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Dylan Alcott’s girlfriend shares exciting update

<p dir="ltr">Tennis star Dylan Alcott’s girlfriend, Chantelle Otten has shared an exciting update on the couple’s plans to expand their family.</p> <p dir="ltr">Otten took to her Instagram Stories to announce that she is currently undergoing hormone fertility therapy to freeze her eggs, in hopes of one day starting a family with the Paralympic star.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I’m actually going through my second round of egg freezing at the moment,” she said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I think a lot of people watched Dyl (Dylan) and I, on Big Miracles, a few months ago.</p> <p dir="ltr">“And yeah I’m just doing another round because I want to have them there for when we are ready but also I can donate afterwards as well.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I know plenty of people who might not have as good of a journey as I am having with egg freezing because I have a lot of eggs unlike the Easter bunny so if anyone has questions about it please let me know,” she added.</p> <p dir="ltr">Otten, who is a sexologist, met the seven-time Australian Open winner who represented Australia in the Paralympics, at one of his book readings in 2018 and the pair began dating that same year.</p> <p dir="ltr">The couple made their relationship public at a tennis event in April 2019.</p> <p dir="ltr">The couple have been open about their plans to start a family and have appeared on <em>Nine’s</em> IVF documentary <em>Big Miracles</em> to share their fertility journey.</p> <p dir="ltr">"We're both young but also super pumped to be parents one day so it's something we're excited to think further about in the future,” Alcott had said in an interview for the documentary.</p> <p dir="ltr">Otten has shared that the couple started discussing their options for the future during COVID.</p> <p dir="ltr">"Honestly, we just came together and I said, 'I think I might freeze my eggs'. Dylan thought it was a great idea," she told <em>Nine</em>.</p> <p dir="ltr">"We weren't sure what our fertility journey would be like as a couple so this felt like a natural next step in our process. It didn't take us long to think about it but in terms of taking steps and looking at options,” she added.</p> <p><em>Images: Instagram</em></p>

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The couple with 39-year age gap open up about fertility struggle after welcoming twins

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Following a six-year battle trying to conceive, Sam, 37 and Max Delmege, 76, have opened up about their journey to becoming new parents.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Defying the odds since their marriage in 2015 with a 39-year age gap, the couple thought they would be ready for the journey of starting a family via IVF.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Despite attempting IVF 23 times and suffering multiple miscarriages, “Team Delmege” kept persevering and were rewarded in January this year </span><a href="https://www.oversixty.com.au/lifestyle/family-pets/couple-with-39-year-age-gap-welcome-twins"><span style="font-weight: 400;">when they welcomed twins Tommy and Lexie</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> into their family.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I remember feeling excited at the time but very emotional that we had finally got there,” Mrs Delmege told </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">A Current Affair</span><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“It all just happened really fast … I was sitting here having dinner one night, had a few pains, rang the obstetrician, in hospital and within two hours was in theatre - babies out.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Mrs Delmege gave birth following a difficult pregnancy, during which she suffered severe morning sickness and was admitted to hospital at 23 weeks at risk of going into early labour.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Staying for 50 days on round-the-clock bed rest, she made it to 35 weeks before the babies decided they were ready to come out.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“To see them come out was unbelievable to see, they seemed to be healthy and happy, it was just wonderful,” Mr Delmege said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">After spending three weeks in the hospital’s special care nursery, Tommy and Lexie are now settling in their Gold Coast home, while Mr and Mrs Delmege enjoy life as a family of four.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Of the long IVF journey they went through, Mr Delmege said it was “certainly worth it when you look at these two beautiful, little children.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">For Mr Delmege, the twins represent his second time at fatherhood, already having two adult sons who he regrets not spending enough time with.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“When I am sitting here at 4.30 in the morning feeding them, once I feed her she starts to laugh and we talk and I’m looking at her and I thought, gee I’m a very lucky guy,” he said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Though the first few months haven’t been easy for both parents, especially as Mrs Delmege adjusts to being a first-time mum, she said she wouldn’t change it for the world.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">At just four months old, the twins are already an aunt and uncle to five nieces and nephews - the oldest 19.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Despite their slightly unusual family tree, the couple said they have been well supported on their 11-year journey from newlyweds to parents.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“You’re always going to have a few people who don’t agree with things but the majority of the people have supported us,” Mr Delmege said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Mr and Mrs Delmege also hope their story will help others struggling with conceiving.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Don’t give up, at the end of the storm, as they say, there’s always a rainbow and there really is, you’ve just got to keep pushing through no matter how hard it is,” Mrs Delmege said.</span></p>

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James Bond is more than a (sexist) secret agent. He is a fertility god, a Dionysus of the modern era

