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Mum fined for pumping breast milk in the car

<p dir="ltr">A mum from Queensland has received a hefty fine for something she has done many times before. </p> <p dir="ltr">Meagan Schmock and her husband Benjamin were travelling home from their honeymoon on the Gold Coast when Meagan, who is a breastfeeding mum, started to feel unwell. </p> <p dir="ltr">"I was getting quite engorged and it was getting incredibly uncomfortable for me. It's throbbing, it's hot," Mrs Schmock told <a href="https://9now.nine.com.au/a-current-affair/queensland-mum-fined-after-pumping-breast-milk-in-passenger-seat/e2a4be4a-7201-43df-896c-ddbff34acee8" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>A Current Affair</em></a>.</p> <p dir="ltr">Meagan was in the passenger seat while her husband drove, so Meagan was able to pump breast milk for her 10-month-old son Billy. </p> <p dir="ltr">"To have to sit in the car for an hour-and-a-half, maybe two hours, waiting to get home to feed my little one, It just wasn't going to happen," Mrs Schmock said.</p> <p dir="ltr">While pumping, traffic cameras snapped a picture of the mum adjusting herself for a split second, resulting in a fine. </p> <p dir="ltr">"They have captured me taking my seatbelt off, putting it underneath my arm so I can unhook my breast pump," she said.</p> <p dir="ltr">Mrs Schmock said her seatbelt remained fastened the whole time and only slipped under her armpit for a split second.</p> <p dir="ltr">However, the manoeuver has now landed her husband a hefty infringement notice for driving with a passenger who failed to wear their seatbelt correctly.</p> <p dir="ltr">"It was $1161 and four demerit points. I was gob-smacked. I was shocked," Mrs Schmock said.</p> <p dir="ltr">"I saw the money fine first and I was just like, 'what's happened'? And then as I've unfolded the letter, I've seen this photo and then looked closer and been like, 'that's me pumping'."</p> <p dir="ltr">Mrs Schmock said she had no idea you could be fined for readjusting your seat belt, and shared the story of the fine on social media. </p> <p dir="ltr">Other mums chimed in on the incident, saying they were grateful for Meagan’s story. </p> <p dir="ltr">"I felt a lot of support from that - realising that a lot more (mums) didn't know," Mrs Schmock said.</p> <p dir="ltr">Another Queensland mum also learned the same lesson the hard way.</p> <p dir="ltr">The same seatbelt camera also captured her in the passenger seat pumping breast milk and she was fined $413 and three demerit points.</p> <p dir="ltr">"As a breastfeeding mum - and I'm sure any other mums who have breastfeed or who have pumped before know that - you can't just really wait," Mrs Schmock said.</p> <p dir="ltr">Meagan and Benjamin Schmock are now disputing the fine with the Department of Transport and Main Roads, and they are considering exploring the potential for a seat belt exemption due to a medical condition.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credits: A Current Affair</em></p>

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Mum shamed and denied food for bottle feeding her baby

<p>A Brisbane mother has been left feeling "devastated, guilty and enraged" after being targeted by a controversial rule after she took her baby to the emergency room. </p> <p>It was the middle of the night when Sarah Stoddart's 12-week-old daughter became extremely unwell. </p> <p>The baby, who Sarah had decided to bottle feed, was vomiting and running a temperature, prompting her worried mother to take her to the emergency department of Prince Charles Hospital in Brisbane's north. </p> <p>Things started to go wrong for Sarah when she was handed a "welcome sheet" after arriving at the hospital.</p> <p>"They had circled and brought to my attention that only breastfeeding mothers were entitled to meals," she <a href="https://www.9news.com.au/national/queensland-mum-denied-food-at-hospital-for-not-breastfeeding-child/f8ea2db9-b448-4ce8-8dfb-6e65657cc5ab" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener" data-i13n="cpos:5;pos:1" data-ylk="slk:told Nine News;cpos:5;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0" data-rapid_p="12" data-v9y="1">told <em>Nine News</em></a>.</p> <p>"First of all [it] made me feel devastated and guilty but then quite enraged, that is a decision that is being made in this country and this state in 2023."</p> <p>Furious, Ms Stoddart claims staff eventually told her that they could "make an exception" and would "sneak through an approval" so that she could get fed.</p> <p>According to Sarah, her partner was at home looking after the couple's other kids, and the whole ordeal left her feeling guilty over a decision that was made for the health of their child.</p> <p>She added that mothers are "already struggling with enough" in the first trimester and "don't need the judgement from the government as to how they chose to feed their child".</p> <p>After speaking out about her treatment at the hospital and raising the issue with Metro North Health, the hospital has changed their policy.</p> <p>"The Prince Charles Hospital now provides meals to parents of children six months and under who are admitted into our care," Prince Charles Hospital said in a statement.</p> <p>"Parents of all patients admitted to the Paediatric Ward at The Prince Charles Hospital have access to food, water, tea and coffee. Further paid options, including fresh food vending machines, cafes and a stocked fridge, are accessible 24hrs a day."</p> <p>Queensland's Health Minister Shannon Fentiman she would work with other hospitals across the state to ensure a similar scenario does not occur again.</p> <p>"It shouldn't really matter whether you are breastfeeding or not, it should be about trying to make our parents who are doing the best they can to look after their sick kids as comfortable as possible," she said.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Nine News</em></p>

