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The debate: Should kids over 18 pay rent if they’re still living at home?

<p>Parents have shared their thoughts on letting their children live at home rent free, as the age old debate of paying board stirred up some strong opinions. </p> <p>A <a href="https://honey.nine.com.au/money/should-children-over-the-age-of-18-pay-board-if-they-still-live-at-home-reader-poll-exclusive/77876711-2950-4bf3-bb30-716442a6fd74" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>nine.com.au</em></a> reader survey asked the question: Should children over the age of 18 pay board if they still live at home?</p> <p>The responses were many and varied, as a whopping 72 percent of respondents said grown up kids should be contributing financially to the household. </p> <p>One person commented, "If children have employment, it's important that they clearly understand that life is not free and they need to budget, show accountability and responsibility."</p> <p>Another wrote, "If the children over 18 are working, then yes, they should contribute or give money to the parents to bank for them."</p> <p>Others said children shouldn't be expected to pay board, and would rather their kids save money for bigger financial commitments.</p> <p>"My parents did not charge me board even though I was working because they did not need the money and told me to save for my first car, which I did," one person shared. </p> <p>Another wrote their parenting tactic, writing, "I let my children not pay board. So they could save for a deposit on a house. They did and they all (3) have a house."</p> <p>Despite many people sharing their strong opinions on the matter, most respondents said it was not a black and white question, as many households have individual circumstances that affect their decision. </p> <p>"Depends on if they are working or not and what income the parents have. My son is 22 but unemployed due to health problem, we just pool our unemployment payment so it differs for each family situation, not a YES or No answer," one reader wrote. </p> <p>Another said it depends on their employment and study status, writing, "Yes if they're working almost full time, not if they're studying and just working part time to cover living expenses."</p> <p>The poll comes as Aussies have struggled with a rise in basic living costs, with <a href="https://www.finder.com.au/australian-household-spending-statistics" target="_blank" rel="noopener">ABS</a> data showing that Australian households spent a total of $1.2 trillion on what was classed as general living costs in 2022. </p> <p>This sum is close to $100 billion more than in 2021. </p> <p>The average household spent $130,353 in 2022, which is the equivalent of $2507 per week. This is a 20.4 per cent jump on the previous year.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images </em></p>

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Rising martial arts star dies aged 18

<p>Victoria "The Prodigy" Lee, one of the world's most gifted young mixed martial arts athletes, has tragically died at the age of 18. </p> <p>Victoria's sister Angela confirmed the news on Instagram, saying the teenager died on December 26th 2022. </p> <p>Sharing a heart-felt tribute to her sister, Angela wrote, "On December 26, 2022 our family experienced something no family should ever have to go through. It is incredibly difficult to say this... Our Victoria passed away."</p> <p>"She has gone too soon and our family has been completely devastated since then. We miss her. More than anything in this world. Our family will never be the same. Life will never be the same."</p> <p>"Each and every little thing makes me think of you. From the sun rays, to the sunset. You taught us to see the beauty in the simple things. You were our bright light. Our sunshine. And that will never change. You were perfect in every way. The best person I knew. The most beautiful girl, inside and out."</p> <p>Lee was born and raised in Hawaii, where she was part of a family with a strong MMA pedigree. </p> <p>Both of Victoria's siblings hold championship MMA titles from around the world, with Victoria following in their footsteps and donning the stage name The Prodigy. </p> <p>ONE, the largest MMA promoter in Asia, paid tribute to Victoria and her family's devastating loss, as chairman Chatri Sityodtong recalled the first time he met the aspiring athlete. </p> <p>“I first met Victoria when she was 11 years old,” <a href="https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=5969693956426049" data-link-name="in body link">he wrote in a Facebook post</a>. “I watched her blossom over the years as a martial artist and a human being. I always remember thinking how wise, thoughtful, and selfless she was beyond her years."</p> <p>"Of course, she was an extraordinary martial arts prodigy even back then, but I could see that she was so much more than that. Victoria had the purest heart of gold and a brilliant mind. She looked after others before herself. She wanted to use her life to help the world. I will always remember Victoria for the beautiful and precious soul that she was.”</p> <p><em>Image credits: Instagram </em></p>

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Man who lived in airport for 18 years dies

<p dir="ltr">The man who inspired Steven Spielberg’s <em>The Terminal</em>, as well as a French film and an opera, has died in the airport where he lived for 18 years.</p> <p dir="ltr">Mehran Karimi Nasseri suffered a heart attack in Terminal 2F of the Charles de Gaulle airport on Saturday and died after police and a medical team were unable to save him, according to an official with the Paris airport.</p> <p dir="ltr">Mr Nasseri, believed to have been born in 1945 in Soleiman, the then-British controlled area of Iran, lived in Terminal 1 between 1988 and 2006, at first while he was in a legal limbo because he was without residency papers and later by choice.</p> <p dir="ltr">The airport official said the 76-year-old had been living in the airport again in recent weeks.</p> <p dir="ltr">His first stint at the airport, when he spent years sleeping on a red plastic bench, making friends with airport workers, showering in staff facilities and spending time writing in his diary, studying economics and watching passing travellers inspired <em>The Terminal</em> starring Tom Hanks, as well as French film <em>Lost in Transit</em> and the opera <em>Flight</em>.</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-60e6406c-7fff-168d-d594-bf2658fa4d87">Mr Nasseri published his autobiography, <em>The Terminal Man</em>, the same year <em>The Terminal </em>was made.</span></p> <p><img src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/2022/11/mehran-nasseri1.jpg" alt="" width="1280" height="720" /></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Mehran Karimi Nessari lived in the Charles de Gaulle airport for 18 years, with his belongings surrounding a red plastic bench he slept on. Image: Getty Images</em></p> <p dir="ltr">After leaving Iran to study in England in 1974, he was reportedly imprisoned on his return for protesting against the shah while abroad and was exiled soon after.</p> <p dir="ltr">He applied for political asylum in several European countries and was given refugee credentials by the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees in Belgium in 1981, but was later denied entry into England after the briefcase containing his documents was stolen at a Paris train station.</p> <p dir="ltr">Although he was arrested by French police after being sent back to Charles de Gaulle from England, he couldn’t be deported because he had no official documents and stayed.</p> <p dir="ltr">After lengthy legal campaigning, more bureaucratic bungling and increasingly strict European immigration laws kept him in a legal no-man’s land for years, Mr Nasseri was offered French and Belgian residency, but he refused to sign the papers as they listed him as Iranian and didn’t show his preferred name, Sir Alfred Mehran.</p> <p dir="ltr">He stayed at the airport for several more years before being admitted to hospital in 2006 and he later lived in a French shelter.</p> <p dir="ltr">Those at the airport who befriended him said Mr Nasseri’s years of living there had taken a toll on his mental health, while the airport doctor described him as “fossilised here” in 1990.</p> <p dir="ltr">One friend, a ticket agent, compared him to a prisoner incapable of “living on the outside”.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Eventually, I will leave the airport,” Mr Nasseri told the Associated Press in 1999, looking frail with thin hair, hollow cheeks and sunken eyes.</p> <p dir="ltr">“But I am still waiting for a passport or transit visa.”</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-4bd7e308-7fff-3d7d-6c45-f058a4043631"></span></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Getty Images</em></p>

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Mother slammed for making her 18-year-old daughter sign a lease to stay at home

