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These 12 common terms started life as a real-person’s name

<p><strong>Oscar</strong></p> <p>And the Academy Award for the ‘Golden Statuette’s Eponym’ is … a mystery! But, there are a few theories circulating. Actress Bette Davis supposedly claimed that the statue’s backside bore a striking resemblance to her husband Harmon Oscar Nelson.</p> <p>While Sidney Skolsky, a columnist, gives himself the title of ‘eponym creator’ because he thought the nickname negated pretension from the esteemed award. And the Academy’s librarian Margaret Herrick reportedly declared that the statuette reminded her of her uncle, Oscar Pierce. We may never know its true origins.</p> <p><strong>Shirley Temple</strong></p> <p>Your favourite childhood mocktail was definitely named after none other than the curly-haired child star, Shirley Temple. The story goes that the wait staff at a Hollywood restaurant overheard the little girl whining when her parents wouldn’t give her a sip of their old-fashioned cocktails.</p> <p>A member of the staff mixed up a kid-friendly version made with a splash of grenadine, a cup of ginger ale, and garnished it with a signature maraschino cherry to emulate the old-fashioned cocktails her parents drank. One sip of the sweet, fizzy drink was all it took to quiet her cries.</p> <p><strong>Boycott</strong></p> <p>During the 1870s, history began to repeat itself as another agricultural crisis wreaked havoc in Ireland. The crisis threatened to recreate the horrific famine and mass evictions that occurred a mere thirty years prior. In an effort to campaign against rent increases and evictions by landlords, the Irish farmers banded together to form the Irish Land League.</p> <p>The group targeted one apathetic English land agent, in particular, Charles Cunningham Boycott, a man responsible for kicking out tenant farmers who refused to pay their rents. Boycott’s angered laborers and servants quit, his crops rotted to the ground, and the word ‘boycott’ defined as ‘refusing to deal with a country, organisation, or person to protest or punish them’ was named after him. In a way, karma got him good.</p> <p><strong>Dunce</strong></p> <p>No one wants to be crowned the dunce of the group, in other words, the dumb, dopey one. But there was a time when being called a dunce was the greatest form of flattery. Long ago, everyone wanted to think just like John Duns Scotus, the greatest medieval philosopher of his time. In fact, his followers referred to themselves as ‘dunsmen.’</p> <p>Unfortunately, Scotus’ beliefs faded with the times and soon people criticised his convictions as being antiquated and dumb. Thus, ‘dunsman’ was shortened to “duns” – no longer a term for a great thinker, but instead a slow-witted person.</p> <p><strong>Bloomers</strong></p> <p>The women’s rights activist, Amelia Bloomer, helped popularise the bloomer craze, despite the fact that other progressive women wore them much earlier than she did. As part of a women’s dress-reform movement, Bloomer started wearing loose-fitting blouses and short skirts with long pantaloons underneath to protest the heavy petticoats and bone-crushing corsets that women were forced to wear in the 1850s.</p> <p>Many people ridiculed her outlandish outfit that went against every gender norm. She lashed back at her critics in an article she wrote for a women’s rights newspaper that said, “Let men be compelled to wear our dress for a while, and we should soon hear them advocating for change.” Soon after the article’s publication, everyone called the pantaloons ‘bloomers’ – a new symbol for women’s rights.</p> <p><strong>Cardigan</strong></p> <p>Your favourite winter knit-wear wasn’t named after a seamstress or fashion designer. In fact, you can thank British general, James Brudenell, the 7th Earl of Cardigan, for reportedly popularising the timeless fashion item. During the Crimean War in 1854, Cardigan’s regiment donned wool knit waistcoats, which were later called cardigans, to keep them warm on the battlefields of the Crimean Peninsula.</p> <p>No one is sure why cardigans were named after a man who didn’t invent the article of clothing. But some people theorise that his highbrow tastes for elegance and extravagance amongst his troop’s uniforms helped cardigans gain traction as a fashion statement well after the war.</p> <p><strong>Saxophone</strong></p> <p>This object was actually named after its inventor, Adolphe Sax. The Belgian-French instrument maker wanted to combine the best of brass, woodwind and stringed instruments into one masterpiece. By 1841, he had created his first working model of the bass horn, the saxophone’s former name.</p> <p>But a French reporter had a much ‘saxier’ name for the instrument and dubbed it the saxophone. Sax patented the saxophone in 1846 and the name has stuck ever since!</p> <p><strong>Sideburns</strong></p> <p>Sideburns were all the rage in the American Civil War well before Elvis Presley was even born. The popular male hair trend of bushy whiskers on the cheeks was originally called burnsides after the Union Army General Ambrose E. Burnside.</p> <p>His wildly different facial hair first caught people’s attention during a parade in Washington DC as he led his regiment of Rhode Island volunteers. By the 1880s, the name was switched to sideburns.</p> <p><strong>Silhouette</strong></p> <p>Before there were selfies, painted or paper cut-out silhouettes were the most affordable portraits that adorned people’s homes during the 18th century. Many people loved their silhouette selfies, but the man for who they were named after was anything but loved.</p> <p>France’s finance minister at the time, Étienne de Silhouette, had a reputation for being a frugal French man and was often seen making the cut-paper shadow portraits, himself, in his free time. Because of his cheap ways and favourite hobby, the French phrase “à la Silhouette” came to mean ‘on the cheap’ and the shadow portraits were named after Silhouette to poke fun at him as well.</p> <p><strong>Sandwich</strong></p> <p>John Montagu, the Earl of Sandwich who lived from 1718 to 1792, may have created the classic lunch staple. It was no secret in town that Montagu’s vice was gambling.</p> <p>Legend has it that the gambler once spent an entire 24 hours at the gambling table eating nothing but slices of cold beef wedged between two pieces of toast. And if the story bears any truth, it’s how the sandwich was invented.</p> <p><strong>Casanova</strong></p> <p>You may have dated a casanova or two in your life. Giacomo Girolamo Casanova inspired the well-known term for a promiscuous male. The Italian adventurer and author wrote a memoir that bragged about his many ‘conquests’ along his travels.</p> <p><strong>Dahlia</strong></p> <p>The vibrant flower with colourful hues from Mexico was named after Anders Dahl, an 18th-century Swedish botanist. Dahl must have been a highly admired plant expert of his time because many botanists have been credited for bestowing his name upon the flower.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p> <p><em>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://www.readersdigest.com.au/culture/12-common-words-that-were-inspired-by-real-life-people?pages=1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Reader's Digest</a>. </em></p>

