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Kiss’s debut album at 50: how the rock legends went from ‘clowns’ to becoming immortalised

<p><em><a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/charlotte-markowitsch-1507417">Charlotte Markowitsch</a>, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/rmit-university-1063">RMIT University</a></em></p> <p>It has been 50 years since Rock &amp; Roll <a href="https://www.rockhall.com/inductees/kiss">Hall of Famers</a> Kiss launched their thunderock-doused debut album into the pop culture stratosphere. The eponymous album, released on February 18 1974, became a platform-stacked foot in the music industry’s door.</p> <p>What followed established Kiss as one of the most memorable hard-rock bands of the 1970s and ’80s, with a <a href="https://doi.org/10.1386/ejac.37.1.19_1">globally recognised legacy</a>.</p> <p><iframe style="border-radius: 12px;" src="https://open.spotify.com/embed/album/0NjpmoajQlllfKH9FaNliD?utm_source=generator" width="100%" height="352" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen" loading="lazy"></iframe></p> <p> </p> <h2>The early days</h2> <p>In 1972, Paul Stanley and Gene Simmons shelved their first ever rock outfit following a short stint in a band called <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wicked_Lester">Wicked Lester</a>. The pair then <a href="https://www.udiscovermusic.com/stories/kiss-self-titled-debut-album/">hatched a plan</a> to form a far more aggressive and successful rock band. Drummer Peter Criss and guitarist Ace Frehley were recruited, and the new-generation Fab Four renamed themselves Kiss.</p> <p>By late <a href="https://www.kissonline.com/history">November of 1973</a>, the band had developed their bombastic live performance style, perfected their makeup and signed a deal with <a href="https://ultimateclassicrock.com/kiss-first-record-contract/">Casablanca Records</a>. Yet they dealt with some rocky beginnings.</p> <p>Armed with reworked songs from Wicked Lester, Kiss entered New York’s Bell Sound Studios to record their debut. A mere three weeks later the album was complete – but the band quickly realised the studio recordings didn’t capture the essence of their high-energy live shows.</p> <p>As vocalist Paul Stanley <a href="https://loudwire.com/kiss-self-titled-album-anniversary/">told Loudwire</a>: "What was put down on tape was such a timid fraction of what we were in concert. I didn’t understand it because bands who were our contemporaries had much better-sounding albums."</p> <p>They took another blow while shooting the album cover with <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2007/03/31/obituaries/31brodsky.html">Joel Brodsky</a> when, after a mishap with Criss’s makeup, the band were allegedly handed balloons by the photographer since he thought they were clowns.</p> <p>Then, soon before the album was released, Warner Brothers pulled its financial backing and <a href="https://www.loudersound.com/features/the-casablanca-records-story">distribution deal from Casablanca Records</a> after witnessing Kiss play a New Year’s eve show. Although it’s said the band’s makeup was the last straw for the label, the show in question also featured Simmons <a href="https://www.loudersound.com/features/kiss-early-years-history">setting his hair alight</a> shortly after throwing a fireball at a fan’s face.</p> <p>Despite the blunders, the release of the first album set Kiss on a path to becoming immortalised. As Stanley says in his book <a href="https://www.paulstanley.com/face-the-music/">Face The Music</a>: "For all the minuses I felt about the sound or the cover, we now had a finished album which was the prerequisite for all the other things we wanted to do. We were in the game now."</p> <figure><iframe src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/D0lit2sT6lY?wmode=transparent&amp;start=28" width="440" height="260" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></figure> <h2>The Kiss sound</h2> <p>I first heard Kiss as a teenager. I’d just thrift-scored a pair of ’80s-era roller-skates with the band’s logo scrawled on the heels in glitter glue. The salesperson, responsible for the glitter glue, enthusiastically recounted seeing Kiss play VFL Park (now <a href="https://footy.fandom.com/wiki/Waverley_Park">Waverley Park</a> stadium) in 1980 and made me promise I’d listen to them.</p> <p>Overwhelmed by the band’s expansive discography, and the possibility that their name stood for <a href="https://www.loudersound.com/news/kiss-squash-long-standing-rumour-that-their-band-name-is-a-satanic-acronym-were-smart-but-were-not-that-smart">Knights In Satan’s Service</a>, I thought it best to begin from the start.</p> <p>With their reputation of on-stage pyrotechnics and gore, I’d expected something more akin to Black Sabbath’s Paranoid than the jangly riffs of Let Me Know or Love Theme From Kiss. A 1978 review by <a href="https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-album-reviews/kiss-194584/">Gordon Fletcher</a> for the Rolling Stone also noted this rift. Despite calling the album exceptional, Fletcher described its sound as a cross between Deep Purple and the Doobie Brothers.</p> <p>Stanley and Simmons have <a href="https://www.guitarworld.com/features/kiss-paul-stanley-gene-simmons-classic-tracks">spoken freely</a> about borrowing heavily from a number of mid-century legends, so it’s no surprise that sonically the album was nothing new. The Rolling Stones’ influence can be heard in the songs Deuce and Strutter, while Led Zeppelin and Neil Young are present in Black Diamond.</p> <figure><iframe src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/PEa4MrrG1xw?wmode=transparent&amp;start=0" width="440" height="260" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></figure> <p>The album initially hadn’t risen higher than #87 on <a href="https://ultimateclassicrock.com/kiss-kiss-debut-album/">Billboard’s album charts</a>. A studio cover of <a href="https://ultimateclassicrock.com/kiss-nothin-to-lose/?trackback=twitter_mobile">Bobby Rydell’s Kissin’ Time</a> was released next as the lead single, but the track only bumped them up to #83. This <a href="https://doi.org/10.1093/gmo/9781561592630.article.A2262575">commercial unviability</a> loomed over Kiss until the release of <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alive!_(Kiss_album)">Alive!</a> in 1975.</p> <h2>Success and beyond</h2> <p>As the band’s first live album, Alive! bridged the gap between the audacious intensity of Kiss’s performances and the timidness of their studio recordings. Their early tracks were repurposed to let listeners remotely experience the infamous Kiss live spectacle.</p> <p>As <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EFMD7Usflbg&amp;ab_channel=KissVEVO">Rock and Roll All Nite</a> claimed #12 on the <a href="https://loudwire.com/kiss-alive-album-anniversary/">Billboard charts</a>, the platform-stacked foot burst through the door to mainstream success.</p> <p>Fifty years after Kiss first stepped into Bell Sound Studios, the band played their final sold-out show at Madison Square Garden on December 2 2023. The performance served as a crowning jewel on their End of the Road world tour, a four-year effort with more than 250 live shows.</p> <p>Promised to be their <a href="https://www.triplem.com.au/story/kiss-add-more-dates-to-their-end-of-the-road-australian-tour-172305">biggest and best shows ever</a>, the farewell became a colossal celebration of the band’s legacy. Theatrical pyrotechnics, fake blood and Stanley’s classic opening line – “you wanted the best, you got the best” – were featured at each performance.</p> <p>While both Kiss’s anthemic numbers and earlier catalogue were performed in these final shows, the music came second to the celebration of the Kiss live spectacle.</p> <p>From their carefully designed makeup, to bombastic theatrics and hoards of merchandise, it was Kiss’s <a href="https://doi.org/10.1386/ejac.37.1.19_1">brand building</a> that <a href="https://www.wiley.com/en-au/Brands+That+Rock%3A+What+Business+Leaders+Can+Learn+from+the+World+of+Rock+and+Roll-p-9780471455172">set them apart</a> and embedded them in the <a href="https://doi.org/10.1016/j.poetic.2009.09.006">heritage bracket</a> of popular culture.</p> <p>Despite the end of their live shows, Kiss endeavours to stay embedded in public memory. Referring to some of the band’s 2,500 licensed products, Simmons recently spoke on <a href="http://www.tommagazine.com.au/2022/08/19/kiss/">what’s next for Kiss</a>: "Kiss the entity will continue; what’s happening now is a metamorphosis. The caterpillar is dying, but the butterfly will be born."</p> <figure><iframe src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/Yl5PGoy5X6g?wmode=transparent&amp;start=0" width="440" height="260" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></figure> <p>With a <a href="https://www.billboard.com/music/rock/kiss-biopic-early-years-netflix-2024-1235291572/">Netflix biopic</a> and holographic <a href="https://www.stereogum.com/2246254/kiss-hologram-era-begins-in-2027/news/">avatars on the way</a>, Stanley and Simmons – the band’s two remaining members – <a href="https://www.nme.com/news/music/gene-simmons-says-kiss-farewell-tour-is-end-of-the-road-for-the-band-not-the-brand-3541117">have declared Kiss immortal</a>.</p> <p>Stanley even suggests the Kiss look has become so iconic it’s now bigger than any band member. This means the torch could be passed on to new-generation Kiss members.</p> <p>Kiss has (quite literally) breathed fire into live rock performance. Now, they’re breathing fire into our expectations of what rock royalty retirement looks like. I have to ask, who – or what – will wear the makeup next? <!-- Below is The Conversation's page counter tag. Please DO NOT REMOVE. --><img style="border: none !important; box-shadow: none !important; margin: 0 !important; max-height: 1px !important; max-width: 1px !important; min-height: 1px !important; min-width: 1px !important; opacity: 0 !important; outline: none !important; padding: 0 !important;" src="https://counter.theconversation.com/content/222284/count.gif?distributor=republish-lightbox-basic" alt="The Conversation" width="1" height="1" /><!-- End of code. If you don't see any code above, please get new code from the Advanced tab after you click the republish button. The page counter does not collect any personal data. 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Inside the frantic rescue mission to save woman who went overboard