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"What is the big deal?" Karl defends breastfeeding mother kicked out of courtroom

<p>Karl Stefanovic has slammed the decision of a judge who kicked out a breastfeeding mother and her child from a courtroom. </p> <p><em>The Today Show</em> host ripped into Judge Mark Gamble, who ejected the wife of a prominent Melbourne Rabbi from Victorian County Court on Thursday after claiming she would be a "distraction". </p> <p>The judge called for the woman to leave the court proceedings, prompting her to leave the room in tears and leaving her feeling humiliated.</p> <p>Stefanovic condemned the decision of the Judge and shared a scathing message for anyone who agreed with how he treated the mother. </p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">A breastfeeding mother and her child were kicked out of a court's public gallery in Victoria, over concerns from the judge that it would be a distraction.<a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/9Today?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#9Today</a> | WATCH LIVE 5.30am <a href="https://t.co/Q6x0r3cJui">pic.twitter.com/Q6x0r3cJui</a></p> <p>— The Today Show (@TheTodayShow) <a href="https://twitter.com/TheTodayShow/status/1633911235048603650?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 9, 2023</a></p></blockquote> <p>"I think that's ridiculous. We were just laughing about it because it's so absurd."</p> <p>"I can't believe in this modern society," he said on Friday morning</p> <p>"There are going to be people out there who say, 'Oh, well, she could've gone outside somewhere else'. Come off it, what is the big deal?"</p> <p><em>Today</em> co-host Sarah Abo also shared her thoughts on the matter, saying, "How far have we gone as a community to accept that in our own courtrooms you can't do that? It's ludicrous."</p> <p>Many outraged women have chimed in on the debate, with Melbourne obstetrician Nisha Khot describing the incident as appalling. </p> <p>"We've tried so hard to get past so many barriers for women who want to breastfeed and to have this happen in a court of law is just not acceptable at all," she said.</p> <p>"Babies have been breastfed in the parliament of this country and in other parliaments."</p> <p>"I don't think there is any public space in which breastfeeding a baby should be unacceptable."</p> <p><em>Image credits: The Today Show</em></p>

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New mum “refused food” over controversial breastfeeding rule

<p dir="ltr">A new mother of twins was left reeling after not being offered lunch while her child was sick in hospital.</p> <p dir="ltr">The 37-year-old woman gave birth to her children who had jaundice and was required to express more breast milk.</p> <p dir="ltr">No matter how hard she tried, the Sydney mother just could not express enough milk for her newborns.</p> <p dir="ltr">And with twins she knew it was “going to be hell” so she opted for formula to ensure her children were satisfied.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I wanted to breastfeed so much…I even tried to express and there was nothing. I just couldn’t and I thought ‘I can’t keep doing this – it’s going to be hell with twins’,” she told <a href="https://www.kidspot.com.au/news/i-was-refused-food-in-hospital-for-24hrs-because-i-didnt-breastfeed-my-newborn/news-story/224a952a530509c7712aff572b856bc2" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Kidspot</a>.</p> <p dir="ltr">Three months later on February 12, the mother was overwhelmed when one of her twins’ temperature soared to 40C from a UTI infection.</p> <p dir="ltr">The mother rushed her baby to Campbelltown Hospital where she was then admitted to the paediatric ward.</p> <p dir="ltr">After conducting a series of tests, the worried mother waited anxiously for her results in the same room with another mother who was breastfeeding.</p> <p dir="ltr">It was then she noticed that the other woman was given food off the trolley and she was completely ignored.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I saw the food trolley go right past our bed and up and down the hallway, and it never stopped for me, so I thought to myself, ‘What’s going on?’ Why is she not asking me? Does she not know I’m here?’”</p> <p dir="ltr">Not wanting to cause a problem, the mother opted for some muesli bars she had in her handbag and eventually fell asleep.</p> <p dir="ltr">The next morning, the mother missed breakfast after sleeping in and decided it was time to say something after not being given lunch, dinner and breakfast.</p> <p dir="ltr">She approached the front desk and questioned why she was not offered food in the 24 hours she was admitted into hospital.</p> <p dir="ltr">The mother claims the nurse was embarrassed after saying it was because she was not breastfeeding.</p> <p dir="ltr">“They only give food if you’re breastfeeding. That’s the rule,” the nurse said.</p> <p dir="ltr">The nurse eventually came back and apologised and gave her a sandwich, but it was then she realised her child was admitted under private health.</p> <p dir="ltr">The mother once again confronted the nurse who said it was an “old rule” and nothing could be done to change it.</p> <p dir="ltr">Eventually, her husband arrived to look after their daughter while she went back home to care for the son. He was also not offered any dinner.</p> <p dir="ltr">He was given a sandwich and some crackers.</p> <p dir="ltr">The mother said she felt “shamed” for her decision to opt for formula as she was already struggling with the twins.</p> <p dir="ltr">She insists that if in the near future they needed a hospital that the family would not go to Campbelltown Hospital.</p> <p dir="ltr">The hospital issued a statement following the incident insisting that all parents are offered food during their stay.</p> <p dir="ltr">“The hospital offers sandwiches to all parents during lunch and dinner periods. Sandwiches are also stored in the unit’s refrigerator for use between or after meal times.”</p> <p><em>Image: Instagram</em></p>

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Aussie Olympian shares craziest breastfeeding pic you will ever see