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The unusual new words and phrases being considered by the Macquarie Dictionary

<p dir="ltr">Macquarie Dictionary has unveiled their words of the month, with each of them going into the running to be 2023 Word of the Year and possibly included in their next edition. </p> <p dir="ltr">The words and phrases have largely been submitted by the public, with five unique phrases being crowned the words of the month. </p> <p dir="ltr">The words of the month include the phrases gendy nooch, cozzie livs, tiger toast, password child and murder noodle.</p> <p dir="ltr">According to the dictionary, the term “gendy nooch” is a shortening of gender-neutral, which means something not relating or specific to a particular gender.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">An online shortening of gender-neutral to become 'gendy nooch' is gaining traction. Find more new words here. <a href="https://t.co/rO6OF4QuRK">https://t.co/rO6OF4QuRK</a> <a href="https://t.co/3QkYLiNLEA">pic.twitter.com/3QkYLiNLEA</a></p> <p>— Macquarie Dictionary (@MacqDictionary) <a href="https://twitter.com/MacqDictionary/status/1648861592421801987?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">April 20, 2023</a></p></blockquote> <p dir="ltr">“Cozzie livs” has quickly become slang for the ongoing cost of living crisis, which has been affecting most Australians in 2023. </p> <p dir="ltr">The phrase has become a classic Aussie way of downplaying a quite serious matter.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">The words on everybody's lips these days, the 'cost of living'. But have you ever called it the cozzie livs (crisis)? More new words at the link. <a href="https://t.co/rO6OF4QuRK">https://t.co/rO6OF4QuRK</a> <a href="https://t.co/ZXdOhwNdkv">pic.twitter.com/ZXdOhwNdkv</a></p> <p>— Macquarie Dictionary (@MacqDictionary) <a href="https://twitter.com/MacqDictionary/status/1646302360254177282?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">April 13, 2023</a></p></blockquote> <p dir="ltr">Another phrase that Aussies have been adopting more is the patriotic concept of “tiger toast”, which refers to "toast with a topping of Vegemite and strips of cheese" according to the dictionary.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Password child” is another new phrase recognised by the dictionary, meaning "a child favoured over their siblings, as shown by the use of their name in the parent's online passwords".</p> <p dir="ltr">The final top pick for April words of the month is “murder noodle”, which refers to "a snake, especially one that is venomous".</p> <p dir="ltr">Each of these phrases has now gone in the running to be crowned the 2023 Word of the Year, which the Macquarie Dictionary awards each year to a phrase that has seamlessly been integrated into the Aussie vocabulary. </p> <p dir="ltr">The 2022 Word of the Year was Teal, defined by the dictionary as "a political candidate who holds generally ideologically moderate views, but who supports strong action regarding environmental and climate action policies, and the prioritising of integrity in politics (so called as many of the candidates use the colour teal in their electoral material)”.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p>

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Priest resigns after botching thousands of baptisms with single phrase

<p dir="ltr">An Arizona priest has voluntarily resigned from his church after it was ruled that he botched thousands of baptisms over the past 25 years - all by using one incorrect phrase.</p><p dir="ltr">Father Andres Arango left the St Gregory Catholic Church in Phoenix this month <a href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10511635/Phoenix-Catholic-priest-forced-resign-incorrectly-performed-THOUSANDS-baptisms.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">after</a> revealing he used an “incorrect formula” that made the baptisms invalid.</p><p dir="ltr">Rather than invoking the power of God by saying “I baptise you”, as required by the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, Father Arango said “we baptise you”, referring to the community.</p><p dir="ltr">As a result of his phrasing, every baptism he has performed since he was ordained in 1995 until June 2021 has been invalid.</p><p dir="ltr">This could also mean that subsequent confirmations and First Communions for those baptised by Arango could also be invalidated.</p><p dir="ltr">The Roman Catholic Diocese of Phoenix said even some marriages could possibly be affected, though they did not expand on how.</p><p dir="ltr">Father Arango will now work full-time offering spiritual guidance to Catholics whose baptisms have been deemed invalid so he can baptise them again.</p><p dir="ltr">In 2020, the Vatican issued a doctoral note clarifying that baptisms performed with the phrase “We baptise you in the name of the Father and the Son of the Holy Spirit” were invalid, prompting church leaders to investigate faith leaders including Father Arango.</p><p dir="ltr">His invalidated baptisms also came from his time working in churches in Brazil and San Diego.</p><p><span id="docs-internal-guid-b2bb13ae-7fff-280b-bab7-d38f8c5653e4"></span></p><p dir="ltr">In a letter announcing his resignation, Father Arango apologised to those affected and asked the community for “prayers, forgiveness, and understanding”.</p><p dir="ltr"><img src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/2022/02/father-arango-letter.png" alt="" width="322" height="826" /></p><p dir="ltr"><em>Father Arango announced he would leave the church after the Vatican ruled that baptisms he performed over the past 25 years have been invalid. Images: St Gregory Catholic Church Bulletin</em></p><p dir="ltr">“It saddens me to learn that I have performed invalid baptisms throughout my ministry as a priest by regularly using an incorrect formula,” Father Arango wrote.</p><p dir="ltr">“I deeply regret my error and how this affected numerous people in your parish and elsewhere.</p><p dir="ltr">“With the help of the Holy Spirit and in communion with the Diocese of Phoenix I will dedicate my energy and full time ministry to help remedy this and heal those affected.”</p><p dir="ltr">The Diocese has said Father Arango remains a priest in good standing and that he has not been disqualified from his vocation or ministry as a result of his mistake.</p><p dir="ltr">Diocese of Phoenix Bishop Thomas J. Olmsted said he didn’t believe Father Arango intentionally harmed or deceived parishioners through his error.</p><p dir="ltr">“On behalf of our local Church, I am too sincerely sorry that this error has resulted in disruption to the sacramental lives of a number of the faithful,” Olmsted said in a <a href="https://www.stgregoryphx.com/note-on-baptism-validity" target="_blank" rel="noopener">statement</a>.</p><p dir="ltr">“This is why I pledge to take every step necessary to remedy the situation for everyone impacted.”</p><p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-a7665fe9-7fff-43e3-b9f2-e43368b1e9d8"></span></p><p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Padre Andres Arango Phoenix AZ (Facebook)</em></p>