<p dir="ltr">A woman has been saved from waters near the Dominican Republic after going overboard from a Royal Caribbean cruise ship. </p> <p dir="ltr">The 42-year-old American citizen was rescued by the US Coast Guard, after she fell from the 10th deck of the ship. </p> <p dir="ltr">The Mariner of the Seas cruise ship was about 50 km south of Punta Cana on its way to Willemstad, Curaçao, when the passenger went overboard, a statement from the Coast Guard said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“The passenger was recovered alive and reported to be in good health, after reportedly falling into the water from the 10th deck of the ship,” it said. “No medical evacuation of the passenger was requested by the cruise ship.”</p> <p dir="ltr">“The passenger was being kept on the cruise ship’s medical facility and later transferred to the Hospital in Willemstad, Curacao for evaluation.”</p> <p dir="ltr">The Coast Guard said it was investigating the incident, looking into how and why the woman went overboard. </p> <p dir="ltr">Matthew Kuhn, who was on the cruise ship with his family, told a Florida news station that he watched rescue efforts from his balcony.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I think it was amazing to see everyone was on their balcony. Everyone was trying to help, and the crew was very receptive to everyone,” he said.</p> <p dir="ltr">In a statement released on Wednesday, Royal Caribbean confirmed a passenger went overboard but was rescued as was being cared for onboard. </p> <p dir="ltr">“The ship and crew immediately reported the incident to local authorities and began searching for the guest. Thankfully, the guest was successfully recovered and was brought on board. Our Care team is now offering assistance and support to them and their travelling party. Out of privacy for the guest and their family, we have no additional details to share,” the statement said.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p>

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Frantic search for Australian man who went overboard on cruise ship

<p>An Australian man who went overboard on a cruise ship 1,400km south of the Hawaiian coast is thought to be the partner of a passenger who died during a medical emergency while on board.</p> <p>The Royal Caribbean Quantum of the Seas ship was just two days away from reaching its port in Hawaii when disaster struck on April 26, 15 days after the vessel had departed from Brisbane.</p> <p>The ship has since resumed its course while rescue crews have deployed a Hercules aircraft witted with a GPS system and cameras to help find the man.</p> <p>Speaking to <em>news.com.au</em>, a Royal Caribbean spokesperson said, “While on its trans-pacific sailing, a guest onboard Quantum of the Seas went overboard,”</p> <p>“The ship’s crew immediately launched a search and rescue operation and is working closely with local authorities.”</p> <p>The cruise line’s captain immediately halted the ship’s course following the tragedy, with staff launching a search and rescue operation.</p> <p>One man who was on the ship with family told <em>2GB</em> radio host Ben Fordham that the man who went overboard is allegedly the partner of a passenger who died on the ship after a medical emergency.</p> <p>“There was a show during the night, and the music stopped before it was announced there was a medical emergency, and apparently the person passed away’,” the man told Fordham.</p> <p>“About 90 minutes later, the call went out that someone went overboard, and it turned out to be the partner of the person who passed away earlier.’”</p> <p>Fordham also read another passenger’s email from onboard the ship.</p> <p>“Some saying cameras on deck saw [a man] go over. Others saying crew has confirmed the passenger did go over last night and there was only so much they could do’,” Fordham said, reading out the man’s email.</p> <p>Adam Glezer from Melbourne, who is currently onboard with his wife and four-year-old child told <em>news.com.au</em> an announcement of ‘Oscar’, a code for man overboard, was heard from the intercom at around 7pm Sydney time.</p> <p>“They didn’t make a big deal about it. It was mainly for staff and crew but an hour later things got more serious,” Mr Glezer said.</p> <p>“They started doing announcements over the loudspeaker saying ‘potential man overboard’ and that everyone had to go back to their room.”</p> <p>Mr Glezer added that passengers had to remain in their rooms for about 90 minutes before they were able to leave.</p> <p>“They didn’t make a big deal about it. It was mainly for staff and crew but an hour later things got more serious,” he said.</p> <p>“They started doing announcements over the loudspeaker saying ‘potential man overboard’ and that everyone had to go back to their room.”</p> <p>Mr Glezer described the incident as a “surreal” feeling as the entire ship fell silent, with music turned off and everyone confined to their rooms.</p> <p>“I called Mum to let her know we are OK. After that they reopened the bars – I went down. It was just packed with people wanting to know what happened.</p> <p>“I have spoken to workers who have been working on ships for years and they said they have never seen anything like this happen before.”</p> <p>It is not believed there were any suspicious circumstances.</p> <p>Other ships in the area have been advised to keep a lookout for the overboard passenger following an amber alert. A request has been made for the US Navy to get involved in an attempt to further search efforts.</p> <p><em>Image credit: Today</em></p>

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“I went through hell and back”: Jelena Dokic reveals tragic truth behind old photo

<p dir="ltr">Former tennis star Jelena Dokic has revealed the tragic truth behind her physical transformation.</p> <p dir="ltr">Dokic shared an old photo on Instagram of herself during the peak of her tennis career next to a current photo, revealing the extent of the abuse she suffered at the hands of her father.</p> <p dir="ltr">“What is the most common comment I see when it comes to my body, size and weight? ‘What happened to her? I can barely recognise her’,” Dokic started in the caption.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Really? What happened? You can’t recognise me? Let me tell you what happened.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I survived being a refugee twice, I was bullied, I lived in a domestic violence filled home for 15 years and I was beaten unconscious, I was abused physically and emotionally and got beaten for the first time when I was six years, I was called a whore and a cow since I was as young as 11. I had to escape home, I battled anxiety, depression, PTSD and trauma and I almost committed suicide,” she shared.</p> <p dir="ltr">The 39-year-old has always been open about her struggles with depression, online abuse, body shaming, and the family violence she suffered throughout her career.</p> <p dir="ltr">In the photo, Dokic has a visible bruise on her leg, and added that despite everything she’s been through and achieved, the most important thing to her was that she survived.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I still managed to do pretty well, I managed to be top five in the world as a tennis player and a grand slam finalist, I am a best-selling author, commentator and speaker but most importantly I survived”.</p> <blockquote class="instagram-media" style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CrLAQi8pKo0/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"> </div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"> </div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"> </div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <div style="padding: 12.5% 0;"> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;"> <div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);"> </div> </div> <div style="margin-left: 8px;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;"> </div> <div style="width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);"> </div> </div> <div style="margin-left: auto;"> <div style="width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);"> </div> <div style="width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);"> </div> </div> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;"> </div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CrLAQi8pKo0/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A post shared by JELENA DOKIC 🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺 (@dokic_jelena)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p dir="ltr">She slammed body shamers who only saw “weight and size change” by sharing that she is much happier being a size 16 compared to a size 4.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I will tell you the difference between these two images. The one on the left is a size four, scared to death, beaten unconscious and that bulge on my shins is from being kicked all night,” she wrote.</p> <p dir="ltr">“The one on the right is me at size 16, I have survived it all and I am here healing from my trauma and thriving.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I will take the size 16 over the size 4 any day if it means I am happy.</p> <p dir="ltr">“If it means I turned to food to try and survive, then so be it. But I am here, I am happy and most importantly I made it through.</p> <p dir="ltr">“So, there is the answer, once and for all. I went through hell and back and I survived and today I try to help others. That’s what happened. And for those that still don’t get the point, well that says everything about you,” Dokic concluded in her post.</p> <p dir="ltr">Many have shared their support for Dokic and her courage to tell her story.</p> <p dir="ltr">“You’re so inspiring Jelena 👏🙌 Keep up the great work!!” commented one follower.</p> <p dir="ltr">“You don’t need to justify anything to anyone. Most of us know a warrior when we see one. I’m so glad you’ve made it through and continue to stand up for yourself time and time again ❤️” wrote another.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Thank you, Jelena 💙 We are all worth so much more than our bodies 🦋” chimed a third.</p> <p><em>Images: Getty, Instagram</em></p>