<p>As an Olympic snowboarder, Torah Bright is no stranger to danger.</p> <p>Now, Australia's most successful winter Olympian has integrated her love of extreme sports into her lifestyle as a mother.</p> <p>Taking to Instagram, Bright shared multiple photos to celebrate her first Mother's Day along with an adorable caption.</p> <p>Fans were left particularly stunned by a rather impressive photo of her breastfeeding her 10-month-old son Flow - while doing a headstand.</p> <p><img style="width: 452.0905923344948px; height:500px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7841155/screen-shot-2021-05-11-at-23601-pm.png" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/4c47e74db85f4121bdc2a795b01fad08" /></p> <p>"Becoming a mother has unleashed something inside of me," the 34-year-old wrote. "It's deeply spiritual. It's primal. It's raw. it's fierce. It is pure.</p> <p>"I am mother. My prayer for all mothers, now and in the future is that they be heard. Honoured. Respected and encouraged to trust their intuition."</p> <p>Instagram users loved the sweet tribute on her first Mother's Day.</p> <p>"Beautifully said mamma," one Instagram user wrote. "Love the boobie self serve handstand."</p> <p>"Happy Mother's Day Torah!!! That headstand photo is insane," one fan said.</p> <p>"The headstand pic is the best," another agreed.</p> <p>"How long did you manage to hold that position in photo 4?" one curious user asked.</p> <p>"Haha just long enough!" the snowboarder cheekily replied.</p> <p>It's not the first time the ex-Olympian, who shares her son with fellow snowboarder Angus Thomson, has shown off her unique breastfeeding methods.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CNqppAwlIee/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="13"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CNqppAwlIee/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Torah Bright (@torahbright)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Last month, she posted a photo of<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="http://www.essentialbaby.com.au/baby/breastfeeding/olympian-torah-bright-shares-unique-breastfeeding-method-meals-on-wheels-20210416-h1v8oz" target="_blank">herself skateboarding</a><span> </span>while she breastfed her son. She's also shared photos of her feeding Flow at the beach and even at the snow.</p> <p>"Loves when mums on a board," she captioned the pic. "Feedback about dangerous parenting (below)," she joked.</p>

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Mother sacks babysitter over disturbing nanny cam footage

<p>A mother has not been able to hold back her disgust after sacking her nanny.</p> <p>The mum said that she was shocked to discover that the nanny she hired to look after her 10-month-old son and five-year-old daughter had secretly been breastfeeding the son. </p> <p>The nanny started attempting to nurse the baby after the mother had confided in her about her issues with breastfeeding.</p> <p>“During a conversation that we had recently (maybe two weeks ago), I mentioned that I don’t produce much milk which forces me to rely on donor milk to feed my son,” the mum confessed <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/hnm9j2/wibta_if_i_fired_my_nanny_for_breastfeeding_my_son/" target="_blank" class="_e75a791d-denali-editor-page-rtflink">in the Reddit post</a>.</p> <p>“She was very sympathetic and inquisitive about the situation, and I was happy to answer all of her questions while simultaneously thinking nothing of it.”</p> <p>It was only after the mother checked the nanny cams that were set up in the house that she made the discovery.</p> <p>“I have nanny cameras set up in the living room and in my bedroom that my husband and I can access at anytime when we’re not home, but I never feel compelled to check for the simple fact that I trust my nanny,” she explained.</p> <p>“However, I was having a rough day yesterday and wanted to see what the little ones were up to so I decided to pop in. My nanny was sitting on my bed, rocking my son, and attempting to breastfeed him.</p> <p>“I almost felt sick, it just seemed so inappropriate. I decided to wait until I got home to confront her about it, and when I asked she was incredibly apologetic. She said she wanted to help me because of my milk production issues and never meant any harm.”</p> <p>The mother initially accepted the apology, but became suspicious and went through old footage.</p> <p>To her horror, she discovered that the nanny breastfeeding her son wasn't a one-off occurrence. </p> <p>“She unplugs the camera in my bedroom when she goes to put him down for naps and plugs it back in when she leaves,” she added.</p> <p>“After reviewing our recordings this wasn’t the first time she attempted to breastfeed my son, among a few other questionable things (closing my daughter in the pantry, leaving my son in the backyard unattended, etc).”</p> <p>If that's not bad enough, the mother also discovered that some treasured baby items were missing. </p> <p>“A couple of my son’s first outfits (first onesie, first Halloween costume) were gone as well as a small blanket that belonged to my daughter, and a box of old baby clothes I was going to donate,” she added.</p> <p>“These were returned to me by [the nanny’s] father minus the blanket because she can’t find it.”</p> <p>The mother said she’s been left "heartbroken" by the incident.</p> <p>“We’ve decided to let her go, obviously, and I’m going to be taking a few weeks of leave to take my kids in for check-ups,” she added.</p> <p>“My husband and I are horrified and heartbroken that we facilitated a situation in which our children’s safety was put at risk.”</p>

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We don’t know if breastfeeding is rising or falling in Australia – that’s bad for everyone