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What the code words and phrases used by cabin crew really mean

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Most cabin crew members converse with each other in an interesting way to not alert passengers to their conversations. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Flying doctor Ben MacFarlane has spent a lot of time on planes, and has become privy to the unique ways cabin crew discuss parts of the job while in the air. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Many of their phrases would seem like gibberish to the average flyer, but once you know what keywords to look out for, they all start to make sense. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Here are just a few of the phrases cabin crew have decoded for the flying doctor, as he told </span><a href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/travel/travel_news/article-9965305/Is-Tom-Cruise-board-crack-cabin-crew-code-hear-holiday-flights.html"><span style="font-weight: 400;">MailOnline</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">.  </span></p> <p><strong>“Is Tom Cruise on board?”</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you ever hear cabin crew use this phrase, it is actually not linked to the famous movie star being a passenger. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Instead, it refers to the identical pots of tea and coffee on the meal service trolleys, and helps staff identify which pot is which. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">As Ben says, “</span><span style="font-weight: 400;">If 'Tom Cruise is on board' then crew are following T&amp;C positions that day.” </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Tea, Tom, is in the pot on the left of the cart. Coffee, Cruise, is in the identical pot on the right. Simples.”</span></p> <p><strong>“Do you want to sing or dance?”</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This phrase refers to the safety demonstration at the beginning of a flight.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Some crew like to have the microphone and read out the words of the PA,” said Ben.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Others prefer to stand in the cabin doing the actions with the seat belt and life jacket.” </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Pick the PA role and you sing. Do the demo and you dance.”</span></p> <p><strong>“Have you found Bob yet?”</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This phrase is more likely to be heard on a long haul flight when cabin crew have more time on their hands. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bob is not an individual person, but rather refers to the Best On Board. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">According to the flying doctor, “Every cabin crew member looks for theirs: the most beautiful woman or hottest guy they fancy the most.”</span></p> <p><strong>“That’s my ABP”</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">ABP is cabin crew code for an Able-Bodied Person.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Cabin crew often earmark a strong, able-bodied person to help in case of an emergency landing. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This person may be asked to organise passengers in a calm and orderly queue while waiting for emergency aids. </span></p> <p><strong>“I’m off to the coffins”</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This doesn’t refer to actual coffins, but a designated sleeping zone for cabin crew during a longer flight. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Following a ‘crew rest rota’, flight attendants punch a secret code into a secret door, climb the ladder and find half a dozen bunks built into the ceiling above the economy cabin,” says Ben.</span></p> <p><strong>“Have we met?”</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This doesn’t refer to introducing yourself, but rather to passenger’s seat belts being buckled for landing. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“If one flight attendant is checking the cabin from front to back and the other is going from back to front, they have to say out loud that they've 'met' in the middle.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This then indicates that the plane is ready to make a safe landing. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Have you ever heard these phrases used while flying? Let us know!</span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image credit: Shutterstock</span></em></p>

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The one phrase you DON’T want to hear on your flight

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A pilot has revealed some of the secret phrases used between the crew and what they mean.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Pilot Patrick Smith, who wrote the book </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">Cockpit Confidential</span><span style="font-weight: 400;">, has revealed the technical jargon used by crew on his website </span><em><a href="http://www.askthepilot.com/how-to-speak-airline/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Ask The Pilot</span></a></em><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Some of them mean good news and others, well, not so much.</span></p> <p><strong>Deadhead</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A crew member or pilot is someone who is trying to change locations for another job.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">"A deadheading pilot or flight attendant is one re-positioning as part of an on-duty assignment,” clarified Smith.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">"This is not the same as commuting to work or engaging in personal travel."</span></p> <p><strong>Holding pattern</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A holding pattern can be bad news for passengers who want to land on time, as this phrase means that the plane can be forced to fly overhead due to external issues.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">"A racetrack-shaped course flown during weather or traffic delays,” explained Smith.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">"Published holding patterns are depicted on aeronautical charts, but one can be improvised almost anywhere."</span></p> <p><strong>Final approach</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This just means that you’re not too far from landing at the airport.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Smith says:</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">"For pilots, a plane is on final approach when it has reached the last, straight-in segment of the landing pattern — that is, aligned with the extended centreline of the runway, requiring no additional turns or manoeuvring."</span></p> <p><strong>Air pocket</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">An air pocket is a phrase used to explain a sudden jolt of turbulence.</span></p> <p><strong>Ground stop</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This phrase means you’re in for a delay.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Patrick says this means that departures are going to be backlogged due to an issue such as air traffic control, meaning the plane might not be able to land in their designated slot.</span></p>

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6 magic phrases that can save an awkward conversation