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"I just went numb": Man recalls helicopter crash that gravely injured wife and stepson

<p>A father has recounted the horrifying moment he watched his wife and stepson plummet to the ground in a wrecked helicopter after a mid-air collision on the Gold Coast. </p> <p>Neil De Silva told the <a href="https://www.heraldsun.com.au/subscribe/news/1/?sourceCode=HSWEB_WRE170_a&amp;dest=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.heraldsun.com.au%2Fnews%2Fvictoria%2Fgeelong-mum-son-among-sea-world-chopper-casualties%2Fnews-story%2Fc3de255af1ae5ea3e8b5611b2eeae87c&amp;memtype=anonymous&amp;mode=premium&amp;v21=dynamic-high-control-score&amp;V21spcbehaviour=append" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Herald Sun</a> that he felt powerless to help as he watched his family collide with another helicopter at high speeds. </p> <p>“Winnie and Leon’s helicopter took off, it only went about 200 metres in the air,” Mr De Silva said.</p> <p>“I could see the other helicopter that was due to land … it looked like they were going to crash into one another."</p> <p>“As it got closer, I was thinking ‘this is crazy, this looks really bad’ and I just went numb”.</p> <p>After a pain-staking two hour wait, Neil was eventually informed that his wife Winnie, 33, and stepson Leon, 9, had survived the devastating crash, but had been rushed to hospital in critical condition. </p> <p><a href="https://oversixty.com.au/news/news/helicopter-crash-victims-identified" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Four others</a> on their flight were killed in the collision, while another young boy, 10, also remains critical in hospital. </p> <p>In a heart-wrenching twist to the De Silva's story, Neil revealed that the Geelong family were celebrating the end of a challenging year by treating themselves to a budget Gold Coast getaway. </p> <p>Mr De Silva shared that it had always been Winnie’s dream to take her son Leon on a chopper ride, so they decided to treat themselves to the adventure ride. </p> <p>“It was Winnie’s dream to take Leon on a helicopter,” Mr de Silva said.</p> <p>“I thought I would shout them a 10-minute flight."</p> <p>“We were on a budget holiday, trying to save money but I wanted them to have that experience.”</p> <p>Winnie remains critical but stable in the Gold Coast University Hospital with two broken legs, a damaged left knee, a broken right shoulder and a broken collarbone.</p> <p>Leon remains in a coma with facial and head injuries, a cracked skull and severe trauma to the brain in Brisbane’s Queensland Children’s Hospital.</p> <p>Mr De Silva has organised a<a title="www.gofundme.com" href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-winnie-leon-seaworld-crash-victims?qid=8e66b72e6929303fe5aef72a4eb79661"> GoFundMe</a> to support the family as he takes time off work to be by their side.</p> <p>Leon moved from Kenya to Australia about a year ago to be with Winnie, and his life Down Under was set to be full of new experiences.</p> <p>“This was his first helicopter flight,” he said. “Everything is a new experience for him.”</p> <p>“I feel blessed that Winnie and Leon survived."</p> <p>“Four people died — they are blessed to be alive.”</p> <p><em>Image credits: GoFundMe</em></p>

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How an unusual art installation from 2016 went viral

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">An art installation created in 2016 by two Chinese artists has been given a new life online, with users on TikTok connecting to the piece. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The artwork, titled </span><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Can’t Help Myself</span></em><span style="font-weight: 400;">, showcases a machine inside a glass cube with a robotic arm that is illuminated by fluorescent lighting. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The robot arm has one task: to sweep up an oozing dark red liquid, made to resemble blood, that slowly spills out in a perfect circle. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The machine works endlessly on a task that is never finished, to showcase the tiring feeling of endless labour. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Every now and then, the task is interrupted when the robotic arm breaks into a series of dance moves, giving the machine scarily human characteristics. </span></p> <p><iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/jRjrI42WsH4" title="YouTube video player" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Created by artists </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">Sun Yuan and Peng Yu for New York’s </span><a href="https://www.guggenheim.org/artwork/34812"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Guggenheim Museum</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, the piece uses “visual-recognition sensors and software systems to examine our increasingly automated global reality, one in which territories are controlled mechanically and the relationship between people and machines is rapidly changing.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">As the exhibit was first installed in 2016, footage of the machine slowing down has gone viral on TikTok, with many younger audiences finding their own devastating meaning in the piece. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“It looks frustrated with itself, like it really wants to be finally done,” one comment with over 350,000 likes reads. “It looks so tired and unmotivated,” another said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Another emotional user commented, “This is what trauma feels like. You can sweep it away but it’s always there no matter what you do.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">One Twitter user analysed the work, claiming the piece was about “the hydraulic fluid in relation to how we kill ourselves both mentally and physically for money just in an attempt to sustain life, how the system is set up for us to fail on purpose to essentially enslave us and to steal the best years of our lives.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">With all art, </span><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Can’t Help Myself</span></em><span style="font-weight: 400;"> is open to interpretation by an objective audience, with the artists welcoming people’s thoughts on its greater meaning.  </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Regardless of how it influences each person, the hypnotising installation has cemented itself in the creative zeitgeist, with audiences finding similarities between their own struggles and a programmed bionic machine. </span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image credits: Twitter</span></em></p>

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This woman went on 1000 dates to find her perfect match

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">One woman has undergone a Herculean effort to find “The One”, and has managed to find them in a surprising way.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Anna Swoboda, originally from Poland but now living in Sydney, entered the online dating world when she was 22, after she was convinced she would find her one true love.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I have always believed in love. I am a romantic and a lover. I knew there was someone out there for me,” Anna <a rel="noopener" href="https://7news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/online-dating-australia-tips-by-sydney-woman-anna-swoboda-who-met-1000-men-to-find-love-c-4851501" target="_blank">told</a> </span><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">7Life</span></em><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I had seen friends make compromises and settle down. I couldn’t do that. I vowed to settle UP. The circle of men I could meet through friends was small, so I felt the best way to find someone special, my needle in the haystack, was to get out and meet lots of men.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I kept looking.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The now-41-year-old ended up going on more than 1000 dates in her pursuit for love.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“There were years where I would go out on dates five times a week, and years where I wouldn’t date at all because I was in a relationship,” she said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I also consciously took a few years off dating.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">As for discerning whether a first date would turn into more, she said she knew instantly.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I would know quickly if it was going to work or not. But I was always curious and genuinely interested in all my dates,” she explained.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I would feel men’s vulnerability and make sure that even if it wasn’t going to work, we should have a good time and both feel comfortable and valued. Men are much more vulnerable than they let on.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">After 1000 dates, two serious relationships and nine failed relationships, Anna met her now-fiancé through a mutual matchmaking friend three years ago.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“He had just returned from living overseas, and she was convinced we would be great together, so she made the introduction. She was so right,” Anna recalled.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“My fiancé and I are very compatible and have the same mindset. This is what makes a huge difference.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Reflecting back on her dating history, Anna admitted that she wouldn’t have gone on many of the dates she went on.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Dating is not a numbers game,” she said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“It’s about really understanding your requirements and compatibility. At the time I wasn’t clear about the ultimate vision for my life and my relationship.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I also wasn’t fully aware of my limiting beliefs in regards to dating and relationships.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Now a relationship coach, Anna has started her own matchmaking business, called <a rel="noopener" href="https://heartmatch.com.au/" target="_blank">HeartMatch</a>, to help others find love.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“There is someone out there for everyone,” she said.</span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: Anna Swoboda</span></em></p>