<p>As the COVID-19 pandemic has taught us all too well, good health policy depends on prior planning, decisive action, and a willingness to spend money.</p> <p>But there’s another area where Australia’s willingness to plan and spend has fallen far short: monitoring breastfeeding rates.</p> <p>A <a href="https://www.worldbreastfeedingtrends.org/uploads/resources/document/making-a-difference-wbti-eval-report-2020.pdf">newly released international report</a> reveals that 41% of babies worldwide are exclusively breastfed for their first six months – well short of the World Health Assembly’s target of 50% by 2025. <a href="https://wbtiaus.com/2018/05/24/australia-report-card-2018/">Australian data</a> are missing from the latest report because the infant feeding data have not been collected.</p> <p>Breastfeeding is important, just like immunisation. It protects children against illness and disease, such as gastroenteritis and <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26869575/">later life diabetes</a>. Women who breastfeed are <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26869575/">less likely to suffer breast cancer in later life</a>. Investing in breastfeeding will <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12530799/">save the health system money</a> in years to come.</p> <p>In 2019 a long-awaited <a href="http://www.coaghealthcouncil.gov.au/Portals/0/Australian%20National%20Breastfeeding%20Strategy%20-%20FINAL%20.pdf">Australian National Breastfeeding Strategy</a> proposed a national monitoring system for breastfeeding rates.</p> <p>Governments have been <a href="https://www1.health.gov.au/internet/main/publishing.nsf/Content/62672740D891CA2CCA257BF0001C673F/%24File/breastfeeding.pdf">talking about this for nearly two decades</a>. Yet still there is no funding available for a national data collection network, despite its importance for women and children.</p> <p>Without rigorous data, we can’t tell whether Australia’s breastfeeding rates are improving or getting worse, which groups of people need help, or whether existing programs to encourage breastfeeding are working.</p> <p><strong>Good data is crucial for good health care</strong></p> <p>Some local data in NSW and <a href="https://www.bettersafercare.vic.gov.au/sites/default/files/2019-02/Vic%20perinatal%20services%20performance%20indicators%202017-18.pdf">Victoria</a> suggest that in recent years fewer women get off to a good start with exclusive breastfeeding.</p> <p>The percentage of babies fully breastfed at the time of discharge from hospital in NSW fell from <a href="https://www.health.nsw.gov.au/hsnsw/Publications/mothers-and-babies-2015.pdf">82.1% in 2011</a> to <a href="https://www.health.nsw.gov.au/hsnsw/Publications/mothers-and-babies-2018.pdf">72.6% in 2018</a>.</p> <p>We also don’t know how COVID-19 has affected breastfeeding rates. Some women have been hindered by reduced access to breastfeeding support, as hospitals and community services divert resources towards dealing with the pandemic. On the other hand, there are anecdotal reports of mothers enjoying the less hectic pace of life during lockdown to establish breastfeeding.</p> <p>But the problem is, without routine surveys of breastfeeding rates among large samples of the population, we just don’t know.</p> <p>In 1995, 2001 and 2005, National Health Surveys collected data on infant feeding. In 2008 one of us (Lisa), together with colleague Susan Donath, <a href="https://www.mja.com.au/journal/2008/189/5/socioeconomic-status-and-rates-breastfeeding-australia-evidence-three-recent">used these data to show</a> that breastfeeding rates did not improve, and the gap between high- and low-income families had widened during the decade spanned by these surveys. It was a shocking indictment.</p> <p>Despite this, the 2007-08 National Health Surveys did not collect infant feeding data. The 2014-15 and 2016-17 surveys each only collected infant feeding data on about 1,500 children – not enough for a rigorous analysis of the nationwide trend.</p> <p>Australia’s first and only comprehensive infant feeding survey <a href="https://www.aihw.gov.au/reports/mothers-babies/2010-australian-national-infant-feeding-survey/contents/table-of-contents">happened in 2010</a>, in response to a <a href="https://trove.nla.gov.au/work/8215376?selectedversion=NBD42202999">recommendation</a> from the Parliamentary Best Start Inquiry.</p> <p>This survey sampled 52,000 infants aged up to 24 months. It was intended as a baseline for future surveys, but the follow-up surveys never happened.</p> <p>The <a href="https://www.coaghealthcouncil.gov.au/Portals/0/Australian%20National%20Breastfeeding%20Strategy%20-%20Final.pdf">National Breastfeeding Strategy</a> released last year by federal, state and territory governments pledged to routinely collect data on breastfeeding rates via the Child Digital Health Record program, which is still under development. It also promised to deliver a full nationwide survey every five years.</p> <p><strong>Knowledge is power</strong></p> <p>Routine data collection has several advantages. It is more cost-effective than standalone surveys, and it is population-wide, meaning it can include people who are otherwise under-represented in survey data.</p> <p>It is also a powerful research tool. Routine data on preterm versus full-term births in Belgium, for instance, <a href="https://www.bmj.com/content/346/bmj.f441">revealed</a> the dramatic effect of tobacco control policies on preventing premature births.</p> <p>Australia already routinely collects childhood health data, perhaps most notably on <a href="https://data.gov.au/dataset/ds-dga-8937acdc-98ae-492e-bbc3-5c4f484d7651/details?q=immunisation">immunisation rates</a>. Policy-makers can use this valuable data to ensure adequate coverage against childhood infections and to ensure existing policies are effective.</p> <p>The first step to investing in breastfeeding will be to fund proper data collection – both via routine data collection and regular in-depth national surveys. But so far no one has backed breastfeeding with the necessary dollars.</p> <p><em>Written by Lisa Amir and Julie P. Smith. Republished with permission of <a href="https://theconversation.com/we-dont-know-if-breastfeeding-is-rising-or-falling-in-australia-thats-bad-for-everyone-140549">The Conversation.</a> </em></p> <p><em> </em></p>