<p><strong>1. Pay a compliment</strong></p> <p>Why is it so easy to forget someone’s name within seconds of meeting them? Because, you weren’t really listening—you were too busy thinking about what to say next. One easy way to skirt that natural selfishness and propel any conversation forward is to open with flattery. When you meet someone for the first time, 'Pay that person a compliment when repeating their name, thus helping to anchor and embed it even deeper into your memory,' says professional mentalist Oz Pearlman, who sometimes has to remember the names of hundreds of people he just met for his act. If you compliment Alyssa on her necklace, you instantly prime your brain to recall her name the next time you see that necklace, Pearlman says. 'As a bonus, everyone enjoys flattery, so that compliment can go a long way toward you being remembered as well.''</p> <p><strong>2. Ask lots of questions – good questions</strong></p> <p>Research shows that in conversations with unfamiliar people, we tend to rate the experience based on our own performance, not theirs. What’s more: the experience of talking about ourselves can be more pleasurable than food or money. So, how do you give your conversation partner the pleasure of a good conversation? Ask them questions—a lot of questions, and ones that call for more than vague one-word answers (a good rule is, if your question can be answered with “fine,” don’t ask it). Avoid work if you can; instead, ask about play—”What keeps you busy outside of work?” is a good place to start. According to Debra Fine, author of The Fine Art of Small Talk, one question pretty much guaranteed to put someone in a positive mindset and open doors to their personality: “What has the highlight of your year been so far?” This allows the person to show you her best self and, if her highlight includes a topic you’re interested in too, may lay the groundwork for a true friendship.</p> <p><strong>3. Try to make their day better</strong></p> <p>If your conversation partner still isn’t biting, make things even easier for them by asking games researcher Jane McGonigal’s favourite question: “On a scale of one to ten, how was your day?” Anyone can think of a number between one and ten, McGonigal says, and they’re likely to elaborate on their answer as they go. But it gets even better. After they respond, ask them this: “Is there anything I can do to move you from a six to a seven (or a three to a four, etc.)?” You’d be surprised how happy this little gesture will make someone.</p> <p><strong>4. Play the sympathy card</strong></p> <p>Ready for a cheater’s way to advance a conversation? Memorize three magic words: 'that sounds hard.'  'Nearly everyone in the world believes their job to be difficult,' entrepreneur Paul Ford wrote in his viral essay, 'How to Be Polite.' 'I once went to a party and met a very beautiful woman whose job was to help celebrities wear Harry Winston jewelry,' Ford wrote. 'I could tell that she was disappointed to be introduced to this rumpled giant in an off-brand shirt, but when I told her that her job sounded difficult to me she brightened and spoke for 30 straight minutes about sapphires and Jessica Simpson.'</p> <p><strong>5. Seek their opinion</strong></p> <p>This tip has been tested by tactful US founding father, Benjamin Franklin. In his memoir, Franklin describes an 'old maxim' that helped him along in his political career: 'He that has once done you a kindness will be more ready to do you another, than he whom you yourself have obliged.'  In other words, if you ask someone for advice or a favour and they oblige you, they will be psychologically primed to like you and help you again (today this phenomenon is know as The Ben Franklin effect). So, if you truly want to endear yourself to a stranger and show them you value their mind, ask for their advice on something. If they give it to you, they get to feel important and valued—and you might just learn something in the process.</p> <p><strong>6. Exit gracefully</strong></p> <p>When your conversation reaches a natural conclusion, pull the trigger by saying 'I won’t keep you' or 'Give my regards to [mutual acquaintance]' before making your escape. Adam Dachis, coauthor of The Awkward Human Survival Guide, adds that context can provide you the perfect exit strategy. 'If you’re at a party, excuse yourself to get a drink; if you’re at work, you can leave to get some coffee. You can also say, ‘It’s nice talking to you, but I have to talk to someone before they leave.’'</p> <p><em>Written by Brandon Spektor. 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10 words and phrases you hate the most

<p>A couple of months ago, we asked the Over60 community to share the words and phrases people use that they can’t stand, and we were absolutely inundated with comments. Here are 10 of the most popular responses.</p> <p><strong>1. Somethink</strong></p> <p>“SOMETHINK instead of SOMETHING.” – Eileen Azzopardi.</p> <p>“SOMETHINK! When did that become a word? On tele, even ads! Drives me nuts.” – Julieann Oldman.</p> <p><strong>2. Pet names</strong></p> <p>“I hate being called ‘darl’ or ‘honey’ or ‘sweetheart’. I’m not your ‘darl’, ‘honey’ or ‘sweetheart’. I also dislike checkout people saying, ‘How’s your day been so far?’ Do they really want to know? I don’t think so.” – Janet Beal.</p> <p>“Hate being called ‘darl’ by shop assistants, especially men.” – Heather Lewis.</p> <p><strong>3. “Of” instead of “have”</strong></p> <p>“Using the word ‘of’ instead of ‘have’ (i.e. ‘I should of done such and such’ instead of ‘I should have done’). I am seeing it more and more these days which brings me to wonder what they are being taught in schools or is it just bad speech. It is not just the very young who are guilty either!” – Beverley Plane.</p> <p><strong>4. “Zee” instead of “zed”</strong></p> <p>“Pronouncing the letter Z as ‘zee’ instead of ‘zed’! I always think they say ‘C’! This is Australia not America!” – Diane Selby.</p> <p><strong>5. ‘Straya</strong></p> <p>“STRAYA… who for God's sake started that and why can’t we speak proper language?” – Diana Joy Garland.</p> <p>“At the moment the word that rubs me up the wrong way is STRAYA for Australia.” – Dorothy O’Sullivan.</p> <p><strong>6. Two thousand and eighteen</strong></p> <p>“What annoys me is when people say two thousand and eighteen. It’s twenty eighteen. Nobody said one thousand nine hundred and eighteen, it was nineteen eighteen, so why isn’t it twenty eighteen?” – Lorrine Lidston.</p> <p><strong>7. Youse</strong></p> <p>“Where do I start? ‘Brought’ instead of ‘bought’, ‘youse’ (or however people spell a word that doesn’t exist, unless you’re a sheep)!” – Snežana Gosden.</p> <p>“The plural of you is ALSO you. There is no such word as ‘yous’ or any other spelling derivatives.” – Kristopher Mudd.</p> <p><strong>8. Awesome</strong></p> <p>“I am so over social media use of ‘awesome’ for things that are not. How often these days are we truly in awe of something?” – Meg Milton.</p> <p>“Awesome! It seems this word is used for everything much the same as ‘absolutely’. Makes me cringe when I hear those two words.” – Phil Ross.</p> <p><strong>9. “Less” instead of “fewer”</strong></p> <p>“The use of ‘less’ instead of ‘fewer’. According to usage rules, fewer is used when discussing countable things, while less is used for singular mass nouns. For example, you can have fewer ingredients, dollars, people, or puppies, but less salt, money, honesty, or love. If you can count it, go for fewer.” – Sarah Lawrence.</p> <p><strong>10. “His” and “he’s” used interchangeably</strong></p> <p>“’His’ versus ‘He’s’. His so cute (no, he’s so cute), he’s mum (no, his mum). That is pure laziness. I have friends the same age as I am (mid 50s) that have started with this crap and it’s doing my head in – royally.” – Kezz O’Carroll.</p> <p>Tell us in the comments below, what word or phrase annoys you the most?</p>

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Telstra rep insults customer and spells rude phrase