<p>A mum who made her 18-year-old daughter sign a $100-per-month lease in order to continue living at home has sparked a furious debate online.</p> <p>In a TikTok, she opened up about the financial agreement with the teenager, her daughter Jada who recently turned 18. She made her sign a legal lease agreement and then went on to post it with the caption “when your 18-year-old decides to stay at home”.</p> <p>The unnamed woman's video then cuts to her daughter signing the legal agreement with the caption “setting [her] up for success.”</p> <p>Her clip sparked some outage, racking up more than 1.5 million views, as well as thousands of likes and comments - with many users left divided over whether the mom was treating her daughter fairly.</p> <blockquote class="tiktok-embed" style="max-width: 605px; min-width: 325px;" cite="https://www.tiktok.com/@c_d_g/video/7112179079968804142" data-video-id="7112179079968804142"> <section><a title="@c_d_g" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@c_d_g" target="_blank" rel="noopener">@c_d_g</a> Rent a room🤷🏻‍♀️<a title="droppinbytoshowlove🤟🏼" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/droppinbytoshowlove%F0%9F%A4%9F%F0%9F%8F%BC" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#droppinbytoshowlove🤟🏼</a> <a title="daughter" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/daughter" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#daughter</a> <a title="mother" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/mother" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#mother</a> <a title="18" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/18" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#18</a> <a title="leaseagreement" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/leaseagreement" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#leaseagreement</a> <a title="setupforsuccess" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/setupforsuccess" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#setupforsuccess</a> <a title="softplacetofall" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/softplacetofall" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#softplacetofall</a> <a title="saftynet" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/saftynet" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#saftynet</a> <a title="stayinhome" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/stayinhome" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#stayinhome</a> <a title="myhouse" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/myhouse" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#myhouse</a> <a title="myhousemyrules" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/myhousemyrules" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#myhousemyrules</a> <a title="♬ It's The Hard Knock Life - Annie Movie" href="https://www.tiktok.com/music/It's-The-Hard-Knock-Life-211283664486187008" target="_blank" rel="noopener">♬ It's The Hard Knock Life - Annie Movie</a></section> </blockquote> <p>After receiving many hate comments, Jada's mum took to TikTok to post a response video where she attempted to explain to her over 24,000 followers why she made her daughter sign a lease.</p> <p>“I was a single mom at 16 and my parents didn't set me up for success, I had to fight for every single thing I have,” said the Oklahoma woman.</p> <p>She went on to add that she doesn't want her children to depend on her for anything and everything she does “prepares” her children for the “real world”.</p> <p>The mom-of-six added that in the area of Oklahoma they are from, renters must have proof of rental history when they are preparing to rent or buy a home, she added that she made the legal lease agreement so her daughter would have a rental history.</p> <p>She stated that the $100 Jada pays her mom every month goes towards “utilities, room, food and everything else.”</p> <p>The mother, who made all of her other children sign a lease, emphasized that she was setting up her daughter for success and while Jada has the right to move out, in this economy it would be a lot harder if she did.</p> <p><em>Image: TikTok</em></p>

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18 hidden voice memos features you never knew about

<p><strong>Make the most of your voice memo app</strong></p> <p>Your iPhone is packed with productivity tools, but you don’t have to download a dozen apps for your device to become a true time-saver. Apple’s voice memo app alone can add to your productivity, help you keep track of your appointments and reminders, and act as your personal assistant. Use Voice Memos to record conversations, meetings, lectures, and the great idea you had while driving or walking the dog. You can even record a phone call on your iPhone by using the Voice Memos app.</p> <p>The app is easy to locate – you’ll find it in your Utilities folder, though you can move it wherever you’d like, or ask Siri to open it for you. It’s easy to use. It’s available on iPhone, iPad, iPod Touch and Apple computers. And best of all, it’s free. There’s no time limit for recordings (it’s dependent on the internal storage capacity of your device), so you can likely record that entire lecture without worry.</p> <p>Scroll down for tips that take you beyond voice memo recording and to all of the truly cool things you can do with a voice memo app.</p> <p><strong>Record a voice memo</strong></p> <p>There are a whole host of reasons you might make good use of a voice memo app. Maybe your boss loves to have walking meetings, but you’re not quite skilled at walking, note-taking… and not running into a tree. Maybe you’re meeting colleagues for a brainstorming dinner and want to keep track of everyone’s ideas. Or maybe you need a quick way to take down a brilliant idea – for a business, a birthday gift, you name it – during your commute.</p> <p>It’s incredibly easy to use your iPhone’s Voice Memos app. (Just be sure to ask the other person’s permission first!) Here’s how:</p> <p>Open the Voice Memos app.</p> <p>To start recording, tap the red record button.</p> <p>Boom! You’re recording your conversation.</p> <p><strong>Pause a recording</strong></p> <p>While you may often record straight through without breaks, there are times when you may want to pause a recording. For instance, during an important lunch meeting with colleagues, you really don’t need to keep track of your coworkers ordering coffee at the care. This iPhone trick will also be helpful during conversations with long pauses or when you’re put on hold. Here’s how to do it:</p> <p>While recording, tap or swipe up on the recording field at the bottom of your screen to bring it into full-screen view.</p> <p>Tap the pause symbol to temporarily stop recording.</p> <p>Tap Resume to continue.</p> <p><strong>Stop a recording</strong></p> <p>When you’re done recording your conversation, remember to actually stop the recording or you’ll be stuck with a really long voice memo that eats into your storage space. Here’s how to do it:</p> <ul> <li><strong>In partial-screen view</strong>: Hit the red square.</li> <li><strong>In full-screen view</strong>: Tap the pause button, then hit the word Done.</li> </ul> <p><strong>Delete a recording</strong></p> <p>Not every recording is worth saving. If you decide you don’t need yours, it’s easy to delete. Here’s how to do that:</p> <p>In your All Recordings list, find the voice memo you’d like to delete.</p> <p>Select the recording to expand the field.</p> <p>Tap the trash can.</p> <p><strong>Recover a recently deleted recording</strong></p> <p>If you delete the wrong file, don’t panic. Just as you can recover deleted photos, you can recover recently deleted recordings. Just follow the steps below.</p> <p>Navigate to the main Voice Memos screen.</p> <p>Tap Recently Deleted.</p> <p>Tap the recording you’d like to restore.</p> <p>Select Recover to restore your recording.</p> <p>To recover multiple deleted voice memos, select Edit in the upper-right corner. Tap all of the recordings you’d like to restore, then select Recover All from the lower left-hand corner.</p> <p>One thing to bear in mind: you only have about 30 days to recover deleted files.</p> <p><strong>Save a recording in the Voice Memos app</strong></p> <p>If you’re satisfied with your recording, you’ll want to save it. Thankfully, a voice memo on iPhone saves automatically. As soon as you stop a recording, it’ll save in the Voice Memos app and appear in your All Recordings list. Yep, it’s actually as simple as that.</p> <p><strong>Rename your recording</strong></p> <p>Be sure to give your file a new name so you’ll be able to find it easily in the future. Here’s how to do that:</p> <p>Tap the recording.</p> <p>Tap on the name.</p> <p>Type your new file name.</p> <p><strong>Save a recording to an iCloud folder</strong></p> <p>While Voice Memos automatically saves a recording, you may want to save it to iCloud for extra security – or so you can access it from any device. By following the steps below, you’ll ensure your voice memo remains in the app and in your chosen folder.</p> <p>Tap the recording you want to move.</p> <p>Look for a circle with three dots in it. Tap it.</p> <p>Select Save to Files from the list below.</p> <p>Tap the folder you’d like to add it to.</p> <p>To create a new iCloud folder, tap the folder icon in the top right corner.</p> <p><strong>Organise recordings in Voice Memos folders</strong></p> <p>If you use the voice memo app often, you may want to organise your recordings to make them easier to find, just as you would organise your apps for easier access. You can group them in folders, which you’ll find on the main Voice Memos screen.</p> <p>Here’s how to move a voice memo to a folder:</p> <p>Tap the recording you want to move.</p> <p>Tap the circle with three dots in it (to the right of the recording’s name).</p> <p>Select Move to Folder from the list below.</p> <p>Tap on the folder you want your recording to appear in.</p> <p>To create a new folder, tap the folder icon in the lower right-hand corner. Give the folder a name, then select Save. Select that folder to save your recording there.</p> <p><strong>Crop a recording</strong></p> <p>There are many reasons why you might want to crop your new file. Musicians often use the Voice Memos app and then crop out the bits they don’t want to share. One thing to keep in mind: While the crop icon looks the same as in Voice Memos as it does in other apps, the function is actually called Trim.</p> <p>Navigate to your All Recordings list.</p> <p>Tap the voice memo you want to crop.</p> <p>Tap the button to the right of your recording that looks like three small dots in a circle.</p> <p>Select the Edit Recording option.</p> <p>Tap the crop tool at the top right of the file.</p> <p>Drag the yellow trim handles until the section you want to keep is highlighted in yellow and the section you want to crop is in white.</p> <p>Be sure to check that you’re keeping the part you want. Tap the play button to listen.</p> <p>Click the Trim button to crop everything except the section highlighted in yellow.</p> <p>Tap save and then Done, and you’re good to go.</p> <p>You can also delete an entire portion of your recording. With the section selected (it’ll be yellow), tap the Delete button. Remember, Trim removes everything except the yellow segment, while Delete removes the yellow segment.</p> <p><strong>Replace sections of a recording</strong></p> <p>If you mumbled or coughed in the middle of an important voice memo, fear not! It’s really easy to record over the bits you don’t like.</p> <p>Go to your All Recordings list.</p> <p>Tap the recording you want to fix.</p> <p>Tap the button to the right of your recording that looks like three small dots in a circle.</p> <p>Select Edit Recording.</p> <p>Move your finger over the waveform (the lines that visually represent your recording) until you’re in the section of your recording you want to replace.</p> <p>Tap the red Replace button to start recording. The waveform will turn red while you record.</p> <p>Tap the pause button when you’re done.</p> <p>Check your recording by hitting the play button. If you’re satisfied, tap Done to save your changes.</p> <p>The great news: You can do this in as many places as you like to make sure you’re happy with the entire recording.</p> <p><strong>Speed up or slow down a recording</strong></p> <p>If a fast or slow talker is making your voice memo sound weird, or if you need to speed up or slow down a section of music, you can do that easily with the voice memo app.</p> <p>Navigate to your All Recordings list.</p> <p>Tap the audio file you want to speed up or slow down.</p> <p>You’ll see an icon in the bottom left corner that looks like a synthesizer, or three lines with buttons. Tap the icon.</p> <p>Under Playback Speed, move the horizontal slider to the left (toward the tortoise icon) to slow down the playback speed of your recording. Move it to the right (toward the hare) to speed up your recording.</p> <p>Tap the X at the top right of the box to close the screen.</p> <p>Press play on your recording to test the new speed.</p> <p>If you’re not happy with the way it sounds, return to the Playback Speed function and select the blue Reset option.</p> <p>When you’re happy with the recording, tap the X to close the screen again.</p> <p><strong>Automatically skip silences in a recording</strong></p> <p>Unlike in real life, it’s really easy to remove awkward silences from recordings in your Voice Memos app.</p> <p>Tap the audio file you want to edit.</p> <p>Tap the icon in the lower-left corner that looks like a synthesiser (three stacked lines, each with a knob).</p> <p>Toggle on the Skip Silence button.</p> <p>Tap the X icon.</p> <p>Tap the play button to listen to the recording and see if you like the way it sounds.</p> <p><strong>Enhance a recording</strong></p> <p>While writing this article, I was typing in the background. I also coughed quite a few times, which didn’t sound amazing on my recording. If you have street noises or other background sounds on your voice memo or just want to create a more professional recording, you can easily enhance it, just as I did.</p> <p>Tap the audio file you want to edit.</p> <p>Tap the icon in the lower-left corner that looks like a synthesiser (three stacked lines, each with a knob).</p> <p>Toggle on the Enhance Recording button.</p> <p>Tap the X icon.</p> <p>Tap the play button to listen to the recording and see if you like the way it sounds.</p> <p><strong>Duplicate a recording</strong></p> <p>Before you edit any recording, you probably should make a backup. That way, if you end up hating your edits, you always have a fresh copy of the original. It’s also helpful if you want to compare the original with the edits.</p> <p>Go to your All Recordings list.</p> <p>Tap the recording you want to duplicate.</p> <p>Tap the button to the right of your recording that looks like three small dots inside a circle.</p> <p>Select Duplicate from the list.</p> <p>The copy of your recording will appear directly below the original with the word “copy” added to the file name. Tap the file to change the file name.</p> <p><strong>Copy a recording</strong></p> <p>I like to keep copies of all my important files in several places. If a file becomes corrupted, I can head to my backup and work from there. Here’s how to copy a recording in your iPhone Voice Memos app.</p> <p>Go to your All Recordings list.</p> <p>Tap the recording you want to copy.</p> <p>Tap the button to the right of your recording that looks like three small dots in a circle.</p> <p>Select Copy from the list.</p> <p>From there, you can paste the voice memo into an email or text to send to yourself (or someone else) as a backup.</p> <p><strong>Share a recording</strong></p> <p>There are many reasons why you might want to share your recording. Maybe your colleagues want a copy of that daylong meeting you recorded or you’re sending your audio notes to someone for transcription. The Voice Memos app makes sharing your file super simple; just follow the steps below.</p> <p>Navigate to your All Recordings list.</p> <p>Tap the file you want to share.</p> <p>Tap the button to the right of your recording that looks like three small dots in a circle.</p> <p>Select Share from the options below.</p> <p>Select how you’d like to share this file, such as via email, text, or AirDrop.</p> <p><strong>Record a phone call</strong></p> <p>Maybe you’re speaking with a lawyer and want to catch every last detail. Or maybe you’re interviewing someone. Whatever your reason, it’s helpful to know how to record a phone conversation. Apple doesn’t make that easy – you can’t record a call in Voice Memos while you’re on your phone. But there’s a workaround: Use two devices.</p> <p>Open the Voice Memos app on your iPhone, iPad, iPod Touch, or Mac computer.</p> <p>Start recording by tapping the red record button.</p> <p>Make your phone call from a different phone. Be sure to place the call on speaker so Voice Memos captures both sides of the conversation.</p> <p>When your call is over, hang up the phone and stop recording.</p> <p><em><span id="docs-internal-guid-cf7fa5ea-7fff-554b-232e-079b0ae53d8c">Written by Rachel Weingarten. This article first appeared in <a href="https://www.readersdigest.com.au/true-stories-lifestyle/science-technology/18-hidden-voice-memos-features-you-never-knew-about" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Reader’s Digest</a>. For more of what you love from the world’s best-loved magazine, <a href="http://readersdigest.innovations.com.au/c/readersdigestemailsubscribe?utm_source=over60&amp;utm_medium=articles&amp;utm_campaign=RDSUB&amp;keycode=WRA87V" target="_blank" rel="noopener">here’s our best subscription offer.</a></span></em></p> <p><em>Image: Getty Images</em></p>