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Harbour Bridge crash: What went wrong

<p><span>Police have told reporters what happened in the serious car crash that left one woman dead, two men with head injuries and a second woman trapped inside of her car on Thursday morning.</span><br /><br /><span>Acting Superintendent Paul Dunstan says that early investigations reveal that a Mitsubishi Mirage travelling north had crossed two lanes of traffic.</span><br /><br /><span>The vehicle ended up on the wrong side of the road for a “short time” before slamming into a BMW travelling south.</span><br /><br /><span>The cars collided at the Millers Point entrance to the bridge just before 7.15am.</span><br /><br /><span>People from both the vehicles were injured in the crash and the Mitsubishi driver was killed.</span><br /><br /><span>Traffic was so dense that firefighters had no choice but to walk to the scene carrying life savings equipment.</span><br /><br /><span>Wreckage could be seen strewn across the road during peak-hour traffic.</span><br /><br /><span>Supt Dunstan said CCTV footage of the incident was “confronting” to watch.</span><br /><br /><span>“It would appear at this stage that the vehicle travelling in the northbound direction has crossed two lanes of traffic and collided with the vehicle travelling south which was in its correct lane,” he said.</span><br /><br /><span>“I have seen footage of the incident, and that’s how it appears in the early stages.”</span><br /><br /><span>The female driver of the Mitsubishi has not been formally identified but reports say she is in her mid 30s.</span><br /><br /><span>Her two passengers, both men believed to be in their 30s, have suffered head injuries.</span><br /><br /><span>Both have been taken to Royal North Shore Hospital and one remains in critical condition.</span><br /><br /><span>The second driver is a woman in her 40s who was trapped left in her BMW.</span><br /><br /><span>Later she was taken to St Vincent’s Hospital with “at least” a broken leg, Supt Dunstan said.</span><br /><br /><span>A male passenger believed to be with her was taken to Royal North Shore hospital with minor injuries.</span><br /><br /><span>“There was a red car smashed, unbelievably, in the front, and I don't know how both of them – the black car and the red car – got over two different angles. But it was a big hit,” a witness informed the Today show.</span><br /><br /><span>Supt Dunstan said the lanes of traffic were clearly marked.</span><br /><br /><span>However he has noted that the driver might have believed she was driving in the right direction.</span><br /><br /><span>The bridge was closed for about three hours on Thursday morning but has since reopened.</span><br /><br /><span>Drivers are advised to avoid the area as traffic is still “extremely heavy”.</span><br /><br /><span>Inspector Lucky Phrachanh who is duty operations manager at NSW Ambulance, said the scene was horrific”.</span><br /><br /><span>“Paramedics and emergency services never want to attend these types of accidents,” he said.</span><br /><br /><span>“We say this all the time, but please look out for each other on the roads. Driving any motor vehicle can be extremely dangerous.”</span></p>

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Hidden women of history: Catherine Hay Thomson – the Australian undercover journalist who went inside asylums and hospitals

<p><a rel="noopener" href="https://nla.gov.au/nla.obj-147135448/view" target="_blank"><em><strong>See pictures of Catherine Hay Thomson here. </strong></em></a></p> <p>In 1886, a year before American journalist Nellie Bly <a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/history/2019/07/28/she-went-undercover-expose-an-insane-asylums-horrors-now-nellie-bly-is-getting-her-due/">feigned insanity</a> to enter an asylum in New York and became a household name, Catherine Hay Thomson arrived at the entrance of Kew Asylum in Melbourne on “a hot grey morning with a lowering sky”.</p> <p>Hay Thomson’s two-part article, <a href="https://trove.nla.gov.au/newspaper/article/6089302">The Female Side of Kew Asylum</a> for The Argus newspaper revealed the conditions women endured in Melbourne’s public institutions.</p> <p>Her articles were controversial, engaging, empathetic, and most likely the first known by an Australian female undercover journalist.</p> <p><strong>A ‘female vagabond’</strong></p> <p>Hay Thomson was accused of being a spy by Kew Asylum’s supervising doctor. The Bulletin called her “the female vagabond”, a reference to Melbourne’s famed undercover reporter of a decade earlier, Julian Thomas. But she was not after notoriety.</p> <p>Unlike Bly and her ambitious contemporaries who turned to “stunt journalism” to escape the boredom of the women’s pages – one of the few avenues open to women newspaper writers – Hay Thomson was initially a teacher and ran <a href="https://www.austlit.edu.au/austlit/page/A79772">schools</a>with her mother in Melbourne and Ballarat.</p> <p>In <a href="https://trove.nla.gov.au/newspaper/article/207826580?searchTerm=%22Catherine%20Hay%20Thomson%22&amp;searchLimits=exactPhrase=Catherine+Hay+Thomson%7C%7C%7CanyWords%7C%7C%7CnotWords%7C%7C%7CrequestHandler%7C%7C%7CdateFrom%7C%7C%7CdateTo%7C%7C%7Csortby">1876</a>, she became one of the first female students to sit for the matriculation exam at Melbourne University, though women weren’t allowed to study at the university until 1880.</p> <p><strong>Going undercover</strong></p> <p>Hay Thomson’s series for The Argus began in March 1886 with a piece entitled <a href="https://trove.nla.gov.au/newspaper/article/6087478?searchTerm=%22The%20Inner%20Life%20of%20the%20Melbourne%20Hospital%22&amp;searchLimits=">The Inner Life of the Melbourne Hospital</a>. She secured work as an assistant nurse at Melbourne Hospital (now <a href="https://www.thermh.org.au/about/our-history">The Royal Melbourne Hospital</a>) which was under scrutiny for high running costs and an abnormally high patient death rate.</p> <p>Her articles increased the pressure. She observed that the assistant nurses were untrained, worked largely as cleaners for poor pay in unsanitary conditions, slept in overcrowded dormitories and survived on the same food as the patients, which she described in stomach-turning detail.</p> <p>The hospital linen was dirty, she reported, dinner tins and jugs were washed in the patients’ bathroom where poultices were also made, doctors did not wash their hands between patients.</p> <p>Writing about a young woman caring for her dying friend, a 21-year-old impoverished single mother, Hay Thomson observed them “clinging together through all fortunes” and added that “no man can say that friendship between women is an impossibility”.</p> <p>The Argus editorial called for the setting up of a “ladies’ committee” to oversee the cooking and cleaning. Formal nursing training was introduced in Victoria three years later.</p> <p><strong>Kew Asylum</strong></p> <p>Hay Thomson’s next <a href="https://trove.nla.gov.au/newspaper/article/6089302">series</a>, about women’s treatment in the Kew Asylum, was published in March and April 1886.</p> <p>Her articles predate <a href="https://www.sas.upenn.edu/~cavitch/pdf-library/Bly_TenDays.pdf">Ten Days in a Madhouse</a> written by Nellie Bly (born <a href="https://www.biography.com/activist/nellie-bly">Elizabeth Cochran</a>) for Joseph Pulitzer’s <a href="https://www.britannica.com/topic/New-York-World">New York World</a>.</p> <p>While working in the asylum for a fortnight, Hay Thomson witnessed overcrowding, understaffing, a lack of training, and a need for woman physicians. Most of all, the reporter saw that many in the asylum suffered from institutionalisation rather than illness.</p> <p>She described “the girl with the lovely hair” who endured chronic ear pain and was believed to be delusional. The writer countered “her pain is most probably real”.</p> <p>Observing another patient, Hay Thomson wrote:</p> <p><em>She requires to be guarded – saved from herself; but at the same time, she requires treatment … I have no hesitation in saying that the kind of treatment she needs is unattainable in Kew Asylum.</em></p> <p>The day before the first asylum article was published, Hay Thomson gave evidence to the final sitting of Victoria’s <a href="https://www.parliament.vic.gov.au/papers/govpub/VPARL1886No15Pi-clxxii.pdf">Royal Commission on Asylums for the Insane and Inebriate</a>, pre-empting what was to come in The Argus. Among the Commission’s final recommendations was that a new governing board should supervise appointments and training and appoint “lady physicians” for the female wards.</p> <p><strong>Suffer the little children</strong></p> <p>In May 1886, <a href="https://trove.nla.gov.au/newspaper/article/6095144/276118">An Infant Asylum written “by a Visitor”</a> was published. The institution was a place where mothers – unwed and impoverished - could reside until their babies were weaned and later adopted out.</p> <p>Hay Thomson reserved her harshest criticism for the absent fathers:</p> <p><em>These women … have to bear the burden unaided, all the weight of shame, remorse, and toil, [while] the other partner in the sin goes scot free.</em></p> <p>For another article, <a href="https://trove.nla.gov.au/newspaper/article/6099966?searchTerm=%22Among%20the%20Blind%3A%20Victorian%20Asylum%20and%20School%22&amp;searchLimits=">Among the Blind: Victorian Asylum and School</a>, she worked as an assistant needlewoman and called for talented music students at the school to be allowed to sit exams.</p> <p>In <a href="https://trove.nla.gov.au/newspaper/article/254464232?searchTerm=%22A%20Penitent%E2%80%99s%20Life%20in%20the%20Magdalen%20Asylum%22&amp;searchLimits=">A Penitent’s Life in the Magdalen Asylum</a>, Hay Thomson supported nuns’ efforts to help women at the Abbotsford Convent, most of whom were not residents because they were “fallen”, she explained, but for reasons including alcoholism, old age and destitution.</p> <p><strong>Suffrage and leadership</strong></p> <p>Hay Thomson helped found the <a href="https://www.australsalon.org/130th-anniversary-celebration-1">Austral Salon of Women, Literature and the Arts</a>in January 1890 and <a href="https://ncwvic.org.au/about-us.html#est">the National Council of Women of Victoria</a>. Both organisations are still celebrating and campaigning for women.</p> <p>Throughout, she continued writing, becoming <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Table_Talk_(magazine)">Table Talk</a> magazine’s music and social critic.</p> <p>In 1899 she became editor of The Sun: An Australian Journal for the Home and Society, which she bought with Evelyn Gough. Hay Thomson also gave a series of lectures titled <a href="https://trove.nla.gov.au/newspaper/article/145847122?searchTerm=%22catherine%20hay%20thomson%22%20and%20%22women%20in%20politics%22&amp;searchLimits=">Women in Politics</a>.</p> <p>A Melbourne hotel maintains that Hay Thomson’s private residence was secretly on the fourth floor of Collins Street’s <a href="https://www.melbourne.intercontinental.com/catherine-hay-thomson">Rialto building</a> around this time.</p> <p><strong>Home and back</strong></p> <p>After selling The Sun, Hay Thomson returned to her birth city, Glasgow, Scotland, and to a precarious freelance career for English magazines such as <a href="https://onlinebooks.library.upenn.edu/webbin/serial?id=cassellsmag">Cassell’s</a>.</p> <p>Despite her own declining fortunes, she brought attention to writer and friend <a href="http://adb.anu.edu.au/biography/carmichael-grace-elizabeth-jennings-5507">Grace Jennings Carmichael</a>’s three young sons, who had been stranded in a Northampton poorhouse for six years following their mother’s death from pneumonia. After Hay Thomson’s article in The Argus, the Victorian government granted them free passage home.</p> <p>Hay Thomson eschewed the conformity of marriage but <a href="https://trove.nla.gov.au/newspaper/article/65330270?searchTerm=&amp;searchLimits=l-publictag=Mrs+T+F+Legge+%28nee+Hay+Thomson%29">tied the knot</a> back in Melbourne in 1918, aged 72. The wedding at the Women Writer’s Club to Thomas Floyd Legge, culminated “a romance of forty years ago”. <a href="https://trove.nla.gov.au/newspaper/article/140219851">Mrs Legge</a>, as she became, died in Cheltenham in 1928, only nine years later.</p> <p><em>Written by Kerrie Davies and Willa McDonald. Republished with permission of <a href="https://theconversation.com/hidden-women-of-history-catherine-hay-thomson-the-australian-undercover-journalist-who-went-inside-asylums-and-hospitals-129352">The Conversation.</a></em></p>