<p>James Bond is more than a (sexist) secret agent. He is a fertility god, a Dionysus of the modern era</p> <p>“History isn’t kind to people who play God,” quips James Bond to supervillain Safin in the trailer for No Time to Die.</p> <p>The film’s release has been delayed yet again, to April 2021. It will mark Daniel Craig’s swansong as 007 and speculation continues as to who will be the next Bond. Will it be Idris Elba, Tom Hardy or perhaps a woman?</p> <p>Bond has long been criticised for his sexist attitudes, with even Judi Dench’s M in GoldenEye (1995) dubbing him a “sexist, misogynist dinosaur” . But what if we view him through the prism of Greek mythology? Is Bond, in fact, a contemporary incarnation of Dionysus, the god of wine, pleasure and fertility?</p> <p>In Greek mythology, the gods punish mortals for the sin of hubris. In our pop-culture pantheon, Bond is a deity.</p> <p>Dionysus travelled throughout the ancient world, sometimes by boat in the Aegean islands, sometimes in a winged chariot. Bond also circumnavigates the globe, equally at home on yachts or in helicopters. But his chariot of choice is an Aston Martin.</p> <p>Its logo? A pair of wings.</p> <p><strong>Secrets of wine – and martinis</strong><br />Wherever Dionysus went he initiated his followers in the secrets of wine-making. Wherever Bond goes he initiates the mixologist in the secrets of making the perfect Vesper martini.</p> <p>In Ian Fleming’s Diamonds are Forever (1956), Bond tells the bartender to combine three measures of Gordon’s gin, one of vodka and half a measure of Kina Lillet with a thick slice of lemon peel and poured into a deep champagne goblet. In Casino Royale (2006), he adds the martini must be shaken “until it’s ice cold.”</p> <p>Unlike mortals, Bond’s prodigious consumption of alcohol does him no harm, indeed he is hailed as “the best shot in the Secret Service.”</p> <p>In a study of the novels published in the British Medical Journal in 2013, researchers estimated Bond consumed an average of 92 units of alcohol per week with a maximum daily intake peaking at 49.8 units.</p> <p>There were days when Bond abstained – 12.5 out of a total 87.5 days – but mostly because he was being held prisoner.</p> <p><strong>Weapons of disguise</strong><br />Dionysus carries a thyrsus: a sacred pinecone-tipped staff wreathed in vines. The thyrus is a phallic symbol, sometimes displayed with a kantharos wine cup, denoting female sexuality.</p> <p>The union of the two created a powerful representation of fertility and rebirth. Dionysus also turned his thyrsus into a dangerous weapon by secreting an iron tip in its point.</p> <p>As a secret agent, Bond conceals his Walther PPK pistol in a hidden holster, but one of his most lethal weapons is disguised as a cigarette – a potent symbol of sexual union in cinema, where smoking a cigarette signifies the completion of copulation.</p> <p>In You Only Live Twice (1967) the villain makes the fatal mistake of allowing Bond “one last fag.” It turns out to be tipped with a rocket-propelled bullet, proving that cigarettes aren’t just lethal for smokers.</p> <p><strong>Gods of possession</strong><br />Dionysus was deeply attractive to his female followers, Maenads, who would drink themselves into a frenzy to be possessed by the god. Likewise, Bond is pursued by a bevy of beautiful women – Pussy Galore, Plenty O’Toole and Honey Rider – panting to be possessed.</p> <p>As with the Maenads, devotion to Bond comes with its perils. In Live and Let Die (1973), Bond girl, Solitaire loses her psychic powers after a close encounter of the passionate kind with Bond and becomes a target for heroin baron, Dr Kananga.</p> <p>In Goldfinger (1964), Jill Masterton is punished by the eponymous villain for betraying him to Bond, dying of skin suffocation when he covers her in gold paint.</p> <p>This puts a new spin on the Midas myth in which Dionysus granted the king’s wish to be blessed with the golden touch, only to discover that it is a curse making it impossible to eat or even embrace his daughter without turning her into metal.</p> <p><strong>Ecstasy and death</strong><br />In ancient Greece, the number seven was sacred and composed of the number three (the heavenly male) and the number four (the heavenly female). Bond’s number in the secret service – Agent 007 – is thus the perfect number to represent a modern-day fertility god.</p> <p>Like Dionysus who is depicted in a number of forms which range from an older, bearded god to a long-haired youth, Bond has appeared in a variety of guises from the debonair David Niven to the strapping Daniel Craig.</p> <p>Yet regardless of his age and physique, Bond’s dual Dionysian nature brings either divine ecstasy in bed, or brutal death to his foes.</p> <p>Dionysus almost dies before he is born but his father Zeus saves him. Later he returns from the dead after he is dismembered by the Titans.</p> <p>Bond says, “You only live twice: once when you are born and once when you look death in the face.”</p> <p>Like Dionysus, Bond is resurrected in Skyfall (2012) after he is accidentally shot by Moneypenny. The bullet penetrates his body causing him to fall off a train and into a waterfall where he sinks to the bottom. But Bond is immortal. He returns to save another day.</p> <p>When it finally reaches cinemas, No Time to Die will be the last hurrah for Craig, but gods do not die. Bond will live on.</p> <p><em>Written by Nicole Lenoir-Jourdan. This article first appeared on <a href="https://theconversation.com/james-bond-is-more-than-a-sexist-secret-agent-he-is-a-fertility-god-a-dionysus-of-the-modern-era-131040">The Conversation</a>.</em></p>