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The breastfeeding debate with a major twist

<p>A woman has sparked an online debate after revealing that she breastfed her sister’s baby.</p> <p>In a post on <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/gvqkpx/aita_for_breastfeeding_my_sisters_baby_while_he/" target="_blank">Reddit</a>, the woman said she breastfed her sister’s five-month-old son while he was in her care.</p> <p>The sisters had their babies months apart, and both were still breastfeeding.</p> <p>“My sister had to go to an appointment in the hospital and because of all the Covid she didn’t want to take [her son] so she asked if I could care for him,” the woman said.</p> <p>She explained that her sister expressed a day’s worth of milk ahead of her appointment so that the baby could be bottle-fed.</p> <p>But she found a problem. “I fed sister’s baby the amount she said he could eat at each time, and he always seemed hungry still afterwards,” she said.</p> <p>“I tried my best to make the milk last but I was down to 6oz [177 mL] left and I wasn’t expecting my sister back for another 5 hours.”</p> <p>She decided her sister’s baby “just needed another nibble” and fed him from her breast.</p> <p>“I was feeding my baby already so I just put sister’s baby on my other boob,” she said. “Sister’s baby drank a little bit then fell asleep. The same thing happened a couple of hours later and again, I ran out of milk. My sister had been delayed with her procedure and wasn’t back yet so I just fed sister’s baby from the breast.”</p> <p>Her sister was enraged to learn about the breastfeeding upon her return home, describing the woman’s action as “disrespectful” and “crossing a line”.</p> <p>“She said it was so disrespectful and I should have given formula if it wasn’t enough. I would never give my kid formula if I could help it and I don’t have any in the house,” the woman reasoned.</p> <p>“I can see why she is upset, it’s a very personal thing to feed your baby, but I’m not a stranger, sister’s baby is my nephew and he was hungry.”</p> <p>Some criticised the woman in the comment section, saying the woman overstepped her sister’s boundaries.</p> <p>“You should have asked her permission first since you understand that it’s a very personal thing to do and went ahead with it anyway,” one wrote.</p> <p>Another user claiming to be a Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) nurse commented: “A baby fed slightly less than it can take is not starving, and won’t be harmed. In fact, babies can be very poor judges of how much food they can take without spitting. As long as this baby was being given adequate fluid and calories across the span of the day, he was in no danger, and was far from starving.”</p> <p>However, others were more supportive of the woman, saying the infant needed to be fed.</p> <p>“If your sister didn’t express enough milk you can’t be expected to let the baby go hungry, that would be cruel. I think asking first would be better but women donate milk for premature babies all the time,” one chimed in.</p> <p>“She didn’t give you enough milk and no supplemental formula. What were you supposed to do... take two infants to the grocery store in the middle of a pandemic?” another added.</p>

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Police crack down on mums breastfeeding in public

<p>A young mother breastfeeding her child was recorded on camera being approached by police enforcing social distancing rules.</p> <p>Officers have taken to patrolling parks and beaches across the Sydney region and sending home those sitting in public spaces.</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7835446/coogee-beach-2.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/ac1e0f63ccbf4993aa12f4893c5cc925" /></p> <p>Channel 9 cameras captured police approaching a mother breastfeeding her baby, a man reading a newspaper alone and two young tradies eating their lunch in an effort to enforce the new strict measures placed on NSW citizens.</p> <p>Coogee beach had several patrol cars monitoring the eastern suburb along with a police helicopter circling over the water.</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7835447/coogee-beach-1.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/f3853aadb9d547a2a8c8cb76226ad7d2" /></p> <p>One officer spoke to two young mothers sitting closely together in active wear alongside their prams with their babies in their hands – with one who was breastfeeding.  </p> <p>On Wednesday morning, NSW Police Commissioner Mick Fuller said officers would “show discretion” while policing the state’s tough new lockdown laws.</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7835448/coogee-beach.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/7d4c7a5be7bc4596a6a2051630b52656" /></p> <p>“Police have been enforcing these laws and I know ... there has been criticism of police, which I don't accept. I accept the criticism of my leadership,” Commissioner Fuller went on to say, admitting there are many “what-if” situations people are still trying to wrap their heads around.</p> <p>Fuller says this new transition would be “challenging” for many people across the state, but added the adaption is absolutely necessary in this uncertain climate.</p>

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“Cover up”: Mum branded as “disgusting” for breastfeeding her four-month-old baby

