11 polite habits house cleaners secretly hate â and what to do instead
<p><strong>The dos and don'ts of cleaning etiquette</strong></p>
<p>Housekeepers are like lawyers. They see you at your worst â yes, mostly your home, but you too â and keep their lips sealed. With a cleaning confidante like that, itâs only natural to want to do little things to show your appreciation, like asking about their lives or even helping them clean. But despite your good intentions, these kind gestures can sometimes miss the mark.</p>
<p>The house cleaners we spoke with revealed tales of extra (dirty) work they were âtrusted withâ but didnât want to do, âhelpfulâ cleaning tips that werenât actually helpful and little etiquette mistakes that simply sucked time from what you hired them to do: clean your house. To be fair, there arenât any hard-and-fast etiquette rules on this topic. Thatâs why we asked cleaning experts to give us the inside scoop on some of the thoughtful things people do that drive them crazy â and what to do instead.</p>
<p><strong>Cleaning before they arrive</strong></p>
<p>You may truly believe youâre helping by cleaning before your housekeeper arrives, and maybe you are. It depends on what you mean by cleaning. If youâre quickly passing a mop over a grimy kitchen floor or wiping your granite benchtops with a wet sponge and not drying them, cleaning pros say, âThanks, but no thanks.â With the grime now further embedded into the floor or streaks on the countertops, it could actually take them more time to fix your mistake. And at the very least, theyâll have to duplicate your work anyway.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>Do this instead</em></span>: focus on the clutter. âTaking things off the counters and clearing the floors can help us work much faster, and that means a better cleaning for the same amount of money,â says housecleaner, Gretchen Boyd. âClear the clutter for a better clean, but leave the scrubbing to us!â</p>
<p><strong>Talking to them while they're cleaning</strong></p>
<p>After a while, your housekeeper becomes more like a friend. You ask them about their lives and their families, and they certainly know all about yours. It would be rude not to talk to them while theyâre there. Plus, theyâre doing all the tasks you donât want to do, so the least you could do is make things less boring with a little chitchat, right? Nope! In fact, that âentertainingâ chitchat can really mess with their cleaning schedule.</p>
<p>âOnce, a client wanted to discuss a personal issue with me while I was cleaning their home. I was happy to listen, but it extended my cleaning time by about 15 to 20 minutes,â says cleaner Laura Avila. âI enjoy getting to know my clients, but itâs important to keep in mind that my priority is to provide them with a clean space, and conversations can sometimes hinder that goal.â</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>Do this instead</em></span>: spend a few minutes chatting when your housekeeper arrives, then let them get to work. âWhat I really appreciate is when clients give me some space to work in silence or maybe put on some music that we can both enjoy without having to chat the whole time,â says Avila. âThat way, I can focus on doing a great job and getting everything cleaned up efficiently.â</p>
<p><strong>Following them around while they work</strong></p>
<p>Youâre not hovering; youâre keeping them company. Nope, sorry â youâre hovering. Even if you think youâre being polite by showing an interest in their work or keeping them company, this polite gesture rarely comes across as youâre hoping. Instead, house cleaners say that having someone watching them while they scrub and scour the shower gives the impression that the client doubts if their cleaner even knows how to clean the bathroom at all. And having someone watching your every move can be distracting and unnerving.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>Do this instead</em></span>: âI prefer when clients let me work on my own,â says Avila. If you have specific requests or concerns, talk them over when your housekeeper first arrives. Checking on progress or asking questions is fine, but minimise those types of interactions. That way, they can focus on doing the amazing job that you want them to do.</p>
<p><strong>Offering agency workers extra pay for extra work </strong></p>
<p>Who wouldnât like to make some extra cash easily? Customers who go through an agency may think they are helping their house cleaner by offering extra payment for work that isnât in the contract. What they donât realise is that this may actually be against company policy, and their house cleaner could get in trouble. Beyond that, because professional cleaners allocate a set amount of time for each job, doing that additional chore could cause them to run late to their other clientsâ homes, says Rachel Rios, a cleaning professional. All this also puts the cleaner in the awkward position of having to say no and disappoint the client.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>Do this instead</em></span>: talk to the agency ahead of time if you have a special request. Agree upon any additional charges it may incur, as well as when the cleaning will take place.</p>
<p><strong>Giving vague instructions</strong></p>
<p>Sometimes, clients feel like giving too many instructions will insult the cleaning pro â after all, this is their job. Or they figure the cleaner knows to include tasks like cleaning ceiling fans and windows in their weekly routine, so they casually say something like: âClean the living room.â The problem? Without specific instructions on which areas of the house to clean, which surfaces to focus on or what kind of cleaning products to use, a house cleaner is not sure what exactly needs to be done.</p>
<p>There may also be confusion about whether âcleaningâ entails a thorough wipe-down or a deep-clean. âEach client has different preferences and expectations,â says Hugo Guerrero, a certified house cleaning technician, âso itâs important to communicate clearly.â</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>Do this instead</em></span>: provide a list with specific details about how each task should be completed. âBe specific,â says Guerrero. âThat way, there are fewer misunderstandings and more satisfactory cleaning jobs.â</p>
<p><strong>Moving items before they arrive</strong></p>