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Deb Knight opens up about unexpected dilemma after IVF

<p>When Channel Nine journalist Deb Knight and her husband Lindsay Dunbar turned to IVF to have kids, they were faced with a rather unexpected decision afterwards: what to do with the one leftover embryo?</p> <p>Knight, who went through two years and 11 cycles of IVF to have son Darcy and daughter Elsa, eight and seven respectively (21-month-old Audrey was a “lovely surprise”), visited the <span>Today </span>show yesterday to talk about the rarely-discussed dilemma faced by thousands of parents around the country.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media"> <div style="padding: 8px;"> <div style="background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 50.0% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;"> <div style="background: url(data:image/png; base64,ivborw0kggoaaaansuheugaaacwaaaascamaaaapwqozaaaabgdbtueaalgpc/xhbqaaaafzukdcak7ohokaaaamuexurczmzpf399fx1+bm5mzy9amaaadisurbvdjlvzxbesmgces5/p8/t9furvcrmu73jwlzosgsiizurcjo/ad+eqjjb4hv8bft+idpqocx1wjosbfhh2xssxeiyn3uli/6mnree07uiwjev8ueowds88ly97kqytlijkktuybbruayvh5wohixmpi5we58ek028czwyuqdlkpg1bkb4nnm+veanfhqn1k4+gpt6ugqcvu2h2ovuif/gwufyy8owepdyzsa3avcqpvovvzzz2vtnn2wu8qzvjddeto90gsy9mvlqtgysy231mxry6i2ggqjrty0l8fxcxfcbbhwrsyyaaaaaelftksuqmcc); display: block; height: 44px; margin: 0 auto -44px; position: relative; top: -22px; width: 44px;"></div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BTMHAyyAL3M/" target="_blank">A post shared by Deborah Knight (@deborah_knight)</a> on Apr 22, 2017 at 6:24am PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>There are four common options for parents with leftover embryos – using them, donating them to another couple, donating them to medical research, or discarding them. After much thought, Knight and Dunbar decided to donate their “spare” embryo to medical research.</p> <p>“If I had a friend or family member who was having trouble conceiving, that would be a different scenario,” the 45-year-old explained. “Donating to a stranger ... you have to connect with that person. You have to then go down the process of giving up all of your rights to that potential child. There are all sorts of legal issues to consider.”</p> <p>According to IVF specialist Dr Rick Gordon, only around one in 100 couples who consider donating their remaining embryo(s) to a couple struggling with their fertility actually go through with it.</p> <p>“When the penny drops that it's their own child out there – a sibling to their own children – that's a different kettle of fish,” he said. "We’re talking cells here, but to people's brains, these are potential human beings.”</p> <p><span>Today</span> show co-host Georgie Gardner praised Knight for speaking so openly about a topic so rarely discussed. “I appreciate so much you being so candid and sharing your experience.”</p> <p>Knight replied that she only hoped her story would help others grapple with the difficult decision. “Hopefully it helps others going through the process to know that they’re not alone.”</p> <p><em>Image credit: Deb Knight/Instagram.</em></p>

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Australia’s fertility rate drops to 10-year low

<p>Australia’s fertility rate has fallen to the lowest level in 10 years.</p><p>The Australian Bureau of Statistics has found that the national fertility rate has dropped to 1.8 children per woman, down from roughly 1.88 children per woman. Interestingly, the last time the fertility rate was this low the government introduced a baby bonus to boost population growth.</p><p>299,700 births were registered in Australia in 2014, down from 308,100 in 2013, with the biggest difference coming in New South Wales which say a 9.3 per cent decline compared to 2013.</p><p>AJ Lanyon, the regional director at the ABS, told The Sydney Morning Herald, “This rate has been declining since 2008, though not reaching the low recorded in 2001. There was a strong pattern in our major cities where the highest birth rates were in outer suburbs and very low rates in the inner city. These inner city areas had high proportions of younger people, but few babies.”</p><p>With the baby-boomer generation ageing this fertility rate causes potential population replacement problems. If you’ve got visions of grandchildren it might be time for some gentle encouragement.</p><p><strong>Related links:</strong></p><p><a href="/news/news/2015/10/air-piano-baby-video/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Baby plays air piano</strong></em></span></a></p><p><a href="/news/news/2015/10/jamie-oliver-cooking-with-family/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Jamie Oliver’s son interrupts cooking show to “go toilet”</strong></em></span></a></p><p><a href="/news/news/2015/10/cute-baby-meets-pug-puppies/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Baby hysterical when he meets pugs for first time</strong></em></span></a></p>

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