<p>A Melbourne woman has been on the receiving end of verbal abuse in front of her children after she attempted to breast feed her son.</p> <p>Ashley Rogers was at a local café with her seven-year-old daughter and infant son when he needed to be fed.</p> <p>The 30-year-old “carefully” picked a location in the shopping centre café “away from crowds”, as she stood near a secluded area that was covered by a wall.</p> <p>It didn’t take long for a man, who was standing 10 metres away, to start yelling, but oblivious to what was happening, Ms Rogers turned away.</p> <p>“I started to breastfeed my son while my daughter and I were ordering food and that’s when I heard the man yelling,” she told<span> </span><em><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/parenting/babies/mum-branded-disgusting-and-told-to-cover-up-by-a-man-in-a-cafe-for-breastfeeding-her-fourmonthold-baby/news-story/953d0b0ee07b5034aa1697506bc50b10" target="_blank">news.com.au</a></em>.</p> <p>“As I met with his eyes, he looked at me straight and said, ‘You’re disgusting, cover up, I can see your t**s’,” she said.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><iframe src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FTheMilkMumAdvocate%2Fposts%2F112739736784749%3A0&amp;width=500" width="500" height="715" style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" allow="encrypted-media"></iframe></p> <p>Completely taken aback by the harsh words, the mother-of-three confronted the man and said, “Excuse me? I told him, ‘I am feeding my goddamn son’, but he just kept repeating what he said, telling me how ‘disgusting’ I am.”</p> <p>According to Ms Rogers, the man would have had to pay very close attention to see if she was breastfeeding as she was hidden behind a wall and wearing a large puffer jacket.</p> <p>Her daughter was also sitting directly opposite to her, obscuring the public’s vision.</p> <p>“It was horrible, I am not going to lie. People were just staring in shock too,” she said.</p> <p>“By that stage these three beautiful women flocked to me and put their arms around me and kissed me on the forehead.</p> <p>“The moment they asked if I was OK, I just burst into tears.”</p> <p>The experience inspired Ms Rogers to start a blog called<span> </span><em><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.facebook.com/TheMilkMumAdvocate/" target="_blank">The Milk Mum</a><span> </span></em>to help support other mums who have been criticised for feeding in public.</p>

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Airline's response to breastfeeding mum on flight causes anger online

<p>A breastfeeding mum has taken to social media after airline staff told her to “cover up” while on board a flight.</p> <p>Shelby Angel was travelling on a KLM Airlines flight from San Francisco to Amsterdam with her one-year-old daughter when the incident took place.</p> <p>Writing on the airline's Facebook page on Sunday, Angel recounted the moment a flight attendant gave her a blanket as she was breastfeeding her daughter.</p> <p>After refusing to cover up, saying it would upset her child, she was told it would be her “issue” if a fellow passenger lodged a complaint.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><iframe src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FKLM%2Fposts%2F10156473618075773&amp;width=500" width="500" height="268" style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" allow="encrypted-media"></iframe></p> <p>“Instead of standing up for and protecting breastfeeding mothers and our children, already under the duress faced by flying with our young children, KLM would rather hold up antiquated values that shame women’s bodies,” she wrote on Facebook.</p> <p>After Angel issued her complaint, the company responded saying the flight attendant’s behaviour was “in line with company policy”.</p> <p>And the airline refuses to back down on their statement, with a representative replying back to the post saying: “We would like to emphasise that breastfeeding is permitted on KLM flights.</p> <p>“However, we strive to ensure that all of our passengers of all backgrounds feel comfortable onboard.</p> <p>“Therefore, we may request a mother to cover herself while breastfeeding, should other passengers be offended by this.”</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><iframe src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FKLM%2Fposts%2F10156479372935773&amp;width=500" width="500" height="632" style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" allow="encrypted-media"></iframe></p> <p>The post spread like wildfire and came to the attention of other parents who are now claiming to avoid the airline.</p> <p>“Omg and I thought KLM was more modern thinking. Sorry you have felt this way,” one person commented.</p> <p>“I am astonished. I’ve been a flight attendant at KLM for up to 21 years now and I’ve seen so many mothers breastfeeding their child. Never has this been an issue, not for me, nor for any of my colleagues.”</p> <p>A third person then wrote to KLM on their Facebook page asking for them to clarify their policy on breastfeeding, and they were told, “as an international airline company, we transport passengers with a variety of backgrounds”.</p> <p>“Not all passengers feel comfortable with breastfeeding in their vicinity … to keep the peace on board, in such cases we will try to find a solution that is acceptable to everyone and that shows respect for everyone’s comfort and personal space.”</p>

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Turia Pitt’s brutally honest confession about breastfeeding

<p>Inspirational burns survivor and motivational speaker, Turia Pitt, has remained brutally honest about the journey of motherhood since announcing the news of her pregnancy last year.</p> <p>Now, Turia has shared a candid photo showing how her body has been affected since breastfeeding her son, Hakavai Hoskin.</p> <p>In the photo shared on her Instagram story, Turia is wearing a bikini top which is filled out on one side and gaping on the other.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img style="width: 295.1070336391437px; height:500px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7819891/1.jpg?width=295.1070336391437&amp;height=500" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/1d4f1696635947b7b8f9f58a30689d26" /></p> <p>"Retired,” Turia wrote over the photo, with an arrow pointing to her smaller boob.</p> <p>“Very much at work,” she wrote next to the visibly bigger one.</p> <p>The first-time mum’s honest sense of humour has been praised by fans for her relatability.</p> <p>Turia and her partner, Michael Hoskin, welcomed their baby boy into the world last year in December, six years after she suffered burns to more than 60 per cent of her body.</p> <p>Since the shocking accident, which saw her trapped in a bush fire in Western Australia, Turia has become an author and motivational speaker, gaining an online following of over 830,000 people.</p> <p>In March, she told <a href="https://au.be.yahoo.com/turia-pitts-brutally-honest-post-breastfeeding-122434042.html"><strong><u>Yahoo! 7</u></strong></a> that is was easy to feel “overwhelmed” by becoming a mum.</p> <p>“It’s easy to get stressed and overwhelmed when your baby is crying or not sleeping, and get in that loop of ‘oh, if he doesn’t sleep now, then he won’t sleep later, and then I won’t sleep well tonight, which will make tomorrow stressful etc,'" she said.</p> <p>“But that doesn’t help anyone! So I’m trying to stay in the present moment – and enjoy all of it,” Turia added. </p>