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‘Life just went to crap’: why army veterans are twice as likely to end up in prison

<p>The question of whether Australia does enough to support its ex-service personnel is growing in urgency, with Labor leader Anthony Albanese this week <a href="https://www.sbs.com.au/news/we-must-do-better-labor-backs-royal-commission-into-veteran-deaths">adding his voice</a> to those calling for a royal commission into veteran suicides.</p> <p>The numbers are alarming – between 2001 and 2017, <a href="https://www.aihw.gov.au/reports/veterans/national-veteran-suicide-monitoring/contents/summary">419 serving and ex-serving</a>Australian Defence Force personnel died by suicide. But while the suicide rate for men still serving was 48% lower than in the equivalent general population, the rate is 18% higher for those who had left the military.</p> <p>For women it’s a similar story, where the suicide rate for ex-serving women is higher than Australian women generally. However, the small numbers of ex-service women who have been studied means the data are limited.</p> <p>But there’s another issue afflicting ex-military men that’s not often discussed: they are imprisoned twice as often as men in the general Australian population. This is according to the first known Australian prison audit to identify incarcerated ex-service members, conducted in South Australia last year.</p> <p>In fact, these findings support <a href="https://www.bmj.com/content/342/bmj.d3898.extract">research from England</a>, which identifies ex-service men as the largest incarcerated occupational group.</p> <p>The high rate of imprisonment, along with the spike in the suicide rate of ex-members, reflects the challenges some service people face transitioning from military service back to civilian life, and the critical lack of available transition planning and support.</p> <p><strong>Why do some veterans turn to crime?</strong></p> <p>When a United States ex-Marine fatally shot 12 people in California in 2018, President Donald Trump promoted a widespread, oversimplified connection between military service and criminal offending. He <a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/national-security/trump-rankles-veterans-with-comments-about-ptsd-and-california-shooter/2018/11/09/2c4ab5ba-e463-11e8-a1c9-6afe99dddd92_story.html">said</a> the shooter</p> <p><em>was in the war. He saw some pretty bad things […] they come back, they’re never the same.</em></p> <p>We have so far interviewed 13 former service men for our ongoing research, trying to explain the findings of the South Australia audit. And we found the connection between military service and criminal offending is more complex than Trump suggests.</p> <p>The combination of childhood trauma, military training, social exclusion and mental health issues on discharge created the perfect cocktail of risk factors leading to crime.</p> <p>For many, joining the service was a way to find respect, discipline and camaraderie. In fact, most interviewees found military service effective at controlling the effects of childhood trauma. One man we interviewed said he “could see me life going to the shit, that’s when I went and signed up for the army […] The discipline appealed to me. To me I was like yearning for it because I was going down the bad road real quick.”</p> <p>Another explained that joining the military was the: “BEST thing I ever did. LOVED it. Well they gave me discipline, they showed me true friendships and it let me work my issues out […] I loved putting my uniform on and the respect that I could show other people, whereas before I’d rather hit them.”</p> <p><strong>Leaving the military can aggravate past trauma</strong></p> <p>However, all men complained military discharge was a complete, “sudden cut”. This sudden departure from the service, combined with the rigorous military training, can aggravate previous trauma. As one ex-service member put it: “The military is a fantastic thing […] but the moment that you’re not there […] it magnifies everything else and it’s just like a ticking time bomb.</p> <p>“I mean you’re trained to shoot people.”</p> <p>Another reflected that when he left the army, he lost the routine that kept his past traumas at bay.</p> <p>“I was working myself to the bone just to stop thinking about it. Then when I got out issues were coming back, coming back. I’ve lost my structure […] and life just went to crap.”</p> <p>Every man we interviewed had been diagnosed with some combination of post traumatic stress, multiple personality disorder, anti-social personality disorder, bipolar, depression, panic disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder or alcohol and other drug dependence.</p> <p>They arose from various combinations of pre-service and service-related trauma.</p> <p>All interviewees lacked support from the Australian Defence Force or government veteran services. One explained how he found it difficult to manage post traumatic stress since his usual strategies were “getting very thin”.</p> <p>And the lack of support for their mental health issues worsened when they were incarcerated because they said the Department of Veterans Affairs cut ties, and “no-one inside the prison system is going to pay for psychological help”.</p> <p><strong>Maintaining identity</strong></p> <p>For some men, joining criminal organisations was a deliberate way to find a sense of belonging and the “brotherhood” they missed from the defence force. One man reflected:</p> <p>“I found a lot of Australian soldiers that are lost. You think you’re a civilian but you’re not, you never will be […] even three years’ service in the army will change you forever.</p> <p>“And the Australian government doesn’t do enough.”</p> <p>Ex-service men in prison are a significant, vulnerable part of that community. The Australian Defence Force and government veteran agencies need to urgently reform transition support services because current discharge processes are costing lives.</p> <p><a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/09638237.2017.1370640">English research</a> has found peer support helps service men transition into civilian life, but the men we interviewed did not receive peer support until they were in prison.</p> <p>Then, it was through a <a href="https://xmrc.com.au/">welfare organisation</a> and Correctional Services, not defence agencies.</p> <p>One man told us that after his discharge</p> <p><em>I actually went back and asked if I could mow the lawns for free, just so I could be around them still. They wouldn’t allow it.</em></p> <p>If ex-service men could maintain contact with the Australian Defence Force through peer support and informal networks, their identity and sense of purpose could be maintained to reduce the risk factors for offending and re-offending.</p> <p><em>If you or anyone you know needs help or is having suicidal thoughts, contact Lifeline on 131 114 or beyondblue on 1300 22 46 36.</em></p> <p><em>Written by Kellie Toole and Elaine Waddell. Republished with <a href="/For%20women%20it’s%20a%20similar%20story,%20where%20the%20suicide%20rate%20for%20ex-serving%20women%20is%20higher%20than%20Australian%20women%20generally.%20However,%20the%20small%20numbers%20of%20ex-service%20women%20who%20have%20been%20studied%20means%20the%20data%20are%20limited.">The Conversation.</a></em></p>