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18 things your electrician wishes you knew

<p><strong>I'm not unskilled labour</strong></p><p>I’ve spent four to eight years in apprentice school learning how to plan, install, inspect and repair electrical products. Don’t insult my intelligence by implying otherwise.</p><p><strong>Please don't try to do it on your own</strong></p><p>Electricity is complicated and dangerous. If you don’t know what you’re doing, you could start a fire or get electrocuted – sometimes fatally.</p><p>Pretty much anything beyond plugging something into the wall should be left to a professional. The cost of my visit is nothing compared to the price of your safety.</p><p><strong>Call as early as possible</strong></p><p>Don’t call at the end of the day if you want same-day service. After 4:30 or 5:30pm, I need to pay my workers overtime, so I’ll charge you more to make up for it.</p><p>Calling first thing in the morning lets me fit your job into my day – and you’ll see a lower bill.</p><p><strong>Look at reviews, not just price</strong></p><p>Online reviews are useful when you’re on the hunt for a trustworthy electrician. If the person with the lowest quote also has the worst ratings, it’s worth shelling out a bit more.</p><p>If that cheaper electrician messes up, you’ll just need to call me (and my higher price) and pay more overall.</p><p><strong>I can't fix everything </strong></p><p>I don’t specialise in installing dishwashers or washing machines, so please don’t call me about them. You’re better off finding a plumber.</p><p><strong>Get as local as you can </strong></p><p>The farther I need to travel to get to you, the more time is taken out of my day – and I’ll factor that into your bill.</p><p>Finding someone closer to your neighbourhood might be able to charge you less.</p><p><strong>If the job gets bigger, don't argue if the bill gets higher</strong></p><p>My original quote is based on the project you called me in for. If I find out there’s actually a larger issue at hand, I’ll need to increase my price to match the scope of the project.</p><p>I’m not ripping you off, I’m just making sure I get compensated for the extra work.</p><p><strong>Give me the pay I deserve</strong></p><p>Some customers get sticker shock, but I’m not trying to rip you off. You only see the half-hour of work I did in your home, but that’s not the whole story.</p><p>I spent years training, and now I need to pay my crew (who went out of their way to get to your home), plus deal with marketing and other costs of running a business – and my prices reflect that.</p><p><strong>Prepare the work area in advance</strong></p><p>Clearing the work space and moving any furniture before I arrive means I can get in and out faster, so I can charge you for less of my time.</p><p><strong>We're happy to help with seemingly simple tasks</strong></p><p>Installing a ceiling fan might not sound complicated, but it’s nothing like putting together a barbecue yourself.</p><p>You’re trying to figure out the motor while hoisting a 30kg fan three metres above the floor. Call me up – I can finish the job faster and safer than you could.</p><p><strong>Pick your own parts</strong></p><p>Don’t describe the kind of ceiling fan or light fixture you’re looking for and expect me to find one that fits your vision perfectly.</p><p>Go to the hardware store and pick up your own items so you can guarantee they’re what you want. Just get in touch with me before you buy it in case it won’t fit correctly.</p><p><strong>If you're happy, tell your friends</strong></p><p>One of the best ways to show your appreciation is telling your family and friends about me. My business thrives on word-of-mouth recommendations.</p><p><strong>Please be careful with space heaters</strong></p><p>I get called in all the time for problems with space heaters. If you leave the house while the heater is running, the connection could get loose and burn up the plug, which could start a fire.</p><p>Give your space heater the space it needs, and turn it off when you aren’t using it.</p><p><strong>Don't blame me for your future problems</strong></p><p>If I was working on your bedroom lighting and an outlet in your garage stops working a few days later, that’s just a coincidence.</p><p>I’ll come back for the second project, but don’t expect me to do it for free because I “broke” it the last time.</p><p>If I wasn’t working with that circuit, this new problem is unrelated.</p><p><strong>Your air conditioner uses a ton of power</strong></p><p>Window AC units blast for hours at time and use massive amounts of energy. An extension cord – and usually even sharing the circuit powering your AC with something else – overloads the wires.</p><p>If they get too hot, the wires could short out and start a fire. Make sure the unit gets its own circuit, meaning a switch on your electrical panel dedicated to your AC and nothing else.</p><p><strong>Your light bulbs might not fit the fixture</strong></p><p>Older light fixtures won’t necessarily work with energy-efficient CFL and LED bulbs. If you want to stay away from incandescent light bulbs, you might need to replace the whole fixture.</p><p><strong>Have your circuits labelled</strong></p><p>Labelling the switches on your circuit board will save me guesswork (and time).</p><p>Hiring either me or another electrician will make the job easier in the future, so we don’t need to turn every single one off before getting to work.</p><p><strong>I'm not an evil corportation</strong></p><p>Most of us come from family-owned companies who are just trying to do right by the customer.</p><p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p><p><em>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://www.readersdigest.com.au/food-home-garden/home-tips/18-things-your-electrician-wishes-you-knew?pages=1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Reader's Digest</a>. </em></p>

