Hakavai turns one! Turia Pitt's adorable party for son’s first birthday
<p>It seems like only yesterday that Turia Pitt and her fiancé Michael Hoskin welcomed baby Hakavai into the world, and now the proud parents are celebrating his first birthday.</p>
<p>The young couple threw a bohemian themed birthday bash for little Hakavai, as they dressed up in flower crowns and tropical outfits.</p>
<p>The picnic, which was held at a park, was attended by Turia and Michael’s closest family and friends.</p>
<p>Through her newsletter, the burns survivor shared photos of the occasion as she said her son is a “pretty cute” toddler.</p>
<p>“Hakavai turned one! I know, crazy right? We had a little party for him on the weekend,” she said.</p>
<p>“I know I’m biased, but he’s pretty cute.”</p>
<p>Beaming with joy, the family celebrated the milestone 12 months after the birth of their son, who was born on December 8.</p>
<p>“We are totally in love, and just so stoked,” Turia said at the time.</p>
<p>After welcoming a new addition into the family, the pair have taken some time away from the spotlight to focus on raising their child.</p>
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<p>And now, a year later, Turia has a few words of advice she would like to share with mothers.</p>
<p>“See, in my first year of being a Mum, I found that I needed to simplify some things in my life,” she said.</p>
<p>“Because, suddenly, I had a baby to look after, and that meant my capacity for ‘doing things’ was reduced.</p>
<p>“I had to drop my expectations for what I could realistically achieve in one day, especially in the first few months. And I found that I needed to make time for myself – for the things that I enjoy doing.</p>
<p>“I think that’s a feeling anyone can relate to – whether you have kids or not. Somehow, amongst all the priorities and “to-do’s”, you’ve got to make time for yourself.</p>
<p>“So, today I wanted to share one of the simple tips that helped me do that this year. It’s something I’d love you to try, especially now when there’s a lot going on, and everyone is in a mad rush to get things done before the holidays.”</p>
<p>She went on to offer words of encouragement, and told mothers to ask themselves one question every morning: 'What would make today great?'</p>
<p>“Note: You’re not asking, ‘What do I have to get done today?’ You’re asking yourself what would make your day awesome,” she said.</p>
<p>“Is it calling your best friend? Finishing off that major pitch? Buying a new plant? Going for a run or a surf? Whatever it is, actively visualise yourself doing that thing today.</p>
<p>“And then I need you to prioritise it. Give it value. Whatever would make your day great today, do it. I hope you take this tip on board, and start asking yourself this question. It can, and will, radically change your day.”</p>
<p>Scroll through the gallery above to see photos of baby Hakavai's special day.</p>
<p><em>Photo credit: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/turiapitt/">Instagram @turiapitt</a></em></p>