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Grant Denyer reveals terrifying plane incident: “All the power went out”

<p>Grant Denyer has opened up on 2DayFM Breakfast to his co-hosts Ed Kavalee and Ash London, as well as his legion of listeners, as he <span>described a terrifying experience where a small plane he was travelling in was struck by lightning and had to make an emergency landing through fog.</span></p> <p>"I got hit by lightning once in a small plane, and all the power went out in the plane," Denyer recounted. "So, we lost all our instruments and had to fly by sight. We had to go down and fly over a road."</p> <p>Flying by sight turned out to be risky as the plane had no clear vision of other aircraft and made a rocky emergency landing.</p> <p>"The problem is in Perth airport, you can't see all other planes on the radar so there's other massive 747s and 737s flying around and we're going through clouds not knowing if we'd hit one of them," Denyer recalled.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/B00BvhonOB8/" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/B00BvhonOB8/" target="_blank">When you look up &amp; realise you should listen because you’re the only one on the plane and this message is just for YOU</a></p> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;">A post shared by <a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/grantdenyer/" target="_blank"> Grant Denyer</a> (@grantdenyer) on Aug 5, 2019 at 11:47pm PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>"Then we had to do a fly by because we had no power, we didn't know if the wheels were down. We didn't know if we were going to do a belly landing — so we buzzed the tower,” he told his listeners.</p> <p>“So, the guys in the tower could say, 'Yes, the wheels are down, you're good,' and all the fire trucks were there when we landed."</p> <p>Luckily, Denyer landed safely enough to tell the story on air and be reunited with his precious family – wife Chezzi, and daughters Sailor and Scout.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/BzUs0cgFW7S/" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BzUs0cgFW7S/" target="_blank">A post shared by chezzidenyer (@chezzidenyer)</a> on Jun 29, 2019 at 11:13pm PDT</p> </div> </blockquote>

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The night everything went wrong on The Project

<p>A few weeks ago, Carrie Bickmore took to the stage to accept a Logie award for Most Popular Panel or Current Affairs Program on behalf of her team at <em>The Project</em>, and being one of the only original members left on the show, she was in a reflective mood.</p> <p>“I still remember our first episode – it was terrible,” she said. “(Dave) Hughesy remarked at the end of it that was his career done. I remember thinking, 'Sh*t, if that is what Hughesy is saying I have no hope'.”</p> <p>Fortunately, Hughesy was wrong as this Friday, <em>The Project </em>will be celebrating its 10th anniversary. Speaking to <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.news.com.au/entertainment/tv/current-affairs/carrie-bickmore-on-10-years-of-the-project-highs-lows-and-that-terrible-first-episode/news-story/7fcce5120446adec3726870dca67bb0b" target="_blank"><em>news.com.au</em></a>, Bickmore took a trip back in time and answered the question on everyone’s lips: Was episode one really <em>that</em> bad?</p> <p>“Oh, mate. I’m not game enough to watch it back,” Bickmore said through a laugh. “The first show was always going to be tricky – it was a completely new format, a completely new idea. I wasn’t even convinced that our hosts knew what it was when we went to air.</p> <p>“I don’t think it was great. I think all of us were happy to get to night two and surprised we were given another night. To be here 10 years later is really cool.”</p> <p>Bickmore said that even after the first night of the show, which was called <em>The 7 pm Project</em> at the time, it “took a while to get its groove, to be honest.”</p> <p>“There were so many great elements to it from the beginning, but I think it took time, like most things, to get into a good rhythm. I don’t remember at what point I thought, ‘OK, we got this now’, but it took a while.”</p> <p>And while appearing on live television week after week may seem terrifying for some, it’s all Bickmore knows after she made her debut reading the news on <em>Rove Live</em> in 2006.</p> <p>When asked what her favourite episode of <em>The Project</em> has been to date, she instantly chose the one night nothing went according to plan.</p> <p>“About five minutes before we went to air – it was Fitzy, Waleed, Pete and I – they said, ‘We’ve lost everything. We’ve got no autocue, no packages to roll, we’re got nothing’. We looked at each other and I said, ‘Let’s act out the news’.</p> <p>“I picked up my sheet and went through the news headlines – I had to be careful not to pick ones where there was no joy in them – and we started acting them out. It was completely random, no prep, flying by the seat of our pants. It wasn’t a slick performance, but it was live TV at its best.”</p> <p>And it’s that same attitude that has made her stick around on live TV, even though her previous co-hosts such as Hughes and Charlie Pickering have moved on to explore other avenues.</p> <p>“For a while I felt like people were saying to me, ‘Why are you still there? They got other jobs, why haven’t you?’ I used to get upset because I had lots of great opportunities come my way, but I was choosing to stay because it was a brilliant job, the perfect job for my skill set, and I love it,” she explained.</p> <p>“I don’t know how much longer I’ve got to go – I’m just thankful for the current scenario I’m in. I love it. It might not be right forever, but right now it’s right. I’m actually really proud that I’ve been doing it for 10 years, and I’m the last remaining original. I’m proud of that!”</p>

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How a mum’s Groupon tattoo session went horribly wrong

<p>Microblading has become the latest craze in the beauty world, with the tattoo-procedure mimicking life like hairs to give you the appearance of fuller brows.</p> <p>And while generally, people walk out quite happy with their new found eyebrows, one woman from Kansas City couldn’t have been more distraught over the final result.</p> <p>Jami Ledbetter was born without eyebrows, so she was ecstatic when her daughters purchased a Groupon for her to have them microbladed in November. But that elated feeling of happiness didn’t last long as she looked into the mirror and discovered a botched job.</p> <p>“I would never wish this on my worst enemy,” said the 42-year-old.</p> <p>“What it’s done to my self-confidence, it’s been hard.”</p> <p>The $250 voucher was for services by a woman claiming to be qualified in microblading. But that clearly wasn’t the case after Ledbetter’s traumatic experience.</p> <p>“I was devastated,” said Ledbetter.</p> <p>“I was even dating a guy, and he stopped dating me at that point.”</p> <p>The mother-of-three’s self esteem took such a hit that she only left the house for work and grocery shopping. She attempted to cover her new brows with makeup, but her attempts at masking the tattoo failed miserably.</p> <p>She then went to another woman who told her she could “camouflage” her eyebrows, but after six weeks, the situation seemed to be getting worse.</p> <p>“It was pretty painful,” said Ledbetter.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><iframe src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fjami.mortonledbetter%2Fposts%2F848961932149736&amp;width=500" width="500" height="612" style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" allow="encrypted-media"></iframe></p> <p>“I tried to have a good attitude, but it burned a lot. It kind of felt bruised.”</p> <p>It was only when she visited Kara Gutierrez, a licenced and insured tattoo artist who specialises in permanent cosmetics that Jami found relief.</p> <p>“It took everything in me to hold back tears because this is the worst I’ve ever seen,” said Gutierrez.</p> <p>“Within 24 hours of a botched job, I can remove the bad brow.”</p> <p>Ledbetter is currently undergoing a treatment known as Li-ft – a pigment lightening solution that is tattooed into the bad ink, slowly removing the colour in eight-week intervals.</p> <p>“It’s very unpredictable to how much you can remove, but it works,” said Gutierrez.</p> <p>The cosmetic artist has growing concerns over the industry, as she claims more and more women are falling into the trap of dodgy tattoo artists.</p> <p>“Nobody’s governing this,” she said.</p> <p>“No one is saying, ‘This is the right way. This is the wrong way’.”</p> <p>She has advised those wanting to go through with the procedure to do plenty of research.</p>