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Friendship bubble announced for under-18s

<p dir="ltr">The NSW government has announced the establishment of a “friend bubble” for people under the age of 18 within the state.</p> <p dir="ltr">The “friend” or “playdate” bubble will allow three young people under the age of 18 to meet up for quality social time.</p> <p dir="ltr">The members of each bubble must live within the same LGA, or within five kilometres of each other, and any supervising adults must be fully vaccinated.</p> <p dir="ltr">The new change was signed off by the NSW government and is set to take effect from Tuesday September 21st.</p> <p dir="ltr">Fifteen-year-old school student Alyssa Horan spoke at the daily NSW press conference to celebrate the announcement.</p> <p dir="ltr">"Children and young people definitely want to do the right thing and also be able to socialise because lockdown is incredibly isolating for everyone," she said.</p> <p dir="ltr">"Helping everyone feel connected will undoubtedly benefit their mental health."</p> <p dir="ltr">Deputy Premier for NSW John Barilaro said the new bubble will come as a reward to both parents and children after months of lockdown restrictions and isolating conditions of at-home learning.</p> <p dir="ltr">"We're in school holidays, kids have done it really, really tough, parents have done it tough," Mr Barilaro told <em>Today</em>.</p> <p dir="ltr">"The mental strain, the wellbeing of our kids are important. So the crisis committee made a decision that we'll allow those kids to come together, just like we have the adult single bubbles but that's for the vaccinated.”</p> <p dir="ltr">"For kids you don't have to be vaccinated and we'll allow some kids to come together during the school holidays."</p> <p dir="ltr">The announcement comes as Pfizer confirms their COVID-19 vaccine is safe and works for children between the ages of 5 and 11, as well as Moderna becoming widely available for kids.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credit: Shutterstock</em></p>

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18-year-old’s tragic plea to live

<p><span>Paige Simpson’s life changed suddenly after being rushed to the hospital on her 18th birthday.</span><br /><br /><span>The healthy, happy teen was told she had Brain Stem Glioma — a cancerous tumour mostly found to impact children and young adults under the age of 20.</span><br /><br /><span>While Ms Simpson was meant to undergo a “straightforward” operation in November last year to remove the tumour, the family ended up having to deal with the most “terrifying” seven hours of their lives.</span><br /><br /><span>“The tumour was wrapped around nerves going into her brain, making it extremely complicated and difficult,” Brisbane mum Carloyn Cross explained to <em>news.com.au.</em></span></p> <p><span>“We thought that was scary, but that was just the beginning.”</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7842308/paige-simpson-3.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/3a64f1808eaf45ef82dd90d68cfd12a8" /><br /><br /><span>Carloyn said her daughter realised something was wrong when she felt as though one side of her face was “falling off”.</span><br /><br /><span>“The following week it just got worse so I took her to the doctor.”</span><br /><br /><span>Their local doctor ruled that Paige simply had Bell’s palsy, which is a muscle weakness that causes one half of the face to droop.</span><br /><br /><span>Carolyn couldn’t be convinced however, especially when Paige’s face began to get worse.</span><br /><br /><span>“I took her back to the doctor, he referred us to a neurosurgeon and after we got the results of an MRI, that’s when he called saying we need to go to the hospital straight away for the biopsy,” she said.</span><br /><br /><span>“We all cried so much when we found out what was happening, but Paige has been remarkably resilient.”</span><br /><br /><span>Paige has since undergone 12 weeks of both radiation therapy and oral chemotherapy – but sadly her efforts have been in vain as neither treatment has been successful in reducing the glioma.</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7842309/paige-simpson.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/b62e4084196e4cdeb81b833b2dd204cd" /><br /><br /><span>Avastin – a tumour-starving therapy – works to reduce the size of the tumour and involves Paige being hooked to a drip every two weeks for 1.5 hours.</span><br /><br /><span>“This worked in reducing the size of the glioma, but, the glioma has also started fragmenting and is now in her spinal fluid, accumulating in her spine and the skin of her brain,” Carolyn explained.</span><br /><br /><span>Sadly enough, the family have just received the “awful” news that the next treatment doctors want to try is not on the Pharmaceutical Benefits Scheme in Australia.</span><br /><br /><span>Each injection costs $6000 a fortnight.</span><br /><br /><span>“If she doesn’t get the injections (an immunotherapy called Keytruda) those little fragments will become bigger and they’re all throughout her spine and skin of her brain,” the heartbroken mother admitted.</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7842307/paige-simpson-2.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/9a68ef2fdd6d434bb0ce670cb2b29e08" /><br /><br /><span>“She won’t be with us for a long time if we don't get them.</span><br /><br /><span>“Of course we want to do everything we can to keep her alive, her life is only just getting to the good part, but the Australian Government doesn’t provide any financial benefit until we’ve contributed $70,000,” Carolyn said.</span><br /><br /><span>Carloyn has started a GoFundMe page to help cover the debilitating costs.</span><br /><br /><span>“We have already exhausted our savings and I never wanted to do crowd funding and have people feeling sorry for us, especially because Paige just wants to remain so positive,” Carolyn said.</span><br /><br /><span>“But it’s got to a point where we can’t do it ourselves anymore and really did need help.”</span><br /><br /><span>The family is hoping to raise $80,000.</span><br /><br /><span>Carolyn said any donation is gratefully accepted, “so that we can hit our target and keep our beautiful Paige with us”.</span></p> <p><em>Images: Supplied</em></p>

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Nicole Kidman overjoyed as 18-storey portrait is unveiled in Sydney

<p>A huge, 18-storey hand-painted portrait of Nicole Kidman has been unveiled over the weekend in Sydney, to celebrate the release of her new series, The Undoing.</p> <p>On Monday, Kidman was filled with joy as she saw the artwork in person for the first time at the famous Kings Cross street.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CHoUS9VJVvE/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="13"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CHoUS9VJVvE/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Nicole Kidman (@nicolekidman)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p>"WOW! Thank you Sydney for celebrating #TheUndoing It's back tonight xx," she captioned alongside a picture of her standing below the giant mural.</p> <p>The painting took 11 artists and over 400 hours to complete. It was placed on the side of the apartment building, Top of the Town, in Darlinghurst on Saturday and has made history for being the largest hand-painted mural in the Southern Hemisphere.</p> <p>The portrait is the size of an Olympic swimming pool and was commissioned by BINGE to celebrate Kidman’s new series.</p> <p>In the theme of the series, Kidman's portrait will "come undone" as it unravels into a second artwork from today, Tuesday November 17.</p> <p>The project is temporary. The building will be painted over and restored back to its original state on November 23.</p> <p>The Undoing, which Kidman stars in alongside actor Hugh Grant, tells the story of a Manhattan couple who are embroiled in a murder mystery.</p>

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Daniel Andrews backs down on 18-month state of emergency