<p>A Telstra customer has released footage of a rude conversation with an unpleasant customer service representative on the phone.</p> <p>The rep became rude after a customer, Phill, asked if he could be transferred which resulted in him being labelled as “arrogant” and told to “put his a** on his face”.</p> <p>Phill rang the telco to inquire about an international call he received but after the call to Telstra cut out and he was put on hold “for no reason”, his friends started filming the conversation when he called back.</p> <p>"Why did I hang up? Because I was trying to ask you for your name and how to spell it," Phill said on the phone.</p> <p>The customer service representative then told Phill that he had already provided his name and asked if he knows how to spell.</p> <p>Confused by his rudeness, Phill then asked the man to confirm he is Telstra “customer support” which the worker confirmed.</p> <p>The operative then said, “You are an arrogant customer. Because you are asking to be transferred over to an Australian representative, which is like two per cent of the total workforce of Telstra."</p> <p>Phill then disagrees with the worker, saying he never asked for another representative but rather an “Australian-based call centre”.</p> <p>Phill asked for the worker’s name again so he could later report him to the Australian Communications and Media Authority.</p> <p>"Am I going to cry now? I'm crying right now," the man responds.</p> <p>"My name is K-I-S-S M-Y A-S-S."</p> <p>Phill asked to be transferred to a manager but the worker then said, “Put your a** on your face”.</p> <p>The Telstra employee then proceeded to hang up on Phil’s call.</p> <p>A Telstra spokesman confirmed in a statement that they were investigating the incident and have apologised to the customer.</p> <p>"We have spoken with Phil to apologise and advised we are investigating the matter,” the statement said.</p> <p>“This is clearly unacceptable behaviour and we will take appropriate action as necessary once our investigation is complete,"</p> <p>"We have committed to calling Phil back this afternoon to address his original query."</p> <p>Have you ever experienced a rude customer service representative on the phone? Let us know in the comments below. </p>

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10 phrases you should learn in the local language

<p>Don’t be one of those travellers who assumes everyone should speak English. Get a few basic phrases under your belt before you depart and you’ll have a much more enjoyable holiday.</p> <p><strong>1. “I’m sorry, I don’t speak your language.”</strong></p> <p>Rather than arrogantly trying to bluff your way through, it’s usually best if you start out by acknowledging that you’re not fluent. It can make a huge difference for only a little effort.</p> <p><strong>2. “Hello!”</strong></p> <p>Or good morning, or any other variation of a common greeting. It’s polite to greet people in their native language when you walk into a hotel, restaurant or store. And it always helps to back it up with a friendly smile.</p> <p><strong>3. “Please” and “Thank you”</strong></p> <p>Simple and highly effective, a basic ‘please’ and ‘thank you’ are a way to show that you haven’t left your manners at home. Even if you are speaking English throughout the rest of the conversation it’s always nice to add these in where you can.</p> <p><strong>4. “Excuse me!”</strong></p> <p>It’s always a good idea to be able to apologise for yourself when overseas, even if just to ask forgiveness for botching their native tongue. It helps to say it with a smile and even the classic ‘oops’ shrug to make yourself really understood.</p> <p><strong>5. “Do you speak English?”</strong></p> <p>Rather than just launching into a stream of English towards an unsuspecting partner, try asking if they speak the language. People might surprise you and you can save everyone a lot of hassle.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="500" height="333" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/37883/image__500x333.jpg" alt="Image_ (337)"/></p> <p><strong>6. “I need help.”</strong></p> <p>We like to believe that people are inherently good, so if you can make someone understand that you need help they will do their best to assist you. That could mean finding someone who speaks English or directing you to the nearest police station or hospital.</p> <p><strong>7. “I would like…”</strong></p> <p>This little phrase makes the entire menu or the store’s shelves available to you. Say ‘I would like’ and then point to the thing you want. Too easy!</p> <p><strong>8. “How much?”</strong></p> <p>Foreign money is confusing enough so you want to avoid blindly handing over a stack of notes. At this point it’s also helpful to know the basic numbers (or you’ll be just as lost as before) but you can always hold up fingers or have a notebook for them to write it down.</p> <p><strong>9. “My name is…”</strong></p> <p>It’s always nice to be able to introduce yourself (and how else will you make new travel friends?) so get this basic intro down pat. Be aware that many languages have specific masculine/feminine pronouns, so you’ll want to get that one right.</p> <p><strong>10. “Where is the…”</strong></p> <p>In the age of Google Maps we tend to find our own way around, but it’s always useful to be able to ask a friendly stranger. It can help you find the nearest bathroom or the way back to your hotel, even when you’re iPhone is out of battery.</p> <p>What are you tips for travelling through a non-English speaking country?</p> <p><em><strong>Have you arranged your travel insurance yet? Tailor your cover to your needs and save money by not paying for things you don’t need. <a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/travel/travel-insurance/?utm_source=over60&amp;utm_campaign=travel-insurance&amp;utm_medium=content&amp;utm_content=travel-insurance" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">To arrange a quote, click here.</span></a> For more information about Over60 Travel Insurance, call 1800 622 966.</strong></em></p>

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This simple phrase will stop gossip once and for all

<p>Tired of gossip? Don’t want to get involved in other people’s secrets? Then use this simple phrase to stop gossipers in their tracks:</p> <p><strong>Why are you telling me this?</strong></p> <p>It’s simple and effective for a number of reasons. First, it questions the motives of the person telling it to you. People may consider gossip harmless and this question can give them pause. Secondly, it shows them that you are not interested in hearing what they have to say. The very act of gossiping requires two participants – one to tell and one to listen. By removing yourself from the equation, the act is nullified.</p> <p>People gossip for a lot of reasons. Some feel powerful because they have a secret to divulge, others like to bring people down by revealing something unflattering about them. Gossip is also a kind of currency – people who feel they have nothing to offer a conversation feel they can prove their value by offering up some private information. They might think you will like them more because they have divulged this secret. Gossip also creates a bond between two people, the one telling and the one hearing.</p> <p>The problem with gossip is that it often feels good at the time, for all the above reasons and more. The short terms rewards can distract us from the fact that we know we shouldn't talk about people behind their backs. The effects and impacts of gossip can be far reaching, and it is impossible to know if you could have done some real lasting damage. Gossip always complicates lives, rather than simplifying them.</p> <p>So what can you do instead? The simplest solution is to avoid talking about other people’s lives when they are not present. Even a conversation we consider ‘helpful’ or ‘concerned’ can quickly descend into gossip, so it’s often easier to avoid it altogether. Then, make a personal commitment to only speaking about others in a positive manner. You’ll be amazed at how much of a boost this gives you as well.</p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/relationships/2017/01/avoid-this-word-in-a-fight/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>The one word to avoid when arguing with your partner</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/relationships/2016/12/over60-community-share-their-beautiful-proposal-stories/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Over60 community share their beautiful proposal stories</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/relationships/2016/12/advice-i-wish-i-could-give-my-20-year-old-self-about-love/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Advice I wish I could give my 20-year-old self about love</strong></em></span></a></p>

