So<span> </span><em>banggu</em><span> </span>literally means “of the bank”, and perhaps emerged during the period in Queensland history when the state government was withholding wages from Indigenous people. These stolen wages are now thought to be worth as much as<span> </span><a href="https://www.aph.gov.au/Parliamentary_Business/Committees/Senate/Legal_and_Constitutional_Affairs/Completed_inquiries/2004-07/stolen_wages/report/index">A$500 million</a><span> </span>in<span> </span><em>banggu</em>.</p> <p><strong>Indigenous representation on Australian currency</strong></p> <p>Indigenous Australians have not always been well represented on Australian currency. Take the bark painting by David Malangi on the back of the old $1 note released in 1966,<span> </span><a href="https://theconversation.com/dollar-dave-and-the-reserve-bank-a-tale-of-art-theft-and-human-rights-56593">which was used without consent or acknowledgement</a>, or the<span> </span><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Australian_ten-dollar_note">first polymer $10 note</a>, released in 1988, which featured an anonymous Indigenous man painted up for ceremony.</p> <p>Contrast this to 1995, when the Indigenous man on the $50 note was named as the first published Indigenous author, Ngarrindjeri writer<span> </span><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Unaipon">David Unaipon</a>, or 2017 when<span> </span><a href="https://www.ramint.gov.au/publications/new-coin-designed-boneta-marie-mabo-released-circulation-national-reconciliation-week">a commemorative 50 cent coin</a><span> </span>was designed by Boneta-Marie Mabo and released for National Reconciliation Week.</p> <p>The use of multiple words for money on the new coin challenges the myth of a single Australian language. It also represents a shift to naming and individuation: from depicting Australian Indigenous people and their languages as a single group, to recognising the diversity of these groups and their languages.</p> <p><em>Written by Felicity Meakins and Michael Walsh. Republished with permission of <a href="https://theconversation.com/the-14-indigenous-words-for-money-on-our-new-50-cent-coin-113110">The Conversation.</a></em></p>

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How to live a more simple life