<div class="post_body_wrapper"> <div class="post_body"> <div class="body_text "> <p>Victorian Premier Daniel Andrews has backed down on his plans to extend Victoria's state of emergency by 12 months.</p> <p>A state of emergency gives police extraordinary powers to search, arrest and detain, was first declared in Victoria on March 16th and is due to expire on September 13th after many extensions.</p> <p>Andrews initially wanted to change legislation so the state of emergency could be extended but was met with a furious backlash from the public and civil rights groups.</p> <p>He eventually came to a compromise and has offered to accept a six-month extension instead of 12.</p> <p>His compromise was also directly addressed by Prime Minister Scott Morrison, who asked him to reconsider his 12-month extension proposal.</p> <p>The prime minister said it was "important to dispel any uncertainty and get clarity".  </p> <p>"People are concerned that lockdowns would extend for another 12 months,' Mr Morrison said in Canberra.</p> <p>"I know that the announcement that was made by the premier the other day about that extension of the additional 12 months. I've raised our concerns with the premier about that. I did that directly. I know others have. I know Labor figures have."</p> <p>The Australian Medical Association made a brutal submission to the state parliamentary enquiry into the government's handling of the coronavirus pandemic.</p> <p>"The situation in Victoria has deteriorated dramatically. One senior AMA Victoria figure recently stated that it has been like witnessing a 'slow car crash'," AMA state president Professor Julian Rait wrote. </p> <p>"[But] by far the largest problem in the past few months has been Victoria’s mismanagement of its hotel quarantine system," Prof Rait wrote. </p> <p>"It appears that flaws in Victoria’s hotel quarantine system may be the main driver of the high number of cases of community transmission currently occurring in Victoria."</p> <p>Morrison also addressed the "significant failures" over Victoria's hotel quarantine failures.</p> <p>"There have been significant failures there. And that has contributed significantly, overwhelmingly - almost entirely, I'd have to say - to the community outbreak we've seen," he said. </p> <p>"I have no doubt that the Victorian government feels as strongly about this as I do in terms of the impact it has had on the people of Victoria. </p> <p>"They are now subject to the most horrendous restrictions that are regrettably necessary, as I said at the time. But … we can't ­ignore what has occurred."</p> </div> </div> </div>

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Victoria’s State of Emergency to be extended 18 months

<p>Victorian Premier Daniel Andrews has announced the State of Emergency will be extended to 18 months and lockdown restrictions will go beyond September.</p> <p>Mr Andrews says the state cannot afford to lower the restrictions, and as a result the government will continue a State of Emergency which will give them the power to impose stricter lockdown restrictions.</p> <p>“It is not an unlimited extension, it is nothing more than a recognition that this virus won't be over on September 30,” the premier said.</p> <p>“I would love nothing more for there to be no need for any rules on September 14, but I don't think that is the reality.”</p> <p>While the Public Health and Wellbeing Act 2008 only allows a State of Emergency to operate for six months, Mr Andrews says that amendments are being made to change it.</p> <p>“That is the legal instrument that allows rules about face masks, about COVID safe work plans in workplaces large and small, that is the legal instrument that sits behind density limits in pubs and cafes and restaurants,” he said.</p> <p>“Things like a positive person, someone who has got this virus, and required to isolate at home.</p> <p>“We will extend the state of emergency provisions within the public health and well-being act for a maximum of a further 12 months.”</p> <p>Mr Andrews said the decision to ask parliament to extend the restrictions was about “protecting everyone” in Victoria. </p> <p>“They will need to be in place after September 13. I wish that wasn't the case. Even if there had not been a second wave these rules would still need to be in place,” he said.</p> <p>“Because there is not a jurisdiction in the world that is going to just be going back to absolute normal, where there are no limits on restaurants, no limits in cafes, no masks at all, no need to isolate if you've actually got this.</p> <p>“All of those very common sense provisions they need when you're beyond the 13 September. The law doesn't quite provide for that. We want to make a change.”</p> <p>The premier warns that if there is no vaccine within the next 12 months, the state may have to extend restrictions again.</p> <p>“We would be in a similar position to now where we would have to go back to the Parliament. No-one is asking for an unlimited five years, 10 years, run forever. 12 months we think is appropriate. That is to say it is foreseeable,” he said.</p> <p>“I hope we are wrong in predicting this will still need rules in 12 months. Hopefully we have got a vaccine by then.</p> <p>“But even then, the vaccine will take time to develop, manufacture, administer, and the efficacy of the vaccine, what is the life-cycle of that, does it protect you for three months, six months, here, forever, the whole notion of boosters, those sorts of things.</p> <p>“So this is nothing more or less than a logical extension in time, changing the law of the state to ensure it is equal to the challenge of state faces.”</p>

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Duchess Meghan reaches out after 18-year-old woman was set on fire in alleged hate crime

<p>The Duchess of Sussex has spoken with an 18-year-old biracial woman who was allegedly set on fire in a hate crime.</p> <p>Duchess Meghan spoke with Althea Bernstein in a 40-minute phone call on Saturday to offer support and talk about self-care and being biracial, said Michael Johnson, the CEO of the Boys and Girls Clubs of Dane County.</p> <p>Bernstein, a college student from Wisconsin, USA, was driving on Wednesday morning when she was stopped at a red light and heard a “racial epithet” yelled out, the <a href="https://edition.cnn.com/2020/06/27/us/wisconsin-hate-crime-investigation/index.html">police report</a> said.</p> <p>“She looked and saw four men, all white. She says one used a spray bottle to deploy a liquid on her face and neck, and then threw a flaming lighter at her, causing the liquid to ignite,” the report stated.</p> <p>The young woman was able to put out the flames and drive home. She later reported the incident to the police and received treatment for her face and neck burns at hospital.</p> <p>Madison Mayor Satya Rhodes-Conway described the incident as a hate crime the following day.</p> <p>“This is a horrifying and absolutely unacceptable crime,” she said in a statement.</p> <p>“While we are still learning more about the details, current information suggests this may have been a premeditated crime targeted toward people of colour, which makes the incident even more disturbing.”</p> <p>Bernstein was connected to the Duchess through Johnson, who has been acting as the teenager’s spokesman.</p> <p>“[The Duchess] applauded her for the way that she responded and pretty much said, ‘Hey Michael, give me her cell phone number. I want to stay in touch. And let me know when you want me to come back and talk to people in Wisconsin’,” Johnson told <em><a href="https://www.channel3000.com/michael-johnson-speaks-with-prince-harry-meghan-markle-about-madison-protests/">Channel 3000</a></em>.</p> <p>“Meghan lifted her spirits.”</p> <p>Johnson shared that Prince Harry joined the call for about 10 minutes and that the Prince spoke with Bernstein about the importance of young people’s voices.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">On the phone with Prince Harry and Meghan Markel the Duchess of Sussex. Prince Harry shared that young people voices matter and Meghan has agreed to talk with girls in Wisconsin and we will be scheduling that soon. Thank you for caring! <a href="https://t.co/FoVs6ewRgo">pic.twitter.com/FoVs6ewRgo</a></p> — Michael Johnson (@MJohnsonCEO) <a href="https://twitter.com/MJohnsonCEO/status/1276994890078064640?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">June 27, 2020</a></blockquote> <p>Meghan and Harry have been talking to community leaders about ways to contribute to the Black Lives Matter movement in the wake of the killing of George Floyd, <em><a href="https://people.com/royals/meghan-markle-calls-althea-bernstein-hate-crime-victim/">PEOPLE</a> </em>reported.</p> <p>“They are holding calls with community leaders and organizations but are doing that privately as they continue to see how they can play a role. But they also want to learn and talk about it like the rest of us,” a source told the outlet.</p>

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Why would anyone want to sit on a plane for over 18 hours? An economist takes the world’s longest flight