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14 British phrases translated

<p>We have many things in common with our English ancestors – from our parliamentary system to the language we speak – but sometimes our British friends can be almost impossible to understand. Here are 14 phrases you might hear the next time you’re in the UK, translated into real English!</p> <ol> <li><strong>“Bob’s your uncle”</strong> – there you have it.</li> <li><strong>“You’ve lost the plot”</strong> – you’ve lost your mind.</li> <li><strong>“Donkey’s years”</strong> – a really long time.</li> <li><strong>“Let’s have a chin-wag”</strong> – let’s have a chat/gossip.</li> <li><strong>“Manky”</strong> – gross/disgusting.</li> <li><strong>“That’s a doddle!”</strong> – that’s easy!</li> <li><strong>“I’ve got the hump”</strong> – I’m annoyed.</li> <li><strong>“I’m not being funny, but…”</strong> – I’m not trying to be weird, but…</li> <li><strong>“I’m going to see a man about a dog”</strong> – I’m going to the bathroom.</li> <li><strong>“At a loose end”</strong> – bored.</li> <li><strong>“I’ll give you a bunch of fives”</strong> – you’re going to get a punch in the face.</li> <li><strong>“That’s pants”</strong> – that’s not very good.</li> <li><strong>“She was talking nineteen to the dozen”</strong> – she was talking very fast.</li> <li><strong>“He’s a <strong>sandwich short of a picnic</strong>/slice short of a loaf”</strong> – he’s not very smart.</li> </ol> <p>What crazy foreign phrases have you heard before? Tell us about them in the comment section below!</p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="/travel/travel-tips/2016/08/4-secret-techniques-flight-attendants-use-to-avoid-jet-lag/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>4 secret techniques flight attendants use to avoid jet lag</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="/travel/travel-tips/2016/08/6-strangest-items-people-have-smuggled-onto-flights/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>6 strangest items people have smuggled onto flights</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="/travel/travel-tips/2016/08/how-to-visit-london-without-spending-a-fortune/"><em><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">How to visit London without spending a fortune</span></strong></em></a></p>

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14 common British phrases translated

<p>We have many things in common with our English ancestors – from our parliamentary system to the language we speak – but sometimes our British friends can be almost impossible to understand. Here are 14 phrases you might hear the next time you’re in the UK, translated into real English!</p> <ol> <li><strong>“Bob’s your uncle”</strong> – there you have it.</li> <li><strong>“You’ve lost the plot”</strong> – you’ve lost your mind.</li> <li><strong>“Donkey’s years”</strong> – a really long time.</li> <li><strong>“Let’s have a chin-wag”</strong> – let’s have a chat/gossip.</li> <li><strong>“Manky”</strong> – gross/disgusting.</li> <li><strong>“That’s a doddle!”</strong> – that’s easy!</li> <li><strong>“I’ve got the hump”</strong> – I’m annoyed.</li> <li><strong>“I’m not being funny, but…”</strong> – I’m not trying to be weird, but…</li> <li><strong>“I’m going to see a man about a dog”</strong> – I’m going to the bathroom.</li> <li><strong>“At a loose end”</strong> – bored.</li> <li><strong>“I’ll give you a bunch of fives”</strong> – you’re going to get a punch in the face.</li> <li><strong>“That’s pants”</strong> – that’s not very good.</li> <li><strong>“She was talking nineteen to the dozen”</strong> – she was talking very fast.</li> <li><strong>“He’s a sandwich short of a picnic/slice short of a loaf”</strong> – he’s not very smart.</li> </ol> <p>What crazy foreign phrases have you heard before? Tell us about them in the comment section below!</p> <p><em><strong>Have you arranged your travel insurance yet? Tailor your cover to your needs and save money by not paying for things you don’t need. <a href="https://elevate.agatravelinsurance.com.au/oversixty?utm_source=over60&amp;utm_medium=content&amp;utm_content=link1&amp;utm_campaign=travel-insurance" target="_blank"><span><span style="text-decoration: underline;">To arrange a quote, click here</span>.</span></a> For more information about Over60 Travel Insurance, call 1800 622 966.</strong></em></p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="/travel/travel-tips/2016/08/4-secret-techniques-flight-attendants-use-to-avoid-jet-lag/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>4 secret techniques flight attendants use to avoid jet lag</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="/travel/travel-tips/2016/08/6-strangest-items-people-have-smuggled-onto-flights/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>6 strangest items people have smuggled onto flights</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="/travel/travel-tips/2016/08/how-to-visit-london-without-spending-a-fortune/"><em><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">How to visit London without spending a fortune</span></strong></em></a></p>

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6 phrases more important than “I love you”