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Where it went wrong for Bill Shorten and the Labor party

<p>Questions are still being asked as to how Labor failed so badly.</p> <p>With all signs pointing to a Labor victory, many are asking how and where it went wrong.</p> <p>Bill Shorten’s concession speech tried to motivate supporters on Saturday, but as the results came out, the crowd thinned out.</p> <p>“We are a resilient and proud movement and we never give up,” he told them.</p> <p>However, Shorten gave a hint as to where it went wrong.</p> <p>“The test even beyond victory, which I set myself in the lead-up to this election, was that at 6 pm when the polls closed, when the final votes were cast, I wanted to be able to look at myself in the mirror and say there was nothing more that I could have done,” Mr Shorten said.</p> <p>“No more ideas that we should have expressed.”</p> <p>With Labor’s ambitious plans for the country, including negative gearing, a top bracket tax and initiatives for climate change, this could have been what put voters off.</p> <p>With the big ideas and ambitious policies that were raised by Labor, they failed to win the support in Queensland, NSW and Tasmania.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en"> <p dir="ltr">Practice makes perfect <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/ausvotes?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#ausvotes</a> <a href="https://t.co/DqO92J234W">pic.twitter.com/DqO92J234W</a></p> — Bill Shorten (@billshortenmp) <a href="https://twitter.com/billshortenmp/status/1129563778478104578?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">May 18, 2019</a></blockquote> <p>A Labor insider also revealed to<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.news.com.au/national/federal-election/bill-shortens-promise-to-himself-ended-up-being-his-biggest-problem/news-story/f5321acff0564dc466c434e342459692" target="_blank">news.com.au</a><span> </span>that booths with voters dominated by those aged 65-plus punished Labor with double-digit swings against the party for Liberal.</p> <p>ABC journalist Patricia Karveleas said that the PM turned Labor’s strategy into a perfect attack against the party.</p> <p>“His message was sharp, piercing and he never deviated from the one central claim — that Labor was a high-taxing risk to the economy, and Mr Shorten would take money ‘from your pocket’.</p> <p>“By contrast, Labor drifted from message to message — it started on health, moved to wages and staggered into climate change.</p> <p>“Labor took considerable policy risks in this campaign, making itself the big target with a suite of policies which had identifiable and quantifiable losers.”</p> <p>Labor’s deputy leader Tanya Plibersek conceded that the party’s policy agenda was too big on <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.abc.net.au/insiders/" target="_blank"><em>Insiders</em></a>.</p> <p>“Our policy agenda was big and it was bold, and perhaps we didn’t have enough time to explain the benefits of it,” Plibersek explained.</p> <p>“We had the option of having a whole campaign based on the chaos and disunity of the last six years — the three prime ministers, the three treasurers, the fact they all hate each other,” she said.</p> <p>“We had a really ambitious policy agenda that deals with the big issues.”</p>

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“He thought I couldn’t do it”: Cassandra Thorburn reveals the real reason she went on Dancing With The Stars

<p>She’s recently made headlines after her high profile divorce from ex-husband and former <em>Today</em> show host Karl Stefanovic, but now Cassandra Thorburn is leaving all that behind as she competes on reality TV series, <em>Dancing With The Stars</em>.</p> <p>When asked by <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/news/opinion/brutal-remark-that-spurred-on-cass-thorburn/news-story/4d50600300f4b8dabe9e1f51297743e4" target="_blank"><em>The Sunday Telegraph</em></a> on what exactly made her want to compete on the show, the response was unexpected as the mother-of-three revealed that it was her teenage son's lack of support that drove her towards the competition.</p> <p>“I went to Jackson, my eldest, and I said, ‘I think I’m going to do <em>DWTS</em>’ and he turned and said, ‘No, you’re not – you can’t f***ing dance’ and right then and there I decided it was time I learnt to dance. So I signed up,” explained Thorburn.</p> <p>“If Jackson – who did 10 years of ballet – thinks I can’t dance, then I’m going to learn to dance.”</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/BuIs4JqA2ey/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BuIs4JqA2ey/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Cassandra Thorburn (@cassthorburn)</a> on Feb 20, 2019 at 11:46pm PST</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>But her teenage son wasn’t the only one who inspired the 47-year-old to reach for the stars, as earlier in the year, she told <em><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/" target="_blank">The Daily Telegraph</a> </em>about a conversation she had with her late father Max that changed her perspective on everything.</p> <p>It was one of the last conversations I had with my dad before he passed away,” she said. “(He told me) If you said no … you will regret it one day.”</p> <p>She also enjoys challenges, and with one knocking on her doorstep, it was hard to pass up.</p> <p>“I love a challenge, love a challenge, I’m quite sprightly about challenges,” she said.</p> <p>Despite the heartfelt revelation, Thorburn hasn’t started off on the right foot, as after a rough week, she and her dancing partner Marco de Angelis finished on the bottom of the leader board.</p> <p>“I did have a bit of a cry the other day with Marco and the producer but at the end of the day I did put myself in this position and I knew that this would be the case and I’m trying to show people that when life throws you a curve ball don’t think that’s it,” she told <em><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/news/opinion/brutal-remark-that-spurred-on-cass-thorburn/news-story/4d50600300f4b8dabe9e1f51297743e4" target="_blank">The Sunday Telegraph</a>.</em></p> <p>“Things can change, things can look up, just keep putting one foot in front of the other – fake it until you make it and one day you wake up and you’re really happy. It actually becomes a reality.”</p> <p>Thorburn also shared that she signed up to<em> DWTS</em> in the hope of “reclaiming” her identity.</p> <p>“If other women or men from separated families – if they get inspiration from that, fantastic. I’m doing it because that’s what I need to do for my family. A lot of women are in the same position as me – they’ve raised children and are trying to get back into the workforce – that’s what this is,” she said.</p> <p>Are you rooting for Cassandra to come out on top on <em>DWTS</em>? Let us know in the comments below. </p>

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Dave Hughes opens up about hitting rock bottom: “I went downhill over a year”