<p>Recently <a href="https://www.qantasnewsroom.com.au/media-releases/qantas-to-operate-project-sunrise-research-flights-direct-new-york-london-to-australia/">Qantas announced</a> plans to conduct test flights from New York and London to Sydney and two other Australian cities.</p> <p>If commercialized, these routes would become the longest in the world at about 19 hours. Qantas said it will conduct test flights <a href="https://www.wsj.com/articles/qantas-wires-up-people-for-19-hour-endurance-flight-11566471393">with only employees</a> on board to ensure the flights are safe and comfortable enough for paying customers.</p> <p>I heard this news after finishing a round-trip on what is currently the world’s <a href="https://www.travelandleisure.com/airlines-airports/longest-flights-in-the-world">longest flight</a>, the 18 hours and 45 minutes Singapore Airlines schedules to get from <a href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/ericrosen/2018/10/11/worlds-new-longest-flight-from-singapore-to-newark-launches-today/#6a42a6a12aca">Newark, New Jersey, to Singapore</a>, a route that began last October. The return trip is slightly quicker. Fortunately for me, there were favorable winds so each way took about 30 minutes less than scheduled.</p> <p>Being aloft twice for the better part of a day gave me plenty of time to ponder the origins and <a href="http://businessmacroeconomics.com/">economics</a> of long-distance flights – with plenty of time to spare for binge watching.</p> <p><strong>Talk about a long flight</strong></p> <p>Pilots and airlines have been pushing the boundaries of flight times since the earliest days of air travel. In fact, 19 hours is rather quick for the industry’s trailblazers.</p> <p>The <a href="https://www.wired.com/2009/06/dayintech-0609/">first plane to make it across the Pacific</a> took off from Oakland, California, in 1928. It took the aircraft, dubbed the “Southern Cross,” <a href="https://www.thisdayinaviation.com/tag/southern-cross/">three long flights</a> to get to its final destination in Australia: 27 and a half hours to Hawaii, 34 and a half hours to Fiji and a final 21 and a half miles to Brisbane. In all, the pilot and his crew covered about 7,000 miles in 10 days – all without losing any luggage.</p> <p>A few years later, in 1931, two daredevils in search of a US$25,000 prize <a href="https://www.wired.com/2010/10/1005first-nonstop-transpacific-flight">flew from Tokyo to the state of Washington</a> in the first nonstop flight over the Pacific Ocean. To save weight and fuel, the pilots even threw out their landing gear after takeoff. When they reached the U.S., they crash landed – but survived to claim the prize. The flight took 41 hours and covered more than 5,500 miles.</p> <p>These super-long flights, of course, were taken by daredevil pilots with no passengers. And they were very dangerous. One of the most famous aviation failures involved <a href="https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2019/07/19/amelia-earhart-found-disappearance-theories/1475518001/">Amelia Earhart</a>, who disappeared in 1937 while attempting to cross part of the Pacific on a world circling flight.</p> <p><strong>Six days and 60 hours</strong></p> <p>The <a href="https://www.clipperflyingboats.com/transpacific-airline-service">first service</a> to ferry paying customers across the Pacific was created by Pan Am in October 1936.</p> <p>The trip started from San Francisco and ended in Manila, capital of the Philippines. It took six days and about 60 hours of flying time. The plane flew during the day and made stops in Hawaii, Midway, Wake and Guam at night. The longest leg, from San Francisco to Hawaii, <a href="https://airandspace.si.edu/exhibitions/hawaii-by-air/online/pan-am-clippers/pan-am-spans-the-pacific.cfm">took 18 and a half hours</a>.</p> <p>Pam Am’s planes, called the “Clippers,” <a href="https://www.clipperflyingboats.com/">didn’t need airports</a>. They were specially designed to <a href="https://airandspace.si.edu/exhibitions/hawaii-by-air/online/pan-am-clippers/pan-am-spans-the-pacific.cfm">take off and land in the water</a>. The planes <a href="https://airandspace.si.edu/exhibitions/hawaii-by-air/online/pan-am-clippers/what-was-it-like-to-fly.cfm">were also quite luxurious</a> and even had separate areas for eating and sleeping.</p> <p>But all that luxury while spanning the globe was quite expensive.</p> <p>The one-way fare from San Francisco to Manila <a href="https://www.sfgate.com/bayarea/article/China-Clipper-s-flight-made-history-75-years-ago-3165474.php">was $950</a>, or $17,400 in <a href="https://www.bls.gov/data/inflation_calculator.htm">today’s dollars</a>.</p> <p>Fortunately, the cost of flying these long routes – in terms of both money and time – has come down dramatically. These days you can fly direct from San Francisco to Manila in business class for around $3,000, including the return flight. The trip to Manila takes just 14 hours.</p> <p>Today’s flights are also a lot safer. The concern for many passengers is not crashing but instead <a href="https://www.popsci.com/are-long-airplane-flights-bad-for-your-health/">health risks like deep vein thrombosis</a>, a type of blood clot.</p> <p><strong>Saving time, money and bags</strong></p> <p>Still, even if things have improved, I think most of us agree that <a href="https://www.cleveland.com/pdworld/2008/02/flying_isnt_fun_anymore.html">flying is not fun</a>. Airlines <a href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/danielreed/2018/04/26/airline-customer-satisfaction-scores-fell-in-2018-even-as-more-people-flew-on-them-than-ever-before/#3e9ae4ca2ddc">regularly rank near the bottom</a> among industries in customer satisfaction surveys.</p> <p>So why would we want to increase the amount of time spent 30,000 feet above the ground in a metal tube with wings?</p> <p>For one thing, it means less total travel time. For example, my flight to Singapore would have taken three and a half hours longer with a layover in Hong Kong.</p> <p>But if you’re someone who might prefer a break during a long flight halfway around the world, a more practical benefit is that removing the connection also reduces the chance <a href="https://pp.bme.hu/tr/article/view/1870">your luggage is lost</a>, since bags are handled fewer times. Almost half of all bags delayed in 2017 <a href="https://www.sita.aero/resources/type/surveys-reports/baggage-report-2018">were a result</a> of baggage handlers missing connections.</p> <p>Flying a full plane load of passengers directly also saves airlines money – which often translates into lower prices for consumers too. An extra layover at a major airport <a href="https://www.fraport.com/en/misc/binaer/business-and-partner/airlines-cargo/airport-charges/infographic--airport-charges-at-frankfurt-airport/_jcr_content.file/fraport_entgelte_eng.pdf">can be expensive</a>, with fees for landing, takeoff, parking, noise abatement and security. Airports also charge extra for <a href="https://www.fraport.com/en/misc/binaer/business-and-partner/airlines-cargo/airport-charges/list-of-service-charges/_jcr_content.file/list-of-service-charges---july-2019.pdf">optional services</a> like cleaning, towing and providing electricity to a plane while it is parked at the gate.</p> <p><strong>Expect more ultra-long flights</strong></p> <p>One thing that was interesting about the Qantas announcement is all the research it plans to do during its test flights – scheduled for October through December – on the passengers themselves.</p> <p>Scientists and medical experts will monitor sleep patterns, food and beverage consumption, lighting, physical movement and in-flight entertainment to assess their impact on health and well-being – and prevent any blood clots in the legs.</p> <p>Using this data, Qantas hopes to make ultra-long flying a more pleasant experience. After all, the main reason to take a single 19-hour flight is to arrive faster and feeling better than taking multiple flights to the same destination.</p> <p>Whether you love or hate flying, expect longer flights in the future as more efficient planes allow airlines to go ever farther. Given we seem to be <a href="https://theconversation.com/despite-hectic-multitasking-lives-were-wired-to-binge-on-tv-24158">wired for binge watching</a>, I don’t think this trend is so bad.</p> <p>I could have actually used a longer flight. My effort to binge the second season of “Star Trek: Discovery” was abruptly interrupted as we descended back into Newark, with just 10 minutes left in the final episode.</p> <p><em>Written by Jay L. Zagorsky. Republished with permission of </em><a href="https://theconversation.com/why-would-anyone-want-to-sit-on-a-plane-for-over-18-hours-an-economist-takes-the-worlds-longest-flight-122433"><em>The Conversation</em></a><em>. </em></p>

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Fashion frenzy: The $18 Kmart skirt flying off the racks

<p>Kmart has continued to surprise shoppers with its fashionable yet affordable apparel.</p> <p>After making waves with its <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.oversixty.com.au/finance/money-banking/the-20-kmart-dress-flying-off-the-racks/" target="_blank">$20 leopard dress </a>and <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.oversixty.com.au/finance/retirement-income/flying-off-the-shelves-the-10-kmart-item-you-need-for-your-winter-wardrobe/" target="_blank">$10 leopard lace-up sneakers</a>, the discount department store has made a splash with another animal print fashion item: an $18 leopard midi skirt.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/BzkVyd1BLrE/" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BzkVyd1BLrE/" target="_blank">A post shared by MISS WALSH (@adventureswithmisswalsh)</a> on Jul 6, 2019 at 1:00am PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><iframe src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Faddictedtobargains%2Fphotos%2Fa.165907187082096%2F937437629929044%2F%3Ftype%3D3&amp;width=500" width="500" height="502" style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" allow="encrypted-media"></iframe></p> <p>Made from satin, the item has been compared to a US$180 (AU$260) skirt from designer brand Réalisation.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/BwK-RGClJPz/" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BwK-RGClJPz/" target="_blank">Dreamgirl @cocobaudelle photographed by @thistlebrown wearing our original Naomi Wild Things skirt in New York 🐆</a></p> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;">A post shared by <a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/realisationpar/" target="_blank"> Réalisation Par</a> (@realisationpar) on Apr 12, 2019 at 2:59pm PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>The Kmart skirt has received praises on social media sites, with shoppers saying they will seek out the item on their next visit.</p> <p>“I want this,” one commented.</p> <p>“Love it,” another wrote.</p> <p>Those who bought the item also left rave reviews. Australian fashion blogger Tina Abeysekara said she recently bought the skirt.</p> <p>“$18 silky satin midi. Feels fantastic, no wonder there was barely any left,” she shared on her Instagram account on Tuesday morning.</p> <p>Another woman wrote, “I couldn’t resist picking this skirt up from [Kmart] yesterday. $18 and it’s super cute!”</p> <p>If you've got your heart set on adding this skirt to your wardrobe, you will have to head in to your local Kmart store. Unfortunately, the skirt has not been made available for online purchase on Kmart’s website.</p>

