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Kate Middleton breaks ‘unwritten’ royal rule

<p dir="ltr">Kate Middleton has been spotted breaking an unwritten rule for royals while posing with a royal fan.</p> <p dir="ltr">After the man approached and put his arm around her, the Princess of Wales reciprocated, breaking the unwritten rule of limiting contact to a handshake.</p> <p dir="ltr">Before smiling for the camera, Kate was seen speaking with him during the official visit she made with husband Prince William to Scarborough.</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-b490d20f-7fff-f7de-e2b6-f3a9ad63b0d9"></span></p> <p dir="ltr">The sweet photo was taken during the couple’s visit to ‘The Street’, a youth and community facility run by the charity Coast &amp; Vale Community Action, where they announced that £345,000 of funds from their Royal Foundation would be used to help young people’s mental health in the area.</p> <p dir="ltr"><img src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/2022/11/kate-hug-man.jpg" alt="" width="1280" height="720" /></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Kate Middleton was photographed with her arm around a royal fan during a sweet encounter in Scarborough. Image: Getty Images</em></p> <p dir="ltr">Their visit marked the first time royals had been to the town in 12 years and was met with a positive reception from locals.</p> <p dir="ltr">“It’s a feel good factor, which at the present situation as somebody said to me, ‘To see a prince and princess, it’s like a fairytale’,” one local told <em>ITV News</em>.</p> <p dir="ltr">“It’s lovely that they’re helping all the young ones isn’t it, because they’ll be the ones that’s with them, you know, when [William]’s king really,” another said.</p> <p dir="ltr">One of the teens who was lucky to meet with the royals to speak about mental health shared a surprising revelation about what the couple were really like.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I thought they’d be more posh but they were very down to earth,” he said.</p> <p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-1b113cf2-7fff-5190-904a-499d06145b58"></span></p> <p dir="ltr">Both Kate and William were also snapped with their arms around a young child, with other members of the public taking photos of them as well.</p> <p dir="ltr"><img src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/2022/11/kate-hug-william.jpg" alt="" width="1280" height="720" /></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Prince William and Kate Middleton were also spotted with their arms around a young royal fan during their visit to Scarborough. Image: Getty Images</em></p> <p dir="ltr">But Kate and William’s most recent visit to Scarborough isn’t the first time members of the public have been met with more than a handshake by the younger royals.</p> <p dir="ltr">Earlier this year, William hugged a man who became emotional during a trip to Scotland, and the Prince also hugged the Lionesses after their historic win of the UEFA Women’s Euro 2022 competition.</p> <p dir="ltr">In the wake of the Queen’s death in September, Meghan Markle was spotted being hugged and kissed by royal fans, while Sophie, Countess of Wessex, was photographed hugging a young boy during a vigil.</p> <p dir="ltr">While there aren’t any official rules for how royals behave while greeting members of the public, a handshake has historically been the extent of contact made.</p> <p dir="ltr">Grant Harold, a former royal butler, told <em><a href="https://www.ok.co.uk/lifestyle/prince-william-broke-protocol-intentional-27659169" target="_blank" rel="noopener">OK!</a></em> that at most “you could look but you couldn’t touch”.</p> <p dir="ltr">“If you met a royal, you could look at them and if they offered you a handshake you were to accept it,” he told the outlet.</p> <p dir="ltr">“That was a lot to do with the mystique surrounding the family but also for security reasons, too."</p> <p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-cb821642-7fff-b5b6-5f1c-9a9352152e43"></span></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Getty Images</em></p>

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6 unwritten rules for grandparents

<p>Being a grandparent has so many benefits, but there are also some unwritten rules that you must also be aware of. Not wanting to step on the toes of our children and in-laws, while also wanting a strong bond with the grandkids, is the basic goal of most grandparents. Follow the advice below to help support your family to develop into a cohesive unit, crossing multiple generations.</p> <p><strong>1. Don’t expect a phone call </strong></p> <p>Kids just don’t really think of calling their grandparents. That’s a given. So most of the time it will be up to you to get in touch if you want to meet up or just touch base. Remember that these days, younger people are used to texts or emails rather than conversations. Learn what they’re comfortable with and give that a go.</p> <p><strong>2. Don’t try to parent them</strong></p> <p>You aren’t here to teach them the life lessons or discipline them. Try to focus on fun, and let this be the building block for a solid relationship with your grandchild. Often when we are engrossed in an activity with a youngster (such as playing with Lego or colouring in) they will open up about what’s happening with their school or friends.</p> <p><strong>3. Be the bigger person</strong></p> <p>Many families find themselves in a cycle where past hurts and judgements are held as a grudge which can see relationships falter. Don’t let petty arguments or hurt feelings stop you from being the grown up and just try to move on if something happens that bothers you. Also remember that there might be other relatives (including another set of grandparents) whose feelings need to be considered when it comes to things like Christmas and birthday celebrations.</p> <p><strong>4. Get the good gifts</strong></p> <p>Yes all kids need socks and underwear, but you can leave that to mum and dad. Try to be the person who always gets the grandkids a thoughtful or meaningful gift (rather than more plastic toys that end up in landfill eventually). A great idea is to focus on experiences rather than things, for instance you might buy them a ticket to the cinema or a concert, get them an annual pass to a waterpark, or pay for their guitar lessons.</p> <p><strong>5. Offer practical help</strong></p> <p>It can be tricky for parents to manage the competing demands of kids, work, bills and relationships. Try to be a regular support by offering practical help wherever possible. This might mean dropping off lasagne to feed the family with the new baby, or popping to the shops for milk if you see they’re running low. Higher level support such as child minding should be discussed in detail to avoid anyone making assumptions about the other one’s role.</p> <p><strong>6. Keep opinions to yourself</strong></p> <p>Unless you are concerned that your grandchild is in danger, it is not appropriate for you to give your two cents on their haircut, food preferences, bedtime or milk intake. Unless you are specifically asked for advice, it’s best to bite your tongue rather than being seen as stepping over the line.</p> <p>What do you think of these unwritten rules? Are there any more that you would add to the list from your experience?</p>

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