<p>Although Dave Hughes is known for his hilarious antics and quick banter, the Aussie comedian and TV and radio host has candidly discussed the darkest battle he went through.</p> <p>Before becoming co-host of 2DAY FM’s Drive radio show <em>Hughesy &amp; Kate</em> with Kate Langbroek, the father-of-three came from humble beginnings and was plagued by crippling self-doubt.</p> <p>Hughesy became unemployed and slipped into a lifestyle of regular alcohol and marijuana use after dropping out of his business university degree.</p> <p>Speaking to <a href="https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/health/mind/mens-mental-health-dave-hughes-opens-up-about-his-personal-battle/news-story/402a65d7a70f5ed5450d1fa2ab16d7c5"><strong><u>news.com.au</u></strong></a>, Hughesy recalled: “I was feeling depressed as a young man.</p> <p>“I was drinking too much, and when I’d drink I would get drunk. As a teenager and in my early 20s I was struggling with my own ego … that whole struggle to feel like you’re achieving things.</p> <p>“Young men and young people can take life too seriously and I think drinking certainly didn’t help that … as well as smoking marijuana.”</p> <p>The uncertainty of not knowing what career he wanted to pursue led to the now 47-year-old battling with his mental health.</p> <p>“I was doing a business degree … I’d dropped out of an IT degree,” he said.</p> <p>“I was trying to satisfy my own expectations of being a winner but not really having my heart in any of it.</p> <p>“I remember I dropped out of uni after failing every subject in the second semester of the second year of my business degree, and I suppose I spent some time unemployed.</p> <p>“That, combined with smoking a lot of marijuana and drinking heavily, led me to feeling really poorly … really feeling down more than anything … just a feeling of being really low.</p> <p>“Drinking and marijuana was making me feel even more lost I suppose.”</p> <p>Hughesy first discussed the struggle he faced while appearing as a guest on <em>Q&amp;A</em> in 2015.</p> <p>The entertainer admitted to believing he suffered from schizophrenia in his early 20s.</p> <p>“When you hit something hard and you’re coming off it, I think that’s when you can really get freaked out,” he said of his terrifying dreams after quitting alcohol and marijuana.</p> <p>“It was coming off and not trying to do that stuff where you’d freak out … your thoughts go all over the place.</p> <p>“I remember thinking I wasn’t in control of my thoughts.”</p> <p>During his struggle, he decided to open up to his mum, who was a practising nurse, as “there was very little talk between young men” about mental health.</p> <p>“(In the 1990s) it was unheard of I suppose,” he said.</p> <p>“There were no sporting heroes who put their hand up that they were struggling mentally.</p> <p>“My mum was the best one for me to speak to (because) it wasn’t something you’d chat about with your friends.”</p> <p>Although Hughesy didn’t self harm, he said he would put himself into situations where he didn’t care about the outcome.</p> <p>“There were moments where you might drive erratically without care,” he said. </p> <p>“Not many times, but a few times where you don’t mind what happens.</p> <p>“I think many young men go through times where they end up in cars … doing things that are really dangerous but don’t care of the result and often that can end tragically for any young man.</p> <p>“Thankfully I survived.”</p> <p>Now, Hughesy shares his story openly so that the stigma around seeking help for mental health will change.</p> <p>“For anyone, it can be embarrassing to admit you’re struggling mentally,” Hughesy said.</p> <p>“I went downhill over a year … So it was a year of struggling. But I came good pretty quickly after seeing a health professional with my mum. I stopped smoking marijuana and stopped drinking and haven’t had a drink since those days.</p> <p>“Anyone who talks about it is inspiring for the whole … and certainly encourages people to be honest about their struggles,” he said.</p> <p>“Many people go through the same things. To keep hold of your mental health is like keeping hold of your physical health. It should be maintained.</p> <p>“Men … they don’t express their feelings as much as women I suppose. Men just don’t do it enough.”</p> <p><em><strong>If you are troubled by this article, experiencing a personal crisis or thinking about suicide, you can call Lifeline 131 114 or beyondblue 1300 224 636 or visit <a href="https://www.lifeline.org.au/">lifeline.org.au</a> or <a href="https://www.beyondblue.org.au/">beyondblue.org.au</a>.</strong></em></p>

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Edwina Bartholomew reveals what went wrong on her fairytale wedding day

<p>Sunrise presenter Edwina Bartholomew has arrived in London to cover the royal wedding of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle on May 19.</p> <p>The 34-year-old presenter has said that she knows the royal couple won’t face any of the “unique issues” she did when she tied the knot last month.</p> <p>Edwina and Neil Varcoe married in front of 160 of their nearest and dearest on their farm.</p> <p>Despite sharing perfect photos from the day, Edwina confessed that the day had its fair share of hiccups.</p> <p>"The showers went out in the morning, and the lights went out at night," Edwina told <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="https://www.nowtolove.com.au/tvweek" target="_blank">TV WEEK</a></strong></em></span>.</p> <p>"We had to duck over to our neighbours' house and get more [diesel], and some people from town had to bring in some more from the servo in a couple of jerry cans.</p> <p>"Then, when the generator fired back up, the band fired back up, and we were on again!"</p> <p>Due to the property’s remoteness, Edwina was also worried about running out of alcohol and toilet paper.</p> <p>"Certainly, at Windsor Castle [where Harry and Meghan will tie the knot], they have sorted enough loo paper – and diesel for the generator, I hope," she said.</p> <p>Reflecting on the private nature of her wedding, Edwina hopes the royal couple will be able to enjoy their day as the world watches closely.</p> <p>"It would be wonderful if they can take a tiny moment together that's just for them," she said.</p> <p>"In a day of chaos and attention, I hope they get that."</p> <p>Did any major hiccups happen on your wedding day? Share with us in the comments below. </p>

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5 best songs by musicians who went solo

<p>Many iconic bands have broken fans’ hearts around the world after announcing that their band has split up.</p> <p>While some break up due to creative differences and others due to personal dynamics, many artists have still managed to strike up success as they create a new sound for themselves as a solo act.</p> <p>Here are the most famous songs by musicians who successfully transitioned to a solo artist.</p> <p><strong>5. “Freedom ’90” – George Michael</strong></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><iframe width="400" height="300" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/diYAc7gB-0A?feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allow="autoplay; encrypted-media" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></p> <p><strong>4. “Imagine” – John Lennon</strong></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><iframe width="400" height="300" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/VOgFZfRVaww?feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allow="autoplay; encrypted-media" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></p> <p><strong>3. “Live and Let Die” – Paul McCartney &amp; Wings</strong></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><iframe width="400" height="300" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/nR46gQLyxuE?feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allow="autoplay; encrypted-media" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></p> <p><strong>2. “Billie Jean” – Michael Jackson</strong></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><iframe width="400" height="300" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/Zi_XLOBDo_Y?feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allow="autoplay; encrypted-media" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></p> <p><strong>1. “In the Air Tonight” – Phil Collins</strong></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><iframe width="500" height="281" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/YkADj0TPrJA?feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allow="autoplay; encrypted-media" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></p> <p>What song would add to the list? Let us know in the comments below.</p>

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Woolies in meltdown: What went wrong

<p>Woolworths has issued an official apology for the technical glitch that left thousands of shoppers around the country stranded on Monday afternoon.</p> <p><a href="http://www.news.com.au/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>News.com.au reports</strong></em></span></a> registers at hundreds of Woolies outsets across the country shut down just after 4pm yesterday, in an unexpected outage that latest just over 30 minutes.</p> <p>Signs were promptly put up at the stores, apologising for the “system fault”.</p> <p>Woolworths CEO Brad Banducci was quick to address the error and issued a statement.</p> <p>“This was related to an update to our IT systems,” Mr Banducci said.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Check outs at <a href="https://twitter.com/woolworths?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@woolworths</a> Crows Nest aren’t working due to a technical issue apparently. Around 100 people told to leave the store, many leaving full trolleys behind <a href="https://t.co/a9EEBkD6wE">pic.twitter.com/a9EEBkD6wE</a></p> — Joshua Louder (@JoshuaLouder) <a href="https://twitter.com/JoshuaLouder/status/985766518255304704?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">April 16, 2018</a></blockquote> <p>“Our systems ultimately self-corrected themselves and we were back and open for trade across most stores by 4.30pm, with all stores now operational.</p> <p>“This type of incident should not occur and we apologise unreservedly to our customers and store teams for the inconvenience caused.”</p> <p>Social media posts showed frustrated scenes at Woolies outlets affected by the outage, with shoppers banked up in the stores with their trolleys, unable to move.</p> <p>Some were told to leave stores, leaving full trolleys behind.</p> <p>Some stores even pulled their shutters down, but this is believed to be a temporary measure to prevent more frustrated customers from entering the outlets.</p> <p><iframe src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fwoolworths%2Fposts%2F2004499159622205&amp;width=500" width="500" height="594" style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" allow="encrypted-media"></iframe></p> <p>Shoppers were quick to express their rage on social media, with Virginia Johnstone from Sydney posting on Facebook: “Woolworths you are having a laug ... I just spent 45 minutes shopping with 3 kids and your registers go down and you tell me (quite rudely) that I need to leave the store without my groceries.</p> <p>“Good customer service would have been to let everyone currently in the store have their trolley load for free. But no ... you throw everyone out on school holidays with nothing for dinner. Bad form... I’ll stick to Aldi.”</p> <p>Woolworths has 995 stores across Australia, and it’s believed close to 500 were affected.</p> <p>What are your thoughts? Do you think Woolworths handled the incident well? Were you caught up at a Woolies outlet yesterday? Let us know in the comments section.</p> <p><em>Hero image credit: Twitter / Joshua Louder</em></p>

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