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Turia Pitt shares beautiful breastfeeding photo

<p>New mother Turia Pitt has shared a beautiful and intimate photo of herself breastfeeding her newborn son.<br /> <br /> The burns survivor, humanitarian, athlete and author <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/news/news/2017/12/turia-pitt-welcomes-her-first-child/">welcomed Hakavai, her first child with fiance Michael Hoskin, on December 8.</a> </span></strong></p> <p>And despite <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/entertainment/technology/2017/12/turia-pitt-opens-up-about-struggle-of-being-a-first-time-mum/">previously revealing she was struggling with breastfeeding shortly after giving birth</a></span></strong>, it seems the 30-year-old is quickly getting the hang of feeding her baby boy.</p> <p>At the time, Turia wrote on her social media: “I realised it was the first time I’d ever breastfed and it was Hakavai’s first time too and the first time you try anything new you’re not going to be an expert at it!”</p> <p>But now with a few weeks of practise, Turia took to Instagram to share a picture of the tender moment between mother and son.</p> <p>She captioned the image of her gazing lovingly at her little boy: “My love for you is illimitable.”</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media"> <div style="padding: 8px;"> <div style="background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 50.0% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;"> <div style="background: url(data:image/png; base64,ivborw0kggoaaaansuheugaaacwaaaascamaaaapwqozaaaabgdbtueaalgpc/xhbqaaaafzukdcak7ohokaaaamuexurczmzpf399fx1+bm5mzy9amaaadisurbvdjlvzxbesmgces5/p8/t9furvcrmu73jwlzosgsiizurcjo/ad+eqjjb4hv8bft+idpqocx1wjosbfhh2xssxeiyn3uli/6mnree07uiwjev8ueowds88ly97kqytlijkktuybbruayvh5wohixmpi5we58ek028czwyuqdlkpg1bkb4nnm+veanfhqn1k4+gpt6ugqcvu2h2ovuif/gwufyy8owepdyzsa3avcqpvovvzzz2vtnn2wu8qzvjddeto90gsy9mvlqtgysy231mxry6i2ggqjrty0l8fxcxfcbbhwrsyyaaaaaelftksuqmcc); display: block; height: 44px; margin: 0 auto -44px; position: relative; top: -22px; width: 44px;"></div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BdqhtcDggkD/" target="_blank">A post shared by Turia (@turiapitt)</a> on Jan 7, 2018 at 2:09pm PST</p> </div> </blockquote> <p> </p> <p> </p>

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Mum kicked off flight for breastfeeding

<p>A US mother claims she was kicked off a Spirit Airlines flight with her elderly parents and two-year-old son for breastfeeding.</p> <p>Mei Rui, 34, her son Lukas and her parents were flying from Houston, Texas, to New York City on December 8 when they were escorted off the plane by security.</p> <p><img width="429" height="230" src="https://s.yimg.com/iu/api/res/1.2/a2cQTd1yVL7VNEcr9mNixA--~D/cm90YXRlPWF1dG87dz05NjA7YXBwaWQ9eXZpZGVv/https://s.yimg.com/iu/api/res/1.2/TGD.QjQBQpDw.sLopyuLwg--~D/cm90YXRlPWF1dG87dz0xMjAwO2FwcGlkPXl2aWRlbw--/https://s.yimg.com/ea/img/-/171212/5a2ee5c47931f_screen_shot_2017_12_12_at_7.06.26_am_5a2ee5b69abcb.png" alt="Mei Rui mum kicked off flight" class="article-figure-image" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"/></p> <p>The cancer researcher and concert pianist said the plane had been sitting on the tarmac for almost three hours because of a de-icing delay, when she began to breastfeed her “exhausted” two-year-old son.</p> <p>“Every parent with a young child can [imagine], you don’t want to be that parent on the plane,” Rui told the Post. “It would be very embarrassing. I was just trying to avoid that.”</p> <p>Shortly afterwards, a flight attendant told her to stop and put her son in his seat because they were ready for take off. However Rui claims the plane doors were still open.</p> <p>“I asked for just a couple more minutes to finish because if he woke up at that point he would have made a lot of noise,” Rui told the publication. “I said, ‘I promise I’ll finish before you close the plane’s door.’”</p> <p>Rui complied however and “forced” her son into his own seat where he began to cry for 25 minutes.</p> <p>A flight attendant then asked them to leave the plane but when Rui refused, Spirit made the entire plane disembark then reboard.</p> <p>Fellow passengers took to social media to defend Rui and call out the airline. </p> <p><img width="470" height="286" src="http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2017/12/11/13/473748BF00000578-5167327-image-a-24_1512998409108.jpg" alt="Another passenger who saw the ordeal unfold described the airline's treatment of the family as 'disgusting'  " class="blkBorder img-share b-loaded" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" id="i-8f4719efa2a9c04d"/></p> <p>In a video taken at the gate afterwards, staff can be seen laughing and refusing to tell Rui exactly what rules had been broken beyond saying they “did not comply with instructions”.</p> <p>They dismissed the suggestion that the family had been kicked off because of the toddler’s crying.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">A Houston pianist and clinical researcher kicked off <a href="https://twitter.com/SpiritAirlines?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@SpiritAirlines</a> flight Friday morning.. she was on her way to conduct cancer research in NYC. Wants answers from airline. Live <a href="https://twitter.com/iah?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@iah</a> at 10 <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/KHOU11?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#KHOU11</a> <a href="https://t.co/mDPQmC5AOC">pic.twitter.com/mDPQmC5AOC</a></p> — Marcelino Benito (@MarcelinoKHOU) <a href="https://twitter.com/MarcelinoKHOU/status/939703793054375937?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">December 10, 2017</a></blockquote> <p>Police were called to escort the family away from the gate.</p> <p>After the incident at George Bush International Airport, Rui says her father was so distraught and stressed he collapsed and had to go to the hospital.</p> <p>In a statement to DailyMail.com, a spokesman for the airline said: “No one was removed for breastfeeding.</p> <p>“We were forced to remove a passenger from flight 712 after she refused to comply with crew instructions several times while the doors were closed during taxi and safety briefing.</p> <p>“To ensure the safety of our guests and crew, FAA regulations and airline policies require all passengers stay seated and buckled during takeoff and landing. We reviewed multiple accounts from the crew and other guests sitting nearby and we apologize for any inconvenience caused by this issue.</p> <p>“As a courtesy, we’ve issued a full refund to the customer in question.”</p> <p>They would not comment on Rui's claims that the door was still open when she was breastfeeding.</p>