<p>Why do we enjoy hearing someone say “I love you” so much? Perhaps the idea of being seen as someone so special to your significant other is what makes us keep seeking out these three magic words. It is wonderful to feel as though someone appreciates us for all of our quirks. But is love alone enough to hold together a relationship?</p> <p>In fact, there are other ways of expressing our love that are even more important than simply saying “I love you”…</p> <p><strong>1. “I forgive you”</strong></p> <p>It is important to be able to forgive your partner for all that they have done or may do in the future. Nobody is perfect and it’s possible that we all may experience a partner who lashes out, is forgetful, gets cranky or makes mistakes.</p> <p>It is a powerful expression as it shows that you accept your partner for who they are, imperfections and all. It also helps if you can ask for and, accept, forgiveness when you make mistakes, which you inevitably will.</p> <p><strong>2. “I’ll sacrifice for you”</strong></p> <p>Being there for your loved one is as important years into a relationship as it is in the early days. Giving them your time when they need you, staying up late to chat through a problem even though you are tired, helping with their sick or frail parents who may not appreciate the effort that you put in.</p> <p><strong>3. “I respect you”</strong></p> <p>Respect your partner for who they are, and always try to be considerate of their feelings and opinions. Treat their hopes and dreams as though they are your own and this will show them how much you respect them as a person.</p> <p><strong>4. “I’ll support you”</strong></p> <p>Be someone that your partner can rely on, and always be on their side. Be the person that they can rely on to show up on time. Give them what they need – both physically and emotionally.</p> <p><strong>5. “I’ll protect you”</strong></p> <p>Protect them physically but also do your best to shield them from pain and hurt. Stand up for them when they need someone in their corner. Don’t put them down, just build them up.</p> <p><strong>6. “I’m committed to you”</strong></p> <p>Let them know that your relationship is important to you, and that you won’t walk away when things get tough. Be the one who will always show up when they say they will. Do what needs to be done to keep the partnership moving in the right direction.</p> <p>Many people feel as though they don’t need to say or do these things and that their partner “just knows” how they feel.</p> <p>But in fact being able to say more than just “I love you” could set you up for a longer and happier relationship that stands the test of time.</p> <p><strong>Related links: </strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/relationships/2015/11/secrets-of-couples-who-stay-together-forever/">14 secrets of couples who stay together forever</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/relationships/2015/11/why-people-cheat/">The two reasons people are unfaithful</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/relationships/2015/11/helen-mirren-marries-later-in-life/">Helen Mirren encourages everyone to marry later in life</a></em></strong></span></p>

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20 common phrases most people use incorrectly

<p>Courtesy of online company Knowingly’s error-detecting tool Correctica, here’s a list of the most common mistake people make.</p> <p>1. Incorrect: Hone in</p> <p>Correct: Home in</p> <p>2. Incorrect: For all intensive purposes</p> <p>Correct: For all intents and purposes</p> <p>3. Incorrect: Case and point</p> <p>Correct: Case in point</p> <p>4. Incorrect: Wet your appetite</p> <p>Correct: Whet your appetite</p> <p>5. Incorrect: Peaked by interest</p> <p>Correct: Piqued my interest</p> <p>6. Incorrect: Emigrated to</p> <p>Correct: Immigrated to</p> <p>7. Incorrect: By in large</p> <p>Correct: By and large</p> <p>8. Incorrect: First come, first serve</p> <p>Correct: First come, first served</p> <p>9. Incorrect: I could care less</p> <p>Correct: I couldn’t care less</p> <p>10. Incorrect: Sneak peak</p> <p>Correct: Sneak peek</p> <p>11. Incorrect: Prostrate cancer</p> <p>Correct: Prostate cancer</p> <p>12. Incorrect: Shoe-in</p> <p>Correct: Shoo-in</p> <p>13. Incorrect: Do diligence</p> <p>Correct: Due diligence</p> <p>14. Incorrect: Make due</p> <p>Correct: Make do</p> <p>15. Incorrect: One in the same</p> <p>Correct: One and the same</p> <p>16. Incorrect: Piece of mind</p> <p>Correct: Peace of mind</p> <p>17. Incorrect: Baited breath</p> <p>Correct: Bated breath</p> <p>18. Incorrect: Extract revenge</p> <p>Correct: Exact revenge</p> <p>19. Incorrect: Deep-seeded</p> <p>Correct: Deep-seated</p> <p>20. Incorrect: Slight of hand</p> <p>Correct: Sleight of hand</p>

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8 outdated phrases we love

<p>We use these phrases on the regular, but when you have a grandchild ask you why you’re telling them to roll down the window when you press a button, you know these phrases are old. But that doesn’t mean we’re going to stop using them!</p><p><strong>1. Hang up the phone</strong></p><p><strong><img width="500" height="284" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/9336/1_500x284.jpg" alt="1 (65)" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"></strong></p><p><strong>2. Roll down the window</strong></p><p><strong><img width="497" height="340" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/9337/2_497x340.jpg" alt="2 (68)" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"></strong></p><p><strong>3. You sound like a broken record</strong></p><p><strong><img width="498" height="330" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/9338/3_498x330.jpg" alt="3 (64)" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"></strong></p><p><strong>4. You look like you’ve been through the wringer</strong></p><p><strong><img width="500" height="330" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/9339/4_500x330.jpg" alt="4 (60)" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"></strong></p><p><strong>5. Hold your horses</strong></p><p><strong><img width="497" height="330" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/9340/5_497x330.jpg" alt="5 (58)" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"></strong></p><p><strong>6. Tape that show</strong></p><p><strong><img width="500" height="409" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/9341/6_500x409.jpg" alt="6 (56)" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"></strong></p><p><strong>7. That’s a Kodak moment</strong></p><p><strong><img width="500" height="333" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/9342/7_500x333.jpg" alt="7 (49)" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"></strong></p><p><strong>8. It’s a carbon copy</strong></p><p><strong><img width="500" height="374" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/9343/8_500x374.jpg" alt="8 (47)" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"></strong></p><p><strong>Related links:</strong></p><p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="/lifestyle/family/2015/08/discontinued-classic-australian-lollies/">Old-favourite lollies that are no longer available</a></strong></em></span></p><p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="/lifestyle/family/2015/08/funny-things-grandchildren-say-3/">The funniest quotes from your grandkids</a></strong></em></span></p><p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="/lifestyle/family/2015/08/harmonious-multigenerational-living">Top tips for harmonious multigenerational living</a></strong></em></span></p>

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The surprising origin of everyday expressions