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Want to live to 100? Follow these 18 simple rules

<p>Follow these 18 simple rules and you won’t just live longer—you’ll make those (many, many) years count.</p> <p><strong>1. Stop smoking</strong></p> <p>Four years after doing so, your chance of having a heart attack falls to that of someone who has never smoked.</p> <p>After ten years, your lung cancer risk drops to nearly that of a nonsmoker.</p> <p><strong>2. Exercise daily</strong></p> <p>Thirty minutes of activity is all that’s necessary. Three ten-minute walks will do it.</p> <p><strong>3. Eat your produce</strong></p> <p>Fruit, vegetables … whatever your favourites are, just make sure you eat them every day.</p> <p><strong>4. Get screened</strong></p> <p>No need to go test-crazy; just get the health screenings recommended for your stage of life.</p> <p>Check with your doctor to make sure you’re up-to-date.</p> <p>Just be honest. How much you smoke, drink, eat, exercise and whether you use protection during sex or while out in the sun matters.</p> <p><strong>5. Make sleep a priority</strong></p> <p>For most adults who want to live to 100, that means seven to eight hours every night.</p> <p>If you have a tough time turning off the light, remember that sleep deprivation raises the risk of heart disease, cancer, and more.</p> <p><strong>6. Ask your doctor about low-dose aspirin</strong></p> <p>Heart attack, stroke, even cancer—a single 81 mg tablet per day may fight them all.</p> <p>(Aspirin comes with risks, though, so don’t start on your own.)</p> <p>If you’re older, you are at risk from the major problem of over-prescribing.</p> <p><strong>7. Know your blood pressure numbers</strong></p> <p>It’s not called the silent killer just to give your life a little more drama.</p> <p>Keep yours under 120/80 if you want to live to 100.</p> <p><strong>8. Stay connected</strong></p> <p>Loneliness is another form of stress.</p> <p>Friends, family, and furry pets help you feel loved.</p> <p><strong>9. Cut back on saturated fat</strong></p> <p>It’s the raw material your body uses for producing LDL, bad cholesterol.</p> <p>For decades, doctors and medical organisations have viewed saturated fat as the raw material for a heart attack.</p> <p><strong>10. Get help for depression</strong></p> <p>It doesn’t just feel bad; it does bad things to your body.</p> <p>In fact, when tacked onto diabetes and heart disease, it increases risk of early death by as much as 30 percent.</p> <p><strong>11. Manage your stress</strong></p> <p>The doctors we surveyed say that living with uncontrolled stress is more destructive to your health than being 30 pounds overweight.</p> <p><strong>12. Have a higher purpose</strong></p> <p>As one physician advised, “Strive to achieve something bigger than yourself.”</p> <p>By giving back, you give to yourself.</p> <p>Just try to keep your energy levels up for the personal journey ahead.</p> <p><strong>13. Load up at breakfast</strong></p> <p>People in “Blue Zones”—areas with high life expectancies—eat the most at breakfast, then have little or nothing for dinner.</p> <p>Front-loading calories can ward off hungry all day, keeping your weight in check.</p> <p><strong>14. Start fasting</strong></p> <p>You don’t need to go days without food.</p> <p>Simply limiting eating to eight hours of the day gives your body more time to finish its six to twelve hours of digestion.</p> <p>After that, it goes into “fasting” mode, burning stored fat.</p> <p><strong>15. Cook at home</strong></p> <p>Not only do you get to control the ingredients and make healthier choices, but the act of cooking is a mini workout.</p> <p>New to the kitchen and want to save some money?</p> <p><strong>16. Have a sit-down meal</strong></p> <p>Multi-tasking during meals, such as while driving or rushing to get out the door, can put stress hormones in the way of your body’s ability to digest, which won’t help you live to 100.</p> <p>Sit down, or better yet, gather the family together to get the bonus of social time while enjoying a meal together.</p> <p><strong>17. Save up</strong></p> <p>Most people who live to 100 are financially secure.</p> <p>Worrying about money (and how to pay for healthcare) could get in the way of a long, healthy life.</p> <p><strong>18. Focus on the good stuff</strong></p> <p>Research shows people who live to 100 tend to complain less than younger adults.</p> <p>Their lack of gripes could mean they’re better at handling bad situations.</p> <p><em>This article first appeared in </em><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/true-stories-lifestyle/want-live-100-follow-these-18-simple-rules?items_per_page=All">Reader’s Digest.</a><em> For more of what you love from the world’s best-loved magazine, </em><a href="http://readersdigest.innovations.com.au/c/readersdigestemailsubscribe?utm_source=over60&amp;utm_medium=articles&amp;utm_campaign=RDSUB&amp;keycode=WRA93V">here’s our best subscription offer.</a> <a href="http://readersdigest.innovations.co.nz/c/readersdigestemailsubscribe?utm_source=over60&amp;utm_medium=articles&amp;utm_campaign=RDSUB&amp;keycode=WRN93V"></a></p> <p><img style="width: 100px !important; height: 100px !important;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7820640/1.png" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/f30947086c8e47b89cb076eb5bb9b3e2" /></p>

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Inside Bruce Willis’ $18 million New York mansion

<p>Bruce Willis and his family are looking to part ways with their luxury New York estate, as the <em>Die Hard</em> actor originally put his mega mansion up for sale for $18.2 million dollars in January according to the <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.wsj.com/articles/bruce-willis-asks-12-95-million-for-new-york-country-retreat-11547740913" target="_blank"><em>Wall Street Journal.</em></a></p> <p>But now, as the market continues to soften, the home has seen a price drop to $13.83 million.</p> <p>Willis, 63, and wife Emma told the publication that they are letting their Bedford Corners home go “to return to the West coast and make [their] home there".</p> <p>“The only reason we are giving it up is because we are so far form our California family, which is why we have decided to return to the West Coast and make our home there,” the couple said in a statement.</p> <p>“Our youngest daughter Mabel said last week that she wishes we could put lots of balloons on our house, like they did in the movie <em>Up</em> and send it to the West Coast. I agree, that would be perfect,” said Willis. </p> <p>According to their listing agent Ann Cutbill Lenane of Douglas Elliman, the pair also own an apartment in Manhattan, where the family regularly stay.</p> <p>Willis originally purchased the property for $17 million in 2014.</p> <p>The home is crafted with a rustic exterior, and also features an additional three guest cottages.</p> <p>With high ceilings and large windows, the estate offers an abundance of natural light.</p> <p>The enormous property comes with five spacious bedrooms and the kitchen comes packed with state-of-the-art appliances.</p> <p>There is also a playroom for children, a media centre/theatre and a temperature controlled wine cellar.</p> <p>The outdoor area includes a pool and tennis court.</p> <p>Scroll through the gallery above to sneak a peek inside Bruce Willis’ mega mansion in New York.</p>

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18 simple rules to follow if you want to live to 100

<p>Sure, your genes have something to do with your life span, but the doctors we spoke to agreed that simple things can make a big dent in your risk of chronic disease.</p> <p><strong>1. Stop smoking</strong></p> <p>Four years after doing so, your chance of having a heart attack falls to that of someone who has never smoked.</p> <p>After 10 years, your lung cancer risk drops to nearly that of a non-smoker.</p> <p>Concerned? See your doctor as techniques for earlier detection and <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/conditions/smoking/Fighting-Lung-Cancer">new treatments for lung cancer exist</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>2. Exercise daily</strong></p> <p>Thirty minutes of activity is all that’s necessary. Three 10-minute walks will do it. Or if you are keen for a run, check out this expert advice on the<span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/fitness/running-pros-cons"> pros and cons of running</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>3. Eat your produce</strong></p> <p>Fruit, vegetables … whatever your favourites are, just make sure you eat them every day.</p> <p>This delicious fruit salad is ideal for <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/recipes/fruit-salad">upping your daily fruit count</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>4. Get screened</strong></p> <p>No need to go test-crazy; just get the health screenings recommended for your stage of life.</p> <p>Check with your doctor to make sure you’re up-to-date.</p> <p>Just be honest. How much you smoke, drink, eat, exercise and whether you use protection during sex or <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/tips/14-things-never-lie-your-doctor-about">while out in the sun matters</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>5. Make sleep a priority</strong></p> <p>For most adults who want to live to 100, that means seven to eight hours every night.</p> <p>If you have a tough time turning off the light, remember that sleep deprivation raises the risk of heart disease, cancer and more.</p> <p>We've debunked the common untruths surrounding sleep to <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/conditions/sleep/8-Myths-About-Sleep">help you get a good night’s rest</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>6. Ask your doctor about low-dose aspirin</strong></p> <p>Heart attack, stroke, even cancer – a single 81mg tablet per day may fight them all.</p> <p>(Aspirin comes with risks, though, so don’t start on your own.)</p> <p>If you’re older, you are at risk from the <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/conditions/heart-blood-pressure/when-medicines-do-more-harm-good">major problem of over-prescribing</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>7. Know your blood pressure numbers</strong></p> <p>It’s not called the silent killer just to give your life a little more drama.</p> <p>Keep yours under 120/80 if you want to live to 100.</p> <p>Keep an eye out for the <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/conditions/heart-blood-pressure/Six-Sneaky-Causes-of-High-Blood-Pressure">six sneaky causes of high blood pressure</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>8. Stay connected</strong></p> <p>Loneliness is another form of stress.</p> <p>Friends, family and furry pets help you feel loved.</p> <p>The following seven tools can help you navigate the <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/true-stories-lifestyle/learn-love-living-alone">treacherous shallows as well as the joys of solo living</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>9. Cut back on saturated fat</strong></p> <p>It’s the raw material your body uses for producing LDL, bad cholesterol.</p> <p>For decades, doctors and medical organisations have viewed saturated fat as the raw material for a heart attack.</p> <p>But newer research has some experts questioning <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/diet/Is-saturated-fat-bad-for-you">whether we’ve convicted the wrong criminal</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>10. Get help for depression</strong></p> <p>It doesn’t just feel bad; it does bad things to your body.</p> <p>In fact, when tacked onto diabetes and heart disease, it increases risk of early death by as much as 30 percent.</p> <p>Here's 10 surprising ways to be happier <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/conditions/mental-health/10-Surprising-Ways-to-Be-Happier-Without-Really-Trying">without really trying</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>11. Manage your stress</strong></p> <p>The doctors we surveyed say that living with uncontrolled stress is more destructive to your health than being 30 pounds overweight.</p> <p>Easy answer? Teach yourself to <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/true-stories-lifestyle/teach-yourself-meditate-and-beat-stress">meditate and beat stress</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>12. Have a higher purpose</strong></p> <p>As one physician advised, “Strive to achieve something bigger than yourself.”</p> <p>By giving back, you give to yourself.</p> <p>Just try to keep your <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/tips/How-to-Fix-Your-Own-Personal-Energy-Crisis">energy levels up for the personal journey ahead</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>13. Load up at breakfast</strong></p> <p>People in “Blue Zones” – areas with high life expectancies – eat the most at breakfast, then have little or nothing for dinner.</p> <p>Front-loading calories can ward off hunger all day, keeping your weight in check.</p> <p>Not a morning person? Check out these ways to make sure you wake up on the right side of the bed and <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/conditions/mental-health/12-ways-brighten-your-morning">ease into your day with a positive, calm attitude</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>14. Start fasting</strong></p> <p>You don’t need to go days without food.</p> <p>Simply limiting eating to eight hours of the day gives your body more time to finish its six to 12 hours of digestion.</p> <p>After that, it goes into “fasting” mode, burning stored fat.</p> <p>New research is discovering that you are WHEN you eat. In fact, the secret to better health could be as <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/diet/why-changing-when-you-eat-can-produce-immediate-results">simple as an early dinnertime</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>15. Cook at home</strong></p> <p>Not only do you get to control the ingredients and make healthier choices, but the act of cooking is a mini workout.</p> <p>New to the kitchen and want to save some money?</p> <p>Have a lot of fun by making homemade treats <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/recipes/8-edible-christmas-gifts-you-can-make-home">to give as gifts this Christmas</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>16. Have a sit-down meal</strong></p> <p>Multi-tasking during meals, such as while driving or rushing to get out the door, can put stress hormones in the way of your body’s ability to digest, which won’t help you live to 100.</p> <p>Sit down, or better yet, gather the family together to get the bonus of social time while enjoying a meal together.</p> <p>Take a look at these <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/diet/4-habits-eating-well">four good ways to cultivate healthy eating</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>17. Save up</strong></p> <p>Most people who live to 100 are financially secure.</p> <p>Worrying about money (and how to pay for healthcare) could get in the way of a long, healthy life.</p> <p>Save money in ways you've <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/money/save-money-ways-youve-never-thought-these-10-tips">never thought of before with these 10 tips</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>18. Focus on the good stuff</strong></p> <p>Research shows people who live to 100 tend to complain less than younger adults.</p> <p>Their lack of gripes could mean they’re better at handling bad situations.</p> <p>Have to deal with difficult people? Take a look at these <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/money/13-things-you-should-know-about-negotiating">13 things you should know about negotiating</a></span>.</p> <p><em>This article first appeared in <span><strong><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/true-stories-lifestyle/18-simple-rules-follow-if-you-want-live-100?items_per_page=All">Reader’s Digest.</a></strong></span> For more of what you love from the world’s best-loved magazine, here’s our best subscription <a href="http://readersdigest.innovations.com.au/c/readersdigestsubscribe?utm_source=readersdigest&amp;utm_campaign=RDSUB&amp;utm_medium=display&amp;keycode=WRA85S"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>offer</strong></span></a>.</em></p> <p><img style="width: 100px !important; height: 100px !important;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7820640/1.png" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/f30947086c8e47b89cb076eb5bb9b3e2" /></p>

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The Block judge Shaynna Blaze separates from husband of 18 years

<p>Resident judge on <em style="font-weight: inherit;">The Block</em> and interior designer, Shaynna Blaze, has announced that she’s separated from her husband, Steve Vaughan.</p> <p>The 55-year-old shared the news on Instagram that she is no longer in a relationship with her husband of 18 years.</p> <p>“Sometimes in life, our paths change directions and now this is one of those times for me with Steve and I separating,” she wrote.</p> <p>“I will not be making any further statements about this and whilst I appreciate your support I ask that you respect our right to privacy. Thank you, Shaynna.”</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/BmiSU5IlNJi/?utm_source=ig_embed" data-instgrm-version="9"> <div style="padding: 8px;"> <div style="background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 50.0% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;"> <div style="background: url(data:image/png; base64,ivborw0kggoaaaansuheugaaacwaaaascamaaaapwqozaaaabgdbtueaalgpc/xhbqaaaafzukdcak7ohokaaaamuexurczmzpf399fx1+bm5mzy9amaaadisurbvdjlvzxbesmgces5/p8/t9furvcrmu73jwlzosgsiizurcjo/ad+eqjjb4hv8bft+idpqocx1wjosbfhh2xssxeiyn3uli/6mnree07uiwjev8ueowds88ly97kqytlijkktuybbruayvh5wohixmpi5we58ek028czwyuqdlkpg1bkb4nnm+veanfhqn1k4+gpt6ugqcvu2h2ovuif/gwufyy8owepdyzsa3avcqpvovvzzz2vtnn2wu8qzvjddeto90gsy9mvlqtgysy231mxry6i2ggqjrty0l8fxcxfcbbhwrsyyaaaaaelftksuqmcc); display: block; height: 44px; margin: 0 auto -44px; position: relative; top: -22px; width: 44px;"></div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BmiSU5IlNJi/?utm_source=ig_embed" target="_blank">A post shared by shaynnablaze (@shaynnablaze)</a> on Aug 16, 2018 at 3:03am PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>The unexpected revelation comes just four months after Blaze shared with <a href="https://www.newidea.com.au"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em style="font-weight: inherit;">New Idea</em></strong></span></a> the secret to her happy marriage.</p> <p>“The secret is every time we go out, it actually is date night,” she told <em style="font-weight: inherit;">New Idea</em>.</p> <p>“You treat each other as your date, rather than just expecting them to always be there.</p> <p>“When you catch up, you just make sure that you’re present. You make sure that you’re there with each other and always touching base.”</p> <p>Vaughan, who is a personal trainer, was Blaze’s second husband.</p> <p>Blaze has two children, Jesse and Carly, from her first marriage. </p>

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