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This mum still breastfeeds her 5-year-old daughter

<p>A British mum has stirred up controversy after revealing she still breastfeeds her daughters, five-year-old Jasmine and two-year-old Arianna, with whom she also shares a bed.</p> <p>“I don’t think there’s anything strange about feeding your children,” 29-year-old Sophie Mei Lan told <em>The Sun</em>. “Breast milk is nourishing, soothing and it’s free. I must have saved thousands of pounds over the years.”</p> <p>She admitted her husband Chris doesn’t quite share her views on the issue, but says she “can’t say no” to her kids when they want to feed. And she doesn’t plan on stopping until her daughters decide they’re ready.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media"> <div style="padding: 8px;"> <div style="background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 50.0% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;"> <div style="background: url(data:image/png; base64,ivborw0kggoaaaansuheugaaacwaaaascamaaaapwqozaaaabgdbtueaalgpc/xhbqaaaafzukdcak7ohokaaaamuexurczmzpf399fx1+bm5mzy9amaaadisurbvdjlvzxbesmgces5/p8/t9furvcrmu73jwlzosgsiizurcjo/ad+eqjjb4hv8bft+idpqocx1wjosbfhh2xssxeiyn3uli/6mnree07uiwjev8ueowds88ly97kqytlijkktuybbruayvh5wohixmpi5we58ek028czwyuqdlkpg1bkb4nnm+veanfhqn1k4+gpt6ugqcvu2h2ovuif/gwufyy8owepdyzsa3avcqpvovvzzz2vtnn2wu8qzvjddeto90gsy9mvlqtgysy231mxry6i2ggqjrty0l8fxcxfcbbhwrsyyaaaaaelftksuqmcc); display: block; height: 44px; margin: 0 auto -44px; position: relative; top: -22px; width: 44px;"></div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BazZ5rhjHwX/" target="_blank">A post shared by Sophie Mei Lan (@mamameiblog)</a> on Oct 28, 2017 at 12:20pm PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>“Whenever I try to get ready quickly, granted, Arianna will try to stop me in my tracks for urgent ‘Mama Milk,’” Sophie wrote on Instagram.</p> <p>What’s your take? Is it appropriate for a mother to continue breastfeeding her children up to (or even beyond) the age of five? Share your thoughts with us in the comments below. </p> <p><em>Image: Sophie Mei Lan/Instagram.</em></p>

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Beautiful moment orangutan was captivated by mum breastfeeding

<p>When mother Elizabeth Hunt Burrett sought a place to breastfeed her baby on a day out at Australia’s Melbourne Zoo, she never expected to attract an onlooker of the primate variety.</p> <p>Elizabeth was breastfeeding 13-week-old son Eli in a corner of the orangutan enclosure, when an orangutan sauntered over her way.</p> <p>"I was breast feeding and this orangutan locked eyes with me and came over to check out what was going on," she told 774 ABC Melbourne.</p> <p>"It started off with just one, then another one came over who seemed to be a bit older and shooed this one off for a little while."</p> <p><img src="https://scontent-sin1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xtf1/v/t1.0-9/12670182_10153921520967422_1838350618300002182_n.jpg?oh=0a33fd8644b8909ed784c4c358b7b5ac&amp;oe=57379493" class="spotlight" style="width: 440px; height: 330px; display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"/></p> <p>Elizabeth said she shared an emotional encounter with the great ape when one gave her nod.</p> <p>“She came over and gave me a bit of a nod … It was absolutely amazing,” Elizabeth told the radio station.</p> <p>Elizabeth's mother snapped the picture of the orangutan staring intently at the mum and son, speculating that as her grandson has flame-red hair, the orangutan may have thought he was a baby orangutan.</p> <p><strong>Related links: </strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2016/01/photos-of-animals-hitchhiking/">Hilarious photos of animals hitchhiking</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2016/01/animals-who-love-warm/">In pictures: 12 animals who love warmth more than anything</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2015/10/why-dogs-so-happy-to-see-you/">The science behind dogs being so happy to see you</a></em></strong></span></p>

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