<p>You might think youâre helping your house cleaner by moving sculptures, photographs, vases and other home accessories off table tops and shelves. But this ends up creating more work for them, as well as confusion. After all, now they donât know where these items belong â and where they should put them once theyâre clean. They might also knock them over if you put them in a strange spot or accidentally break them while moving them back in place.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>Do this instead</em></span>: leave everything in its original position, and let the cleaners move the items themselves. âDoing so makes it easier for the cleaner, who is used to cleaning a certain way,â says Ahmad Jamal, a cleaning expert with Cleaners Advisor. âWhen clients move items around, I may need to move things back to their original place in order to clean properly.â Plus, those decorative items need to be dusted and cleaned as well, and thereâs a specific way to do that. If you need anything in particular moved, let your cleaner know in advance.</p>
<p><strong>Pre-soaking the shower or tub with bleach</strong></p>
<p>Clients who donât really know how to clean a bathtub the right way may think itâs helpful to pre-soak the shower or bathtub with bleach, but this can actually be incredibly dangerous for your house cleaner. If the area is not rinsed thoroughly, it could result in a chemical reaction with the cleaning supplies the cleaning pro is using in your bathroom. For example, when bleach mixes with ammonia, it produces an odourless, toxic gas that can cause respiratory distress and even death.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>Do this instead</em></span>: âIf you do decide to do any pre-cleaning before your house cleaner arrives, communicate which chemicals you used and where,â says Toby Schulz, CEO of Maid2Match in Australia. âAnd please remember to make sure the room is well ventilated.â</p>
<p><strong>Leaving a key with a neighbour </strong></p>
<p>Sometimes scheduling conflicts arise, and you need to arrange for your house cleaner to get a key to your home. Of course, you donât want to cancel at the last minute and totally upend your cleaning proâs schedule, and this is a good solution. Well, it is when it goes off without a hitch ⌠which rarely happens. What if the neighbour isnât home or doesnât hear the doorbell?</p>
<p>âThis never seems to quite work as planned,â says cleaner, Olive Cantor. âPlus, the entire cleaning job runs late, and that can impact not only our clientâs cleaning but also our entire day.â</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>Do this instead</em></span>: work out a mutually agreeable option, like bringing your key to your house cleaner earlier in the day or hiding it away in an uncommon place like under a driveway paver. If youâre looking for a more permanent solution, you might want to invest in a smart lock that lets you provide an employee with âdigital keysâ that work just for that day.</p>
<p><strong>Providing your own cleaning products and tools</strong></p>
<p>Itâs a nice gesture to want to provide everything your house cleaner needs so itâs all right there waiting for them and they donât have to lug it to your house every week. But insisting on the wrong tools and products can actually make the job harder, especially when you leave out all those items to âhelp.â</p>
<p>âThis [makes] it hard to find my way around and determine the right way to clean each surface,â says Jenna Shaughnessy, a former professional house cleaner whoâs currently a home decor and DIY expert. âWhile you may have excellent intentions, it might make cleaning harder and take more time.â</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>Do this instead</em></span>: communicate your preferences in advance (like, maybe you only want natural cleaning products or your kid is allergic to a certain scent), and then discuss your house cleanerâs preferences as well. Theyâre the pros, after all, and they know whatâs good! Perhaps they find a certain vacuum to be more effective or love a product that cuts their work time in half.</p>
<p>You can also discuss whether they would like you to stock up on these items for them or if they would prefer to bring their own supplies. âThat way,â says Avila, âI can be sure that Iâm using things Iâm familiar with and that I know will work well for the job.â</p>
<p><strong>Offering 'helpful advice' while they're working</strong></p>
<p>Itâs your home, and it has some quirks. To be fair, so do you. And you know your house cleaner wants to do the job to your specifications, so if you happen to be in the same room and notice they could be doing something differently, you might want to offer your two cents, whether itâs about the best way to clean that tricky oven rack or how to scrub the stainless steel sink. But truly, resist the urge.</p>
<p>Lauren Doss, owner of a cleaning business, notes that all the stopping, starting and direction-giving makes it difficult to work efficiently. With one client who wanted things done a very specific way and kept interjecting as she worked, Doss says it âadded a lot of time to the job, as I had to double-check each step with them.â Not to mention that this behaviour shows a lack of trust, even if you arenât quite as intrusive as that client was.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>Do this instead</em></span>: Provide clear instructions to your cleaner before they start working, then let them do their job. âItâs important for clients to trust their housekeeping professionals and allow them to work without interference,â says Doss. âIf thereâs a problem, offer constructive criticism rather than nitpicking.â</p>
<p><strong>Not wanting to burden your house cleaner with other home problems </strong></p>
<p>House cleaners donât need to know tiny details about every maintenance issue in your house. Too much information! However, letâs be clear: they sure appreciate your telling them about problems that affect their job. A burned-out bulb in the fridge is not important ⌠but a clogged toilet definitely is.</p>
<p>And thatâs not the only potential issue here. âI had one client who failed to tell me that the door on their second oven was loose,â recounts Cantor. âI went to open the oven to clean it, and off came the door! Not only was that scary â and potentially dangerous â but I was then worried that I was the one who broke it.â</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>Do this instead</em></span>: let your house cleaner know if something they are going to be cleaning or using is broken. If you wonât be home when your house cleaner arrives, leave sticky notes on problem places. In the case of the broken oven door, Cantor says, âa little heads-up would have saved a lot of stress for everyone!â</p>
<p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p>
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