<p>Have you ever stopped and wondered why we say certain phrases? If you think about it, why on earth would you tell someone to “break a leg” when they’re about to go on stage? But of course, it dates back to a theatrical superstition where wishing a person good luck is believed to bring bad luck. Here are the origins of four more everyday expressions.</p><p><strong>“Raining cats and dogs”</strong></p><p>&nbsp;A popular (but false) theory of this expression states that dogs and cats used to sleep in thatched roofs and were washed away during heavy storms. This has been discredited as thatched roofs were naturally water resistant and to fall off the roof, pets would have had to be sleeping on them outside – unlikely during a heavy rain or storm. Etymologist believe it likely originated from a 1592 sentence by Gabriel Harvey that states: “Instead of thunderboltes shooteth nothing but dogboltes or catboltes.” Dog bolts were iron bolts to lock a door or a gate, while cat bolts were used to fasten together pieces of wood. So Harvey was likening heavy rain to metal bolts falling from the sky. The “bolt” was eventually dropped to make it easier to say but this also caused the phrase to no longer make much sense. &nbsp;</p><p><strong>“Rule of thumb”</strong></p><p>It was once believed that the phrase “rule of thumb” derived from 18<sup>th</sup> century British law, which said it was acceptable for a man to beat his wife if he used stick no wider a thumb. Thankfully, this law never existed and the term came from the much less gristly origins. Instead, the phrase developed from our own long history for using thumbs to estimate measurements.</p><p><strong>&nbsp;“Saved by the bell”</strong></p><p>It’s believed this phrase dates all the way back to the time where there was a real risk of people being buried alive. While it’s true that there were bell ropes in cemeteries so people could ring the bell if they woke up in their coffins, it’s not the real origin of the phrase. It comes from 19<sup>th</sup> century boxing slang. When a boxer was about to be defeated but the bell rang for the end of the round, he was considered “saved by the bell.”</p><p><strong>“Dead ringer”</strong></p><p>This was also thought to derive from people buried alive ringing a bell but it comes from the horse racing industry. Cheating owners would switch two similar looking horses to gain an advantage in races. The word “ringer” comes from the old slang meaning of “ring”, which meant to exchange something counterfeit for real.</p><p><strong>Related links:</strong></p><p><em><strong><a href="/lifestyle/education/2014/12/inspiring-60-year-olds/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Inspiring things famous people achieved in their 60s</span></a></strong></em></p><p><em><strong><a href="/lifestyle/education/2014/11/learning-another-language-will-keep-your-brain-in-tiptop-shape/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Learning another language will keep your brain in tiptop shape</span></a></strong></em></p><p><em><strong><a href="/lifestyle/education/2014/12/tips-for-negotiating/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">6 tips to negotiate your way to what you want</span></a></strong></em></p>

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Outdated phrases we just can’t stop using

<p>Despite using these phrases on a regular basis, when you think about it they have been outdated for years.</p> <p>1. Got it on tape</p> <p>It’s been a long time since VHS and cassette tapes have been in use, and even though video and audio recordings are now digital, many people still throw around the saying, “got it on tape”, when they refer to recording things. This is nowadays done on mobile phones.</p> <p>2. Roll down the window</p> <p>Do you have a care that has a manual wind down window? We didn’t think so. So why do we still say, “roll down the window”?</p> <p>3. Hold your horses</p> <p>A common phrase of yesteryear used to tell kids to slow down… we can’t seem to let go of this one either. But do you see many horse and carriages galloping around still? No. </p> <p>4. That’s a Kodak moment</p> <p>Ah, what a nice thought that is – they day when we’d buy a canister of film and pop it in the camera and go to the camera shop to get it developed. With the advent of digital cameras sadly photo-developing shops are dying breed. The term, “It’s a Kodak moment” has stuck, though.</p> <p>While these phrases might not exactly be relevant anymore, they are just too good to stop using aren’t they!</p> <p><strong>Related links: </strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="/news/news/2015/08/cooper-cavoodle/">Meet Cooper the cavoodle who’s famous for being cute</a></strong></em></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="/news/news/2015/07/dog-recognises-mum/">Dog recognises mum she hasn’t seen since puppyhood</a></strong></em></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="/news/news/2015/07/chihuahua-neck-massager/">Why does this Chihuahua end the day with a neck massage?</a></strong></em></span></p>

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The surprising origin of everyday expressions

<p>Have you ever stopped and wondered why we say certain phrases? If you think about it, why on earth would you tell someone to “break a leg” when they’re about to go on stage? But of course, it dates back to a theatrical superstition where wishing a person good luck is believed to bring bad luck. Here are the origins of four more everyday expressions.</p><p><strong>“Raining cats and dogs”</strong></p><p>&nbsp;A popular (but false) theory of this expression states that dogs and cats used to sleep in thatched roofs and were washed away during heavy storms. This has been discredited as thatched roofs were naturally water resistant and to fall off the roof, pets would have had to be sleeping on them outside – unlikely during a heavy rain or storm. Etymologist believe it likely originated from a 1592 sentence by Gabriel Harvey that states: “Instead of thunderboltes shooteth nothing but dogboltes or catboltes.” Dog bolts were iron bolts to lock a door or a gate, while cat bolts were used to fasten together pieces of wood. So Harvey was likening heavy rain to metal bolts falling from the sky. The “bolt” was eventually dropped to make it easier to say but this also caused the phrase to no longer make much sense. &nbsp;</p><p><strong>“Rule of thumb”</strong></p><p>It was once believed that the phrase “rule of thumb” derived from 18<sup>th</sup> century British law, which said it was acceptable for a man to beat his wife if he used stick no wider a thumb. Thankfully, this law never existed and the term came from the much less gristly origins. Instead, the phrase developed from our own long history for using thumbs to estimate measurements.</p><p><strong>&nbsp;“Saved by the bell”</strong></p><p>It’s believed this phrase dates all the way back to the time where there was a real risk of people being buried alive. While it’s true that there were bell ropes in cemeteries so people could ring the bell if they woke up in their coffins, it’s not the real origin of the phrase. It comes from 19<sup>th</sup> century boxing slang. When a boxer was about to be defeated but the bell rang for the end of the round, he was considered “saved by the bell.”</p><p><strong>“Dead ringer”</strong></p><p>This was also thought to derive from people buried alive ringing a bell but it comes from the horse racing industry. Cheating owners would switch two similar looking horses to gain an advantage in races. The word “ringer” comes from the old slang meaning of “ring”, which meant to exchange something counterfeit for real.</p><p><strong>Related links:</strong></p><p><em><strong><a href="/lifestyle/education/2014/12/inspiring-60-year-olds/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Inspiring things famous people achieved in their 60s</span></a></strong></em></p><p><em><strong><a href="/lifestyle/education/2014/11/learning-another-language-will-keep-your-brain-in-tiptop-shape/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Learning another language will keep your brain in tiptop shape</span></a></strong></em></p><p><em><strong><a href="/lifestyle/education/2014/12/tips-for-negotiating/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">6 tips to negotiate your way to what you want</span></a></strong></em></p>

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