<p><em><strong>Johanna Castro is a food and wine loving baby boomer who likes to keep fit and healthy. She loves sharing conversations with women over 50 and writes <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://www.lifestylefifty.com/" target="_blank">Lifestyle Fifty</a></span> to empower women to live the good life as they get older.</strong></em></p> <p>For a long time now we’ve been contemplating living a more simple life.</p> <p>You know, I think back to when we were first married and we really didn’t need or have many material possessions. Life was quite simple – work, eat, sleep and make a lot of merry. Housework didn’t enter the equation. Insurances weren’t required. Car services and licensing weren’t necessary (no car) and so on and so forth.</p> <p>These days, now the kids are grown up, we’ve cut down to one car, and each time we move we do throw out a lot of possessions (we’ve moved a lot) but even so we still have far too much stuff for just two people living together close-ish to retirement.</p> <p>Sometimes it’s easy to forget what’s important in life, isn’t it? At least it is until you’re confronted with horrible things like death or serious illness.</p> <p>In an effort to become more focussed on what’s important, I’m trying to change my thinking. I’m paying more attention to the precious moments, and I’m trying to pare my life down into a simpler version of its former self. That’s not to say that I don’t want to age fabulously and live the good life, it’s just perhaps the good life with all its previous embodiments is changing shape.</p> <p>I came across a new word recently, which perfectly embodies this life changing attitude.</p> <p>The Danish word <em>hygge </em>means social cosiness or wellbeing. It refers to a way of life rooted in togetherness and appreciating life’s joys. Apparently it’s one of the reasons the people of Denmark are some of the happiest in the world.</p> <p>It means the absence of anything annoying or overwhelming but having the presence of gentle soothing things.</p> <p>I like that idea.</p> <p><strong>Unclutter your life</strong></p> <p>Leo Babauta says in Zen Habits that a simple life is: “A life uncluttered by most of the things people fill their lives with, and left with space for what really matters. A life that isn’t constant busy-ness and rushing, but contemplation and creation, connection with people I love and time for nature and activity.”</p> <p><em>“A man is rich in proportion to the number of things which he can afford to let alone.” – Henry David Thoreau</em></p> <p>I agree with Leo Babauta on so many things about simpler living, and I love some of the ideas he puts forward on his blog Zen Habits which include some of the following tips.</p> <p><strong>How to live a more simple life</strong></p> <ol start="1"> <li>Declutter your home – go on … if it’s not beautiful or useful, get rid of it. This means sentimental pieces too.</li> <li>Make time to have an uncrushed breakfast, with time for a cup of tea or coffee and a little time to mediate or read.</li> <li>Realise that to live more simply, you have to let go of some of the things you’re used to.</li> <li>This can in itself be challenging because it’s hard to give things up.</li> <li>So do things in stages. Put items in the garage and see if you miss them.</li> <li>If you don’t miss them for a month – give them away or ditch them.</li> <li>Cut the cable – to cable TV – say goodbye to crappy ads and time wasting programmes that add no value to your life</li> <li>Retail therapy? Nope. Shopping for things to fill our homes (except for essentials) is a waste of time and money.</li> <li>Decide upon your needs and write off your ‘wants’.</li> <li>Don’t fill your life with distractions. Concentrate on the here and now and the pleasurable small moments.</li> <li>Make time to exercise and spend time with your family.</li> <li>Stop playing video games, and cut down the time you spend on social media.</li> <li>Create an environment for connection, a picnic, a camp fire, camping, put your phone away and enjoy each other’s company.</li> <li>Think social cosiness – it’s about how much you listen to the person sitting opposite you.</li> <li> Have a day each week when you don’t worry one jot about how you look.</li> <li>On the weekend have a nana nap if you want one.</li> <li>Remember it’s not written in stone that you have to be busy every moment of every day.</li> <li>Eat simple home cooked meals using fresh ingredients.</li> <li>By adding more and more (exciting) things to do in our lives, we add more and more overwhelm.</li> <li>Don’t put too much emphasis on excitement and distractions because they are only temporary.</li> <li>Focus on fulfilment rather than money as a measure of success.</li> <li>If you feel connected and loved, so many material things can fall away.</li> </ol> <p><em>“Let’s begin by taking a smallish nap or two.” – Winnie the Pooh</em></p> <p><strong>Reasons to live a simple life</strong></p> <p>In <em>10 Life Affirming Reasons to Live a Simple Life</em>, Brooke McClary says, “There is so much more joy to be had when living a simpler life. The important things bring joy – the improved relationships and connections – the little things – a beautiful sunset, a child’s giggle, a bird in flight, the warmth of a room full of friends. You will have the time and energy to feel these.</p> <p>Pip Lincolne, a well-known blogger and crafter who lives in Melbourne, has written a book called <em>Craft for the Soul</em>. She says:</p> <p><em>“I wanted to write a book about creativity and happiness, and how to have nice times. I’m into happy moments not high pressured happiness. I think it’s good to know that the crappy bits of life help us to grow into better people and create contrast – but we should celebrate the happy moments and be able to say to ourselves, I’m having such a happy time now.”</em></p> <p>Michelle Crawford, a writer and crafter, has written a gorgeous book entitled <em>A Table in the Orchard</em> about her slowed down and more simple life in a small cottage in Tasmania. She also loves tea and toast.</p> <p><em>“I’d been writing a blog about our life in Tasmania with photos and recipes and I got a call from Random House and they said we love your blog and the way it makes us feel and we’d like a book that makes us feel the same. We were seeking the slow life. I like to surround myself with lots of natural environment. Timber surfaces, wool, planters, fresh plants, good things to eat and candles. I find weeding very grounding and gardening is a great stress release for me.”</em></p> <p><strong>Achieving simple comforts</strong></p> <p>How important it is to have simple comforts and a sense of purpose in your life, and where can you find them?</p> <p><em>“I think that pets, food, family, friends, and purpose are the most important things. Why do we wait until we are older until we find these things?  We should focus on simple comforts and forget the noise. We’d get to know each other better. We are so busy surviving in life that we forget where we are going.” Pip Lincolne</em></p> <p><strong>And possessions?</strong></p> <p>For me, I have always loved collecting items on our travels. I think everything in your home should have some meaning. Things that have some connection to you or make your heart sing, they should be a reflection of you, not of some stylist’s overactive mind. My motto these days is if it’s not beautiful, meaningful or useful on a regular basis, then it should not be in my house.</p> <p>Have you chosen to live a simple life, one that is more creative, less pecuniary, and somewhat lacking material possessions? Would you – Could you – Any tips? Let us know in the comment section below.</p> <p><em>This article first appeared on <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://www.lifestylefifty.com/" target="_blank">Johanna Castro’s blog Lifestyle Fifty</a></span></strong>.</em></p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="/health/mind/2016/07/how-to-stop-dwelling-on-negative/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Why we dwell on the negative and how to stop</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="/health/mind/2016/07/what-i-have-learnt-about-compassion/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>What I’ve learnt about compassion</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="/health/mind/2016/07/secret-to-quieting-a-frazzled-mind/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>The secret to quieting a frazzled mind</strong></em></span